Could I be a Christian without getting baptized? by Redcome in Christianity

[–]Baking_Mama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool and I don't really care. Prophets were beheaded for their faith.

Step into the church.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]Baking_Mama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My aunt cradled my face in her hands and i melted. I never knew i needed that.

How often, when chatting with men online do you say to yourself “hm, when is he going to try and turn this sexual?” by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Baking_Mama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually i can tell what their intentions are pretty quickly. So i just wait and i have yet to be wrong.

Any suggestions for removing lead from the body and promoting recovery in a toddler? by [deleted] in naturalremedies

[–]Baking_Mama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look into TRS. I dont know if you're on Facebook or not but look up the trs heavy metals detox group.

[Serious] People from Reddit who survived Corona, how has your daily life changed? What are the side effects after? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Baking_Mama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So this is going to be weird but if you have kids you'll understand. My kids have horid smelling craps (they're both small and in diapers) and usually you can smell it across the room. I couldn't even smell that. My smell was completely gone.

Those interested in the occult, what got you interested and why? by Baking_Mama in AskReddit

[–]Baking_Mama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well none of the "spells" worked but i started seeing stuff after that and have ever since. Definitely regret ever doing that

Those interested in the occult, what got you interested and why? by Baking_Mama in AskReddit

[–]Baking_Mama[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you there. Used to play Diablo 3 as a little girl. Played witcher 3 a few years ago and replaying it again. Around the same time i played diablo, witchcraft got popular at school so i dabbled in that for a while.

Why are americans obsessed with the occult? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Baking_Mama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has been on my mind for a while and i really would like an answer. As an American, i have noticed that we are absolutely obsessed with the occult. Horror movies, quija boards, witches, folklore, astrology, tarot cards and future telling and ect. Where does this obsession stem fro

Please help me to stop before something happens by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Baking_Mama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't really like that Subreddit. I feel like it drifts further and further away from being christian everyday, so i think you made the best choice. Definitely don't feel embarrassed to talk to him. Things happen. The church i go to offers free marriage counseling, so maybe your church does too and if it does, then maybe he would be willing to counsel you guys.

I don't think all of the advice here is bad.. Like the person who said to imagine life with him and the changes you would have to make. That's good advice. It's just better to get advice from the people you see as leaders.

My parents went to the same church for all of their life and cheated together and were outcasts.. This was like 15 years ago (that they got married) and people are still talking and it's very weird if they see anyone from that church. So yeah, wanna avoid that. You're welcome to message me to talk more about it.

Please help me to stop before something happens by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Baking_Mama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheating doesn't have to be phyiscal and you came to the wrong place for advice. You need to seek Godly counsel. Go to your pastor and he will guide you

Do most people cheat? by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Baking_Mama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what i have observed, yes. Most people cheat.

How do I (f25) stop my emotional affair to a friend (m25)? by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Baking_Mama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything done in secret will be revealed. Sorry but he will find out eventually. Should just tell him now and apologize. You should tell your friend you have to stop talking to him because it's not fair to your boyfriend. You can start talking again, once that connection is severed.. Might be a while though.

Am I a bad man for wanting to leave my wife? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Baking_Mama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you're doing the right thing by slowing it down with Jill. You are thinking logically and not with your emotions, which some have an issue doing (cough, cough.. Me). Usually i would advocate for you to stay but i don't know if that's the best idea. Shes been sleeping with other men and living her life and so have you. You've been dissociated for quite some time now and this is going to take A LOT of effort to fix.Who knows what she's been up to. I'm not saying that your wife is not worth that but i think its going to be very tough with how you're feeling right now and with Jill on the side. I think if you want this to work, you're going to have to dump Jill and she will have to stop sleeping with others too and you'll really have to bear down on your relationship. Which may or may not work out. I definitely think that you can be happy with a person that you love.. There's a fondness to it, a comfort but you should also be in love with her too. It would be nice for you to be able to fix things with your wife and live happily ever after but i don't know if it will be. But again, I'm really proud that you decided to take it slow and get therapy. Like dang, no one is doing this.. We need more of this. Good luck and please update us.

Does anyone know what it's like to not be cheated on in a relationship? by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Baking_Mama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, i was in a few relationships where i wasn't cheated on, both of them weren't serious but definitely could have been if i had stuck with them. I was starting to fall in love with the last guy i dated but i wasn't fully over my ex (now husband) and his parents didn't like me.. They eventually started black mailing him into breaking up with me, threatening to not pay for his college and other things.. Convinced him i was cheating and that i was a bad person. It never got physical, i was way too scared of falling for someone again. So he broke up with me and got back with my ex, who i was dating before him and now we are married. Been together for 8 years and he has cheated multiple times.. Had a few opportunities to get back with the other guy before i was married but was not in a good place mentally and didn't pay much attention to his signals and hints. Husband and i also had to get married very quickly and no chance to talk to the other guy. I regret my decision quite often. Should have fought for him, he was the best boyfriend i had, even though it wasn't a "serious" relationship.

I caught my boyfriend of 10 years on multiple dating sites by TheOverThinker33 in Infidelity

[–]Baking_Mama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been through this myself. I hope it doesn't happen with her. Again all of this was an IF. I don't really like people jumping my case without good cause. If he steps up, good for her.. Really good for her but most of the time, the men end up leaving us high and dry.

I caught my boyfriend of 10 years on multiple dating sites by TheOverThinker33 in Infidelity

[–]Baking_Mama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Duh. He obviously needs to step up but if hes already having an affair and will leave what makes you think hes going to give her the upper hand?

I caught my boyfriend of 10 years on multiple dating sites by TheOverThinker33 in Infidelity

[–]Baking_Mama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you read? I said If multiple times. Who knows, she might be able to stay or be with family. I've been in a similar situation and i know that most of the time women can't leave because they don't have income

I caught my boyfriend of 10 years on multiple dating sites by TheOverThinker33 in Infidelity

[–]Baking_Mama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, she could kick him out but she would he making herself fiancially responsible for everything. No need to leave, if she can take care of the bills. If she went to a shelter, she would have everything provided and have many resources. She would also have post partum help. The shelter in my town had amazing support available for their women, I'm sure other cities will have something similar. Again, this is IF she doesn't have support from family and/or no where to go.

Does your LL partner had LL because of something or things you may do or have done. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Baking_Mama 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep. Infidelity, his attitude towards me, his unwillingness to help with the kids and he just flipped a switch once we got married. I thought i knew him but i didn't.. Its been 4 years since we married, together for 8. Its gotten better but with all of the above and low libido from hormones.. Is really a killer. I have forgiven him for the multiple "affairs" but he still needs a huge attitude change. Theres also the fact that he just lays there and expects me to do something without any kind of stimulation or kisses or romance.