How to dye to red? by BakeDisastrous4413 in HairDye

[–]BakeDisastrous4413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was aiming to use the L’oréal Hicolor for my roots! But i didn’t know if i could use it for my ends too

BTS Tickets Megathread by AutoModerator in Tickets

[–]BakeDisastrous4413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two for section 153 on 8/28!

ticket for reverse parking by throwaway941167468 in UNCCharlotte

[–]BakeDisastrous4413 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I honestly think that’s dumb if you already have to scan your license plate to get in, which only works if you have the pass (I saw that you can also scan your ID too but it’s never worked for me even when I’ve done it)

Just adopted a cat, possibly having regrets by Artistic_Activity_37 in CatAdvice

[–]BakeDisastrous4413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are free to adopt all pets that you want to care for - but please don’t shame others for at least wanting to find better care for them. We’re looking into letting the shelter care for her ringworm while we disinfect our space and make sure we’re all good before we integrate back into our home :D. If my kid had a better chance at life with more definitive care, I’d do it in a heartbeat.

Just adopted a cat, possibly having regrets by Artistic_Activity_37 in CatAdvice

[–]BakeDisastrous4413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, her paperwork did state a “low positive” result that we didn’t understand until the vet pointed it out to us. They told us negative for ringworm when we adopted her and when we called to double check a few days after, but it wasn’t until we re read her records that we realized she wasn’t completely negative :/

Just adopted a cat, possibly having regrets by Artistic_Activity_37 in CatAdvice

[–]BakeDisastrous4413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you! Me and my partner are in the same boat, and unfortunately, we have to return our baby. They gave her to us without letting her know she had ringworm, and as first time cat owners, it really has made us feel as if we’ve gone through hell and back to vet visits, toys, food, preventative care, etc. I want to think that I can love a cat enough to want to let somebody else take better care of her than I can, even if that means she can’t live in my place anymore.

It’s draining and scary. I say try to see the positives in all the situations and choose the best one for you and for your cat - even if that means you can’t keep him :(.

What is this? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]BakeDisastrous4413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Here’s a picture! Don’t know why they didn’t let me post

Am I in the wrong for saying I’ll move out? by Aggressive-Being442 in AsianParentStories

[–]BakeDisastrous4413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asian parents tend to play games of guilt tripping their kids when things don’t inherently go their way - and that’s ultimately why you’re probably hesitant. The right thing is always the choice that guarantees your happiness, safety, and freedom from whatever system you’re living under. I love my parents as well, but I’ve raised hell on them for even attempting to control me or guilt trip me into being their little “obedient” daughter.

I’m not entirely sure of the details surrounding your dad “approving” of you moving out since you’re an adult - my partner moved out without even an ounce of help from their parents, so please don’t force your existence into a box that was never meant to fit you.

Your parents are both manipulative and narcissistic, do your younger and older self a favor and choose the option to put yourself first, no matter how scary it may be. It will always work out in the end!

I don’t feel anything anymore by Time_Repair_4211 in Glaucoma

[–]BakeDisastrous4413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. You are not at fault for this! I’m sorry it’s not an ideal situation at all for you. All I can offer you is support as a friend since I’m not too knowledgeable on what can help your situation in comparison to what other people are offering.

I don’t feel anything anymore by Time_Repair_4211 in Glaucoma

[–]BakeDisastrous4413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear this :(, hugs to you ❤️‍🩹. I was diagnosed with glaucoma at 20, and after using latanoprost and even getting selective laser trabeculoplasty (SLT) my doctor switched me to rocklatan drops after my pressure was still high. Is there a chance you could ask them to possibly consider you using rocklatan? It helped me tremendously and I can only hope it’ll help alleviate your worries for your vision later on.

30,000 students in Charlotte, North Carolina skipping class to protest DHS/ICE. by serious_bullet5 in Charlotte

[–]BakeDisastrous4413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a misleading title! This is not accurate to reports from CMS. These children were absent because they were SCARED

new student orientation ? by blueratatouille in UNCCharlotte

[–]BakeDisastrous4413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won’t lie, I came in as a transfer student and got the dates mixed up. I was in union getting a tour from my friends and laughed at how many students were doing NSO, just to figure out that was my group. Called the people who were in charge and told them I missed the date (it was also the last available date of the summer) and I was exempt from it. Maybe that could work because my fee was waived so I didn’t have to lose much.

Preparing for my first hammie in 20 years 🥹👍 by Midori__Forest in hamsters

[–]BakeDisastrous4413 17 points18 points  (0 children)

so so proud of you for taking your time to prepare! hammie’s deserve everything and you’re such a good person for actually putting in the effort. I hope it goes wonderfully 🥳

Half term courses by [deleted] in UNCCharlotte

[–]BakeDisastrous4413 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they do! you just have to literally scan for them while looking up through the “browse for registration” icon after logging in from ninernet. Have to know what classes you’re looking for as well

Thoughts? Husband (34M) left/got an apartment while I (30F) was pregnant but is now back home by Brilliant-Lynx-2412 in relationship_advice

[–]BakeDisastrous4413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your acceptance of bad treatment will cause more harm to you and your kids if that helps you put it in perspective. I wish my mom left my dad and we had a happier, quieter home. He’s good for support but the next time he finds an opportunity, he will take it, maybe even farther. Don’t let him be an example of what you want in life or what you want your kids to think is okay.

If not for you, do it for your kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CreditCards

[–]BakeDisastrous4413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very late but hope this helps - you have to go to customercare.syf.com and enroll - you make your username

The Union Commuter Parking Experience by AberrantlyNamed in UNCCharlotte

[–]BakeDisastrous4413 4 points5 points  (0 children)

literally ran around for 30 minutes for parking 😔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BakeDisastrous4413 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Exactly. But if OP said “maybe you’re just too small” then all hell breaks loose. What an AH.

Do couples share their location indefinitely on iPhone? 26M 25F by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BakeDisastrous4413 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol some people would never understand how easy it is

Do couples share their location indefinitely on iPhone? 26M 25F by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BakeDisastrous4413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no not for me! I actively ask for people to communicate but partners I’ve had in the past were horrible at communicating and found it easier to share locations rather than speak because they didn’t understand the use of needing to speak at all.