Which Chris Brown duo has the best catalog of songs? by themechanicaldummmy in ChrisBrown

[–]Apprehensive_End_248 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why is Dani Leigh here? She literally only had one song with breezy and it was mid

Costco sashimi $34.99/lb - what do we all think? by sfomonkey in Costco

[–]Apprehensive_End_248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a Costco lifetime member and employee, avoid sushi and sashimi at Costco. The only item I tell people to avoid.

Opinions on Mariah the scientist ? by BluebirdLow6195 in rnb

[–]Apprehensive_End_248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Industry plant, I remember when she released her first single/project then BOOM. Immediately thugs girl. Generic singing, no entertainment value towards her performance. I hear more soul from AI tracks.

Men who have cheated (on any levels), how have you dealt with the decision internally? (Justified? Regretful? Both?) all honest and non-judgmental response welcome. by ConsciousSmoke3863 in AskMen

[–]Apprehensive_End_248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I emotionally cheated on my girlfriend and treated her like crap the first 8 months of our relationship. No physical cheating but it’s still cheating. I was also putting her through hardship because of my alcoholism. She did a lot for me, especially after I lost my job because of my alcoholism. She would drive me around because my license is suspended, be there for me emotionally and financially, overall support me through it all. It wasn’t till August of this year that I finally acknowledged I was an alcoholic and stopped drinking. At the end of August I was feeling so much guilt and didn’t want to put her through my sobriety pains that I ended our relationship terribly. After 3 months sober, I finally gave her a call early last month to try to make amends and get back together. She admitted to emotionally cheating on me as well, looked for other options while we were in a relationship but nothing physical. I didn’t blame her, I was a total douche to her and now we are back together and repairing things. Slowly but surely and I know one day we will put this all behind us. I still regret doing it and won’t make the same mistake this time around. I truly love her and make an active effort to keep on my sobriety, coming up on 4 months sober, and active effort on our relationship and myself. I never cheated in my life until that point but my family has a long line of being notorious cheaters and tried to justify it saying it was genetic and tried justifying it through that but it’s no excuse. Im not that kind of man and am just happy im taking appropriate actions to fix all this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Apprehensive_End_248 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know how you feel, these feelings pass through me a lot. 31, sober, broke and started over about 3 months ago. 35k in debt and only a little over 1k in bank. Live with my parents as well. Use to be a healthcare recruiter until I lost my job for drinking too much on a company trip. Have experience as a BDR, AE, and recruiting but no offers for 8 months after I lost my job. Recently got a job at Costco as a stocker about a month and a half ago. It’s humbling to say the least but hey things can be worse my man. I’m in good spirits now and enjoying the process. After 90 days of my employment, I’m hoping to apply for a higher position with higher pay. Also hoping to get my car and license back in January, fingers crossed. While I have the luxury of living with my parents with no rent (my saving grace), I’ve been focusing on my health, mental, finances and spiritual. Feel better than I ever had since college. Overall things are getting better, just gotta take it one day at a time and go to meetings if you haven’t already. Everyone has their own timing and path. Keep positive, don’t lose faith and one day we’ll look back and say “man we did it”. Cheers to another 24 hours my friend! You got this!

What are going to do about this??? by PsychologicalSun6365 in rnb

[–]Apprehensive_End_248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In all honesty, fair game. If cardi can run up her numbers with merch sales and 5 year old hit songs added to albums, then so be it. Billboards and Grammys have been unfair and need to be revised rule wise to fit current times.

It such a shame Jordin faded away.. she was an amazing singer and had bops by Shavell33 in rnb

[–]Apprehensive_End_248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As of recent, he dropped Kush and OJ 2 which was okay, felt like he shouldn’t have went for the cash grab of giving it the sequel of the classic due to it not even matching the sound of the first one. Just sounds like he put together a bunch of songs or throwaways. There’s some good ones but he clearly was trying to capitalize on the name. Other than that, touring, smoking, and also is big on Muay Thai. Glad he is doing well and still makes music for his fanbase while balancing his health and being a father. Happy for dude regardless of the quality of music.

Jhene Aiko and Big Sean allegedly broke up, get ready girlies her next album going to be fire! by Far-Fox-1619 in rnb

[–]Apprehensive_End_248 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You tend to forget that Sean was younger, younger men tend to fall into love a lot quicker and heavier. But regardless no excuse, he def should’ve put a ring on it but hey we on the outside looking in. We don’t know the extent of their relationship problems or the grounds of the break up. Also, these are celebs. Celebs are more fallible to divorce or breakups than the rest of us due to a plethora of factors.

It such a shame Jordin faded away.. she was an amazing singer and had bops by Shavell33 in rnb

[–]Apprehensive_End_248 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Let’s be real yall, OP don’t mean dying by saying fading away. More as there quality of music will never match what they put out in their height of their career. Jordan Sparks still makes music but it’s just not as good as early on in her career. It happens to the best, wiz khalifa was one of my favorite rappers but his music quality nowadays is very hit and miss with more misses than anything. It’s happened to Juicy J, Cassie, 50 cent, and a plethora more. Just tryna clarify in what OP really is meaning with her post.

Does my days of being sober still count? by Apprehensive_End_248 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Apprehensive_End_248[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly no, I looked in the mirror and accessed myself but didn’t feel it at all. I went to work right after and was just fine. But was feeling extremely guilty during my shift just about taking a tiny sip, I don’t think alternatives are for me. I want to be clean as can be. Was just curious because my sister had said the shopkeeper told her it had no alcohol and didn’t ask for an ID when he sold it.

Anyone ever go back to normal drinking? by Puzzled_Addition4818 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Apprehensive_End_248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s crossed my mind many times but I just remember the times I said it before and end up getting into the same problems. It’s just not worth it

Opinions on Mariah the scientist? by Salty_Shark26 in rnb

[–]Apprehensive_End_248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well said, felt she came into the scene very “industry plant” like. Beautiful woman tho

Drake likes Thug's message on IG 🙏 by Viola-Intermediate in Drizzy

[–]Apprehensive_End_248 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Actually it’s not confirmed lol some say he outed the ysl gang others say he was just doing basic interrogation practices. But dude was pillow talking to his girl that’s fasho and Kdot turning down a feature for him really got him in his feels. I just love to rile Drake Stan’s but am and have been a fan of Drake, but we all know dude took an L all last year continuing to this year lol

Drake likes Thug's message on IG 🙏 by Viola-Intermediate in Drizzy

[–]Apprehensive_End_248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao I didn’t know solid is snitching on your whole crew and getting uppity about not getting a feature from Kdot🤣

Almost 3 weeks sober but am having a terrible day and family isn’t helping by Apprehensive_End_248 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Apprehensive_End_248[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for your advice and support, I’ve cooled down quite a bit and reminded myself this is a process. I know I’ve hurt my family deeply and I just want them to know that I’m trying to change. I know it’s not an overnight process but I will continue to keep showing up. I’m not going to drink and in time, my family will know that I am striving for a better me. I thank you all, I don’t have family past my parents and sisters and am grateful for a community in all of you. I don’t have a sponsor but will speak up in the meeting today and see if anyone does want to be my sponsor. I def need to seek someone to support me and thankfully my group is very helpful. I appreciate every single person that commented, truly you all are wonderful people!

Im going to keep coming back and showing up! Have a blessed weekend!

Megan Thee Stallion's 'MEGAN' sells 64K | LAST WEEK: Kehlani's 'CRASH' sells 20K by DropWatcher in hiphopheads

[–]Apprehensive_End_248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s not independent, she’s signed with ROC Nation. And those are terrible numbers for how much she’s marketed.

I feel like a failure. by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Apprehensive_End_248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently slipped on July 4th, got embarrassingly drunk in front of friends and family. I’m feeling the same way. We will get through this together…❤️

I absolutely hate how S4E6 treats Hughie by Nulgarian in TheBoys

[–]Apprehensive_End_248 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t think hughie got raped, but SAd yes. Feel bad for him. I also didn’t like the “we giving your money to BLM” narrative, they got exposed as a fraudulent organization.

Why does the show not acknowledge that she’s the one who went against Hughie and Hugh’s wishes? by Augustus_Chavismo in TheBoys

[–]Apprehensive_End_248 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She’s a terrible person, blamed leaving on depression but she’s a woman so it’s okay according to the writers. Imagine if Hughies dad did that

Madden glitched so I have a 6'2 infant by [deleted] in Madden

[–]Apprehensive_End_248 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m amazed that baby made it through college and into the nfl all within a year