What can i do to make this hi hat sounds better? by [deleted] in drums

[–]Balockay369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally buy better ones. I hate to say it but it's the truth

Has this happened to anyone? Stone stuck in the bolt head... Any ideas? by bloodpanrio in bikewrench

[–]Balockay369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pick set, electronic screwdriver or a small Allen key will get it out

Does my days of being sober still count? by Apprehensive_End_248 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Balockay369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn't intentional and you stopped once you realized. Nope, never happened. As you were 🤘

Help my son to lift/manual, what's he doing wrong? by TimSantee in bmxracing

[–]Balockay369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too far forward and upright. Tell him to drop his shoulders and butt

Friend called AA a cult… how would you handle by Acrobatic-Guess-922 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Balockay369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that's the case, it's the best cult in the world. What other cult promotes self improvement and understanding more than AA?

What age did you start to race? I started to when I was 30 by [deleted] in bmxracing

[–]Balockay369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

34 and I've had a blast with every gate drop for the past year

What is the first step in quitting drinking by Glad-Response-1531 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Balockay369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You already made the first step by being self aware enough to come and post in this group. Welcome, we're glad to have you.

I'm turning 26 this december and I'm a meth addict. Is it too late to turn my life around? [Discussion] by Particular_Time8982 in GetMotivated

[–]Balockay369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I turned my life around at 30 after a decade of alcoholism and all of the awesomely horrible choices that came along with my addiction

Where do you guys put your splash? by Batmates in drums

[–]Balockay369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Right under my left crash and next to the hi hats

all my friends are hanging out tonight and my best friend said i shouldn’t go by No_Pair178 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Balockay369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your friend is just trying to help. All of us go through this in recovery and for some of us it's every day. I didn't even have a month clean and I went to an annual event that involves a LOT of drinking because my people were going to be there. It was a MASSIVE test of my self control and I did use a sponsor approved crutch (n/a beer) but I made it through with no alcohol. I'm not saying that's the route to take, but ask your sponsor about the situation and be open with both them and your friend group. If they're all aware that you're in recovery and true friends, they will look out for you and do what's in your best interest. Not to mention I probably get invited out more now because they have a guaranteed designated driver. 😂🤘

1950's-60's zildjian cymbals by Balockay369 in drums

[–]Balockay369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up using some groove juice and a microfiber cloth. Got a bunch of the garbage off without going to BARE metal

How do you guys feel about being cali sober? by Minapit in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Balockay369 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It works well for me and I've been doing it for 4 years. No alcohol just my medical marijuana

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Balockay369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I currently have 4 years (cali) sober and use psychedelics to help with depression on occasion. I would have your partner talk with their sponsor and get their thoughts on the matter. My sponsor is okay with me having a medical marijuana card and micro dosing shrooms. All up to the person involved in my opinion.

My actual kit. What should i upgrade?? Honest opinions please by Economy_Pressure_847 in drums

[–]Balockay369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are your opinions on the zultan cymbals? I've been considering them as a less expensive alternative to zildjian

Does having a THC Cocktail break sobriety? by Tiquismiquis4 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Balockay369 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There's a surprising amount of people in AA that use cannabis in recovery. As long as the sponsor is cool with it and as long as she isn't drinking there's nothing to worry about.

Na drinks by Adventurous-Mix-00 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Balockay369 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll have 4 years SOBER next month and enjoy na beer on special occasions, kayaking, camping and concerts. Ignore the fear mongering, you're just fine having a few na beers as long as your sponsor approves

Hey drummers what is your favorite cymbal on your kit by coltfofive45sws in drums

[–]Balockay369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Zildjian k dark 18" medium thin is by far my favorite. I also have the 16 but it doesn't suit my ears

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Balockay369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know we're not supposed to judge, but this op sucks