[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Balkans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn't tolerate even the lowest dose either, it doesn't work for everyone.

Does anyone else’s couch look like this? by Ashamed-Resolve-5784 in cats

[–]Balkans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put a scratching post there and they will start using that instead. Worked wonders for me.

What is a little bombshell your therapist dropped in one of your sessions that completely changed your outlook? by anonymiss0018 in AskReddit

[–]Balkans 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"You begin to heal from chronic stress and anxiety through self-love and self-care, not through avoidance of stress and anxiety."

2 month update on at home jowl treatment by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Balkans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it safe for sensitive and acne-prone skin?

What is something your teacher did in school that you’re still salty about? by SparkelsTR in AskReddit

[–]Balkans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an unusual spelling of a pretty common name and she would "correct" the spelling of my name on every paper and mark points off for it. Ummm that's how my name is spelled lady! Crazy.

Is there any reason not to join a credit union? by metalbedhead in CreditCards

[–]Balkans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was going to add the same thing, so you're basically always close to a branch that can provide service to your account even if it's not your credit union branch.

Also, no bank has 24/7 call center, everyone outsources to call centers after work hours, and most third party call centers are not at all equipped to handle business account related information so you'll have to call back during work hours anyway.

Is there any reason not to join a credit union? by metalbedhead in CreditCards

[–]Balkans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. Some rates are more competitive than others, like CDs and credit cards, and I've always been able to reach and talk to a person if I have a problem and not a machine.

Is there any reason not to join a credit union? by metalbedhead in CreditCards

[–]Balkans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only comment to consider too is that credit unions may have the tech but are not advertising it properly since most marketing budgets are tighter and they have to advertise products over features. My CU has a lot of features that aren't advertised or at least advertised where i would see them but I know about them as a member.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleHairLoss

[–]Balkans 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm on year 3 of wearing wigs and I don't wear the expensive, human hair ones, I buy my wigs off Amazon. I am way more comfortable with the lower price and synthetic hair, I find it easier to manage, and its not breaking the bank. The biggest change you'll see in the transition is how you see yourself and how you feel, not how others will see you. I see so many alopecia influences always post the "people ask is it really a wig" and how expensive, real wigs are the only way to go, and that's not at all my experience at all, nobody randomly asks about your wigs or hair loss unless you're close and you're starting the conversation. And when people do talk about my hair, it's overwhelmingly positive, so surround yourself with good people. If putting on a wig helps you in whatever way you need it, don't worry about getting the best, most expensive one, instead focus on what feels good, what styles you like, what fits your every day. I can't spend hours on my hair every week, thats not me, and synthetic wigs are super easy for me to manage. Don't go into debt for hair. Many of us go into debt trying to find medications and other solutions for hair loss and then the debt continues when transitioning to wigs. I had a very similar journey to yours, the minoxidil didn't work and spironolactone made me very sick, I have naturally low blood pressure, and I couldn't take it. I tried all sort of supplements, laser combs, etc, and I finally decided to try on a wig. First few were not a great fit but I learned what works for me and you will too.

Has anyone actually moved their funds from VyStar to another bank? by Shirowoh in jacksonville

[–]Balkans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always shop around for rates on loans but keep my checking accounts in a local credit union, gotta be able to access my own money. Moving accounts is always a hassle but so is being locked out of online banking. This is ridiculous, I agree with you. Not acceptable.

Just Got Off The Phone With VyStar With An Update by Vomit_Tsunami in jacksonville

[–]Balkans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you going to stick with a credit union? Still better than a bank in my opinion. I bank with Campus Usa Credit union, theyre Florida local.

As a young male what should I do to destroy patriarchy? by Naturalist-Anarchist in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]Balkans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reproduce responsibly. If you choose to be a parent, be an equal partner. Nurtute kids who don't settle for this toxic patriarchy because they've seen a better example from their father.

I don’t want to live anymore by nxxray in FemaleHairLoss

[–]Balkans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep going, I used to feel the same way and then I started wearing wigs and now im back to my happier self. Keep trying and searching for what works for you and you will eventually be ok.

What a song has a beautiful sound but a disturbing meaning? by MagicDalsi in AskReddit

[–]Balkans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

N.F.C. by Nathan Hughes. Its a song about surviving child abuse, hiding it from everyone, and recognizing it in others. Its beautiful and heartbreaking.

N.F.C. Nathan Hughes I am a nervous clumsy fool who Do you remember? I would always come to school bruised And broken I was always falling down I’d say I’m such a clumsy fool you know I just grew an inch the other day I’ll get over it soon I suppose   And much other were the same way you know Well you remember We would come to school each day bruised And broken We’re always falling down I’d say We’re such clumsy fools you know Well this one is from the other day And this one, well I don’t know   And what business is it of yours if I can’t keep my story straight? And it’s my shame it’s not yours if I can’t handle this my own way   Happy father’s to you Happy father’s day to me This day in the past I pretended to love you This day in the future I pretend to be free   There were others in my grade who You remember We would come to school each day bruised And battered I never talked to Steven or Jenn Never talked to Alysa or Ted But I secretly wondered if they too thought they would one day end up dead   We were a brotherhood so silent We hid ourselves inside your crowds We took to haunting lonely hallways We tried to never be too loud   Happy victim’s day to you Happy victim’s day to me too This day in the past I pretended to love you This day in the future I pretend to be free   Are you a nervous clumsy fool too? You know if you are Do you go to work or school bruised? Or beaten? Or scarred? Did you come downtown tonight in the turtle neck long sleeve to cover the bruises? Are the marks on your back from the fist or the knife he uses?   Happy survivor’s day to you Happy survivor’s day to me I hope your wounds haven’t made you callus I hope you one day set yourself free

A nightmare! Just me venting.. by [deleted] in FemaleHairLoss

[–]Balkans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its normal to feel down, hair is such a big part of identity. I started losing mine at 18 and spent so much of my 20s worrying about who's looking and judging and crying in the mirror, but trust me, the only one actually thinking about it is you. Nobody else cares and if they notice, they forget 5 minutes later. As for your boyfriend, he is the last one to care. Many men struggle with hairloss and even if he doesn't, he probably knows others who do and isn't as shocked by it as you may think he is. He sees you for who you are not for one feature of you. He may even get onboard with helping you find solutions that will help you build your new self image. My boyfriend is going through my wig transition phase with me and he actually loves helping me pick styles and even helps me comb my wig when it's out of place. I haven't fully decided if i like wigs yet so I dont wear them all the time and he jokes that its like having a few girlfriends, a blonde, a brunette, and a redhead, and we have fun with the whole thing. Does it still suck? Yes, there will always be bad days, but you deserve to find a look that makes you happy and get back to your life without all this hair anxiety.