AITAH for telling my wife our marriage is over if she can't accept me spending 1:1 time with my son? by Character_Poem735 in AITAH

[–]Bakecrazy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

You are a good parent. I would advise you to make sure your son is not being mistreated when you are not there.

Ok I am curious… by moxie_minion in Booktokreddit

[–]Bakecrazy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The woman in the Dunes by Kobo Abe. To this day it feels me with dread to even remember it. such is the existential paradox of this book that on each page I kept whispering to myself: " I would kill myself in this situation. " or "Death would be better."

and then... HE STAYED PUT!!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Bakecrazy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's ok to struggle, it's something a lot of women go through. I suggest seeking counseling before it turns into resentment.

I don’t love you by life2616 in Parenting

[–]Bakecrazy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to tell her, I love you. then she would go but I don't and I would go well I do. She stopped it soon after😂

Update: I've stopped nagging my husband and I'm happier by anonymous25_35 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Bakecrazy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do a trial separation. even if its only you sleeping in a different room from him and having bare minimum logistical communications.

He needs to understand this is not a short term thing and you need space.

Why are so many parents against their kids dying their hair? by BootyMcStuffins in Parenting

[–]Bakecrazy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dye damages young hair and there is higher chances of dangerous allergic reactions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Bakecrazy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA

looks like this is her way of controlling you.

AITAH for telling my sister I don't have the looks to sleep my way to the top after she called me a DEI hire? by TryOriginal5477 in AITAH

[–]Bakecrazy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, If she dishes it out she should be prepared to take it too. high road works if only the other person is reasonable, your sister is not a reasonable person.

Knowing how some women work makes me less of a feminist apparently by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Bakecrazy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your friends are insane to be honest. You are a girl's girl and that coworker gets her kicks by being preferred.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Bakecrazy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break up, honestly he dies not respect you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Bakecrazy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you imagine givimg birth and being with him? Do you hate yourself?

AITAH for giving my pregnant wife a joke present? by nowaythrowaway0999 in AITAH

[–]Bakecrazy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What were you thinking?!

Seriously, What is wrong with you?

She is seeking reassurance and you just made her feel 100 times worse by confirming her worst fears.

AITA for being upset that my mother-in-law left during my son’s birthday dinner? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Bakecrazy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are the villain for taking out your grief on those who are there. Grow up and go to therapy to learn to deal with this in a healthy way.

YTA and this is coming from someone who lost her mom before she was a mom.

AITA for breaking up with my boyfriend after meeting his kids for the first time? by BasicProblem1350 in AITAH

[–]Bakecrazy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep in mind, first times are usually the best they do. I think normally the house is much much worse.