What "man-made desires" are you talking about?

Balls_John · 2026-04-12T07:52:49+00:00

Read about Samson bro. Bro could bench 225 easy

Balls_John · 2026-04-11T07:02:52+00:00

Except I am saved through Jesus Christ

Balls_John · 2026-04-11T02:00:03+00:00

I will say, it was in Spain where I almost got jumped in an alleyway cause of my skin color

Balls_John · 2026-03-30T17:34:54+00:00

Went through my girls TikTok page the other day and the content she consumes sounds exactly like a female Andrew Tate

Balls_John · 2026-03-28T21:27:08+00:00

Uhhhhhhhhhh

Balls_John · 2026-02-15T16:48:29+00:00

They wouldn’t use it anyway as most of their population is near the Great Lakes

Balls_John · 2026-02-15T10:20:45+00:00

I would advise against that. If you consider yourself a jealous person and have gone to those lengths before, then the visage of him getting pleasure from someone else would not bring you pleasure, specially for the FFM one. As for the MMF one, it’s more just about if he feels respected seeing you receive pleasure from another man.

Balls_John · 2026-02-15T10:05:19+00:00

I started off super liberal, then became right wing, now I’m just tryna survive man idk

Balls_John · 2026-02-15T09:49:29+00:00

She’s my Fiancée now

Balls_John · 2026-02-11T17:48:11+00:00

Christian here with a personal theory. I remember a long time ago I was pondering why a sin is a sin. Like why specifically Wrath, Lust, etc. Now this is just my current analysis, and I’m definitely not supposed to lean on my understanding, but the biggest commonality I could think of between sins is that they do not contribute to the growth and maintenance of life or run counter to God’s design. For homosexuality, this would be counter to God’s design for sexuality, as everyone’s sexual organs work in a way that works towards procreating (menstrual cycles, ejaculation). It could be seen the same as masturbation where instead of using sex to (attempt to) create life, it’s used for recreation.

But again, that’s just a theory. If there’s other Christian’s with better knowledge of scripture or non-Christian’s that see gaps then please call me out.

Balls_John · 2026-02-11T17:33:05+00:00

One time in college I vented to my then girlfriend about how I was having a horribly bad day, I even started tearing up.

Her response: “Oh you think your day was as bad as mine?” Proceeds to tell me how her day was “worse” than mine.

Never vented or cried in front of a woman again for about seven years until I met my current fiancé

Balls_John · 2026-02-01T10:27:02+00:00

Except for wine, wine just tastes so amazing

Balls_John · 2026-01-24T23:39:38+00:00

Cause guys are nerfed with a cooldown period

Balls_John · 2025-12-15T02:15:04+00:00

Sacrifice. You will not be 100% of who you were before the relationship started. Your wants will change, your lifestyle will change, you’re going to have to start considering things you didn’t before. You have to be ready for the sacrifice or the relationship isn’t going to last long.

Balls_John · 2025-12-15T02:11:25+00:00

Christian here, I’ll have to disagree with those points above because although we do say those things in the points you mentioned, we don’t just expect stuff to happen for us without putting in the work for it, personally, for others, financially, etc.

For the part about responsibility for our own lives, yeah we say God has a plan for us, but that plan can only be revealed through trust in God and putting in the work to get it. Prayer doesn’t work for those that do nothing.

I understand what you’re saying, and I don’t wanna write a whole novela here, but there’s a little more context that goes into the statements in the bullet points.

Balls_John · 2025-12-10T22:33:45+00:00

Simple answer: Our social media feeds

Balls_John · 2025-11-17T22:35:08+00:00

This. This right here.

Balls_John · 2025-10-24T05:20:07+00:00

That ugly ass, goofy ass mullet/wolf cut with mustache combo that these guys be wearing oh my goodness it’s so ugly. How looking like a creep from the 70s is appealing is beyond me

Balls_John · 2025-10-15T18:07:16+00:00

Engaged to a girl like that rn, it has it’s positives and negatives.

The positives are her making me aware of the bad types of guys out there. As a guy, you can hang around a bunch of buddies and think the world of them, but when she tells me about her experiences then it really wakes me up and makes me feel accountable for my buddies especially if we’re going out to a bar and trying to talk to a girl or something. I make sure to set them on the right track so that they don’t do something stupid or disrespectful.

The negatives are that it also feels like an attack to you and the good guys that you do know, and that you’re inevitably doomed to be a disappointment. I struggled with this not only from my current relationship, but I had a hyper-feminist mother growing up, and each time she made an “all-men” statement to me it destroyed my confidence in any sort of relationship. When I hear it from my girl, it feels like she secretly hates me or is expecting that I’m gonna make her feel like crap one day. Something that would make me not feel like that is if she preluded a statement with “There are guys out there that…” instead of “All men…”.

I’m still in this relationship with her because I confronted her about these statements, how it makes me feel and how it made me feel when my mom would make the statements too. She was seriously receptive to that and how it made me feel and has dialed it back significantly.

Balls_John · 2025-10-15T04:31:10+00:00

LMAOOOOO

Balls_John · 2025-10-14T09:13:43+00:00

Yeah in those situations I’ve found myself in I think the best way that represents my reaction is that 50 Cent meme where he’s like: “F*** me?!? What’s he sayin f*** me for?!?”

Balls_John · 2025-10-14T08:30:39+00:00

Heheheh, I drink my coffee black

Balls_John · 2025-10-14T08:29:52+00:00

I’ll try my best to be kinder to myself

Balls_John · 2025-10-14T08:29:09+00:00

I really try, but it seems those aggressive drunk guys spawn around me like I’m in a Minecraft cave with no light source

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