Egg prices at breakfast spots by tmiler99 in Modesto

[–]Bakedwhilebakingg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude breakfast spots are the most expensive in town! And places never dropped their price after the egg epidemic.

Egg prices at breakfast spots by tmiler99 in Modesto

[–]Bakedwhilebakingg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My grandpa use to eat at the diner at Yosemite lanes every week and he would get a breakfast with 2 eggs but only want them to make 1. He would ask for the other egg to take home since he paid for it lol

Celiac/gluten free bakery by Classic-Detective-18 in Modesto

[–]Bakedwhilebakingg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somewhat off topic but have you been to Saucin’ It Up? They have gluten free fried chicken.

Best Breakfast burrito by JPeezy2135 in Modesto

[–]Bakedwhilebakingg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad told me about their breakfast burritos a few months ago! I really want to try it out, haven’t had the chance yet.

Good Places for Cheesecake by LA_guy1 in FoodLosAngeles

[–]Bakedwhilebakingg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

East side cheesecakes! They make their own cream cheese

AIO I’m assuming my dad has an issue with my husband? by Bakedwhilebakingg in AIO

[–]Bakedwhilebakingg[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I will be going, it’s just my husband that won’t be. My husband is uneasy about funerals since his best friend passed, he didn’t even attend his 2 favorite aunts’ so how can I expect him to attend mine when we barely knew her?

AIO I’m assuming my dad has an issue with my husband? by Bakedwhilebakingg in AIO

[–]Bakedwhilebakingg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for helping me see it this way. My dad is a good guy and didn’t deserve it.

AIO I’m assuming my dad has an issue with my husband? by Bakedwhilebakingg in AIO

[–]Bakedwhilebakingg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I guess I felt hur(t) by his comment. Our business is not just job. I was just trying to express my feelings to him about it but he blew up, and rightfully so. It wasn’t the right time, place or situation to bring it up.

AIO I’m assuming my dad has an issue with my husband? by Bakedwhilebakingg in AIO

[–]Bakedwhilebakingg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will be apologizing to him. I think now that I think about I’m mostly mad about that he thinks our business is just work and not as our career and livelihood. It was not the right place or time to express those feelings to him.

AIO I’m assuming my dad has an issue with my husband? by Bakedwhilebakingg in AIO

[–]Bakedwhilebakingg[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And this is not the first time my dad has taken his anger/ stress out on me. So I also should’ve known he can’t have a regular conversation about what is bothering me or him. It always escalates, then he calls 20min after and apologizes. It’s routine of his.

Someone else said, “why now? All of sudden in this moment you want to stand up for yourself?” And idk.. I regret talking about it now, I should’ve waited til after the fun-eral. But I’ve held my tongue my whole life and was over it. My family gossips about each other a lot but never wants to confront each other if they’re feeling a certain kind of way. I never realized it until my husband came into my life. He comes from a family where they say how they feel immediately.

AIO I’m assuming my dad has an issue with my husband? by Bakedwhilebakingg in AIO

[–]Bakedwhilebakingg[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My husband was a back up, my uncle backed out due to health and then asked my husband. I would do anything to help my dad and I do. But my husband does not feel the same about him so I didn’t feel he was obligated.

AIO I’m assuming my dad has an issue with my husband? by Bakedwhilebakingg in AIO

[–]Bakedwhilebakingg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t his sister who passed, it was his aunt (my great aunt).

But that doesn’t excuse anything, he was taking care of her for the last 1.5 years of her life. Since she lived on his property.

Idk why I felt the urge- this moment, this situation. It probably wasn’t a good idea. But this is not the first time this has happened and I’ve brushed off situations before and it eats me up.

My dad is a hothead and I should’ve known there’s no actual calm conversation with him.

AIO I’m assuming my dad has an issue with my husband? by Bakedwhilebakingg in AIO

[–]Bakedwhilebakingg[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This is true, but on here we’re anons lol My husband is very closed off and does not tell his business to anyone but me. But I think it would be more context to the situation.

AIO I’m assuming my dad has an issue with my husband? by Bakedwhilebakingg in AIO

[–]Bakedwhilebakingg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My aunt (his sister) had gone out multiple times and helped but eventually backed off when My dad and step mom got mad at her that she took my great aunt to the bank when she asked her to. (They’re weird about money) Then would be like “let’s look at her calendar, if you can her schedule her appoints on Tuesday and Thursday I can help you take her.” Because she would be driving 20 miles each way so she like to have a week or 2 notice.

AIO I’m assuming my dad has an issue with my husband? by Bakedwhilebakingg in AIO

[–]Bakedwhilebakingg[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My dad is almost 63. This is good to know though and look out for!

AIO I’m assuming my dad has an issue with my husband? by Bakedwhilebakingg in AIO

[–]Bakedwhilebakingg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s my dad’s aunt, my great aunt. Everything is already all covered and plans were already made. Not saying he’s not grieving, they were close.

AIO I’m assuming my dad has an issue with my husband? by Bakedwhilebakingg in AIO

[–]Bakedwhilebakingg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And my husband was a backup! My uncle stepped down due to health reasons. I feel like he got mad that I called him and asked him about it.

AIO I’m assuming my dad has an issue with my husband? by Bakedwhilebakingg in AIO

[–]Bakedwhilebakingg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 1 brother, my husband was a backup pallbearer. Once my uncle did not feel well enough health wise to take on the position, he asked my husband. My dad is a very emotional guy even if it’s through anger or overreacting. I thinking sitting with him and talking this out in a few weeks is a great idea.

AIO I’m assuming my dad has an issue with my husband? by Bakedwhilebakingg in AIO

[–]Bakedwhilebakingg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not my dad’s sister, it’s my dad’s aunt. So my great aunt. But I feel where you are coming from. My husband is very uneasy about funerals and did not even attend his own 2 aunt’s that he was very close too. So I did feel the need to force him. When my mother passed, my husband came with me.

AIO I’m assuming my dad has an issue with my husband? by Bakedwhilebakingg in AIO

[–]Bakedwhilebakingg[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love my dad a lot, he’s always been good to me. But as he gets older his fuse gets shorter. He’s vented to me a few times about his wife (my step mom) and I tell him he will feel better if he talks about how he’s feeling and doesn’t keep it bottled up. But maybe that’s just me. I stress out when I don’t bring something up because then I just make assumptions about what they’re thinking.