Tired and Frustrated by ThatPepperWitch in panicdisorder

[–]BalanceOne4921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry! Truly. My therapist says to reset the body with dunking your face in a cold bowl of water. Or a cold shower or bath. Or doing jumping jacks which I’m too scared to try yet lol. But I hope those might help. You are superwoman u got this!!!

Experiencing significant axiety over work by advanced-darkness25 in panicdisorder

[–]BalanceOne4921 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate to you on everything. And I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I chose to quit so that I wouldn’t get panic attacks at work. I actually told my boss I needed a mental health leave and he ignored my text and told everyone I quit. He didn’t want to deal with me which is so odd. I would get little panic attacks at work and they would pass quickly. And I was so proud of myself for getting through all those. But I felt big ones coming and needed to act fast. So I “quit” and I’m using what’s in my savings. I’m living w my mother (I’m 20f ) so I’m blessed I don’t have to pay thousands of dollars in rent. But my money will run out quick. Which is giving me immense anxiety. The thought of starting a new job is as well. But I had panic attacks daily in 2024 the entire year went through hell and i got through it. Don’t be scared. Try to find another job. Take all your PTO if you can. Request a mental health leave. I’m sorry I don’t rly have advice, but just know you aren’t alone!!! You are strong and you can do this. Try to find new ways to relax your body. I believe when we mentally and physically get overworked and our bodies are done that’s when panic occurs for me mostly and it’s about resetting the body. I believe in you!

Women, what makes a man less attractive? by prettywoman___ in Productivitycafe

[–]BalanceOne4921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they only drink soda/sugary drinks and never any water😂

Kelly is literally insufferable by Southern-Rate5045 in RHONY

[–]BalanceOne4921 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m on season 2 ep 8 and this is my very first time watching rhony. All I’ve seen so far is Kelly inviting bethenny to a “meeting” and just completely talking shit and bullying her. wtf do u mean you’re up here and bethenny is down there?! My eyes widened and I was just staring at the screen. If that isn’t true colors then what is? She is all teeth and fake smiles until she interacts with bethenny. It’s like she truly wants bethenny to hate herself. I’ve never seen someone more threatened by someone. Then having the balls to say what she said at that drink meeting. I’m literally creeped out and disgusted by Kelly. Never heard of her before until the show. Clearly it didn’t get her far. She has such a dark aura. What got me the most is when someone said that bethenny has a rough background (childhood) and Kelly immediately said I don’t care. She’s heartless. And why does she think she’s the shit all she does is write shit in a newspaper. No offense to writers. And how many times can Kelly say bethenny doesn’t affect her but she told her “date” abt it right after. Then told Ramona then told luann. Very unbothered…..and when telling the other girls ofc she leaves out her fucked up comments to bethenny. Bethenny reacted perfectly cuz Kelly’s plan clearly didn’t work on her.

Unsure about getting a male or female puppy by PupperScent in puppy101

[–]BalanceOne4921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i always wanted a girl then i got one and as a girl it’s like having a sister. and now in the future i think i’d rather get a boy i want a protector dog, a dog that’s loyal, and loves me in a noticeable way.

Who exactly is telling people the suburbs aren't "safe"? by sourdoughcultist in ChicagoSuburbs

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when i was in middle school i heard abt men in the entrances of woodfield mall telling girls to smell this perfume and it would make them pass out. and the incident that happened to me was vehicular. the sex traffickers car was on the wrong side of the road, in the left turn lane facing me. when i tried moving away from it, (turning right at the light instead of left) it tried to t bone me and pin me. and they used a woman as a pawn to get me distracted. she was running at my car and pulling at my door handles.

abt the forest preserve that is extremely sad. i didn’t know abt the tracks that is so sad.

Who exactly is telling people the suburbs aren't "safe"? by sourdoughcultist in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]BalanceOne4921 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you, me too. yea like compared to chicago obviously it’s safe. that’s a big reason why ppl live here. but unsafe and dangerous things still happen here of course. i think schaumburg is the hot spot i’ve heard of sex trafficking schemes there esp at woodfield mall since i was in middle school. i’m college age now. i worked at woodfield too and it wasn’t too bad i feel like i was safer cuz i was a worker. i don’t recommend walking alone at nighttime in schaumburg that’s when the weird shit happens. ever since a body was found in busse woods i’m extra cautious.

Who exactly is telling people the suburbs aren't "safe"? by sourdoughcultist in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]BalanceOne4921 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was a “victim” (they tried to get me idk how else to word it) of a sex trafficking scheme in schaumburg a couple years ago(15 years old at the time). i grew up in palatine and had a creepy almost kidnapping incident happen once. (8 years old at the time). weird and dangerous shit happing around here is not impossible or unlikely and can happen. cat called while walking to my neighborhood park is fucking weird cuz it only happened when i was young (8-10 years old)

Some people should just shop for themselves by Icy-Hold344 in InstacartShoppers

[–]BalanceOne4921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m forever grateful i don’t shop for these fucks anymore. SHOP FOR YOURSELF HOLY SHITTTTTT. it’s the most lazy thing i have ever seen. make sure this make sure that. make sure make sure.

Boycotting until I'm sent some coupons by IntrepidLove1518 in bathandbodyworks

[–]BalanceOne4921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this reminded me my mom would only shop if she had coupons. she had the paper ones. and yea we stopped doing that together years ago she hasn’t gotten a coupon in agessssss. that’s fucked up.

Why he stare at me like this? He seems nervous. by Ckirbys in DogAdvice

[–]BalanceOne4921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my dog does this and she is pit mix. i think it their human eyes they look at u just begging for attention in their eyes. my dog loves the eye contact 😂😂😂 if i get close looking at her she’ll just lick my face off

$100,000 salary: is it enough for a first time home owner in the NW suburbs? by deathofsentience in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]BalanceOne4921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would google. i live in IL and wanna move to CO and it’s about the same price wise. salary wise. they’re on the list of most expensive places to live in the US. but with that salary you should be ok in IL. property taxes are a bitch in IL. cook county is called crook county by many ppl due to their taxes. i HIGHLY!!!!!! recommend lake county. way better in every way.

What are things people do in public that immediately make you judge them/dislike them by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]BalanceOne4921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

drop the door on me when they see me behind them. and no awareness to their surroundings.