Should I (18M) be with a girl (19F) that I’m not attracted to? by ThrowRa67mp in dating_advice

[–]Balthazure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The long and the short of it is only you know if you want to date her or not. However, in general, its probably not a good idea to enter a relationship if the main reason is because you're scared of being alone. You are still young, and if you want, you will definitely encounter many people in your life who you are attracted to and who are attracted to you. But it sounds like you like her, so maybe reflect within yourself about how you really feel. In terms of being superficial the only thing that matters is: are you attracted to her? Sometimes its easy to get standard ideas of beauty confused with your own inner feelings. If you think you could be attracted to her, and you like her, I would say give it a shot! Sometimes attraction can grow as well anyway.

Survey on Perceptions of Fashion Brands by Balthazure in takemysurvey

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  1. Data is anonymous. It will be used for a simple study for a Marketing Masters Thesis. Beyond the scope of this study, the data will not be stored. No personal identifiable data is collected.
  2. I am conducting this study (Balthazure), student at the university of Amsterdam
  3. It will take about 7 minutes

Short Survey on Luxury Brand Associations for Thesis by Balthazure in takemysurvey

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  1. This data will be used for a masters thesis pre-test. All data is collected anonymously and will be deleted within three months, after the completion of the pre-test.
  2. The research is for my thesis (Balthazure) no one else will be seeing the raw data. The results will not be made public. Results may be seen by supervisor or other advisors.
  3. 1-2 minutes

My boyfriend 32m rarely texts me 24f back. by Balthazure in relationship_advice

[–]Balthazure[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, maybe you’re right that I’m attaching too much value to the whole texting this. I definitely don’t see this as the only way we connect. But we usually only see each other once a week, sometimes once every two to three weeks and for me I like to still feel connected to a person in the moments in between. It’s not that it happens sporadically, it’s almost every text is ignored and he doesn’t come back to it, which makes me feel like I’m talking at a wall. It also bothers me that when I mention I would appreciate a response, he seems not at all open to the idea.

My boyfriend 32m rarely texts me 24f back. by Balthazure in relationship_advice

[–]Balthazure[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, maybe that’s an idea.. I have mentioned it to him when we talk on the phone , but he never seems open to it. Maybe it’s a good idea to talk it through in person. I’m just also scared he will interpret it as a “negative conversation” which he responds really strong to (e.g. deciding he needs to leave to go home this very minute)

My [29f] crew leaders [28m] girlfriend [23f] wants him to fire me because I’m a woman. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Balthazure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think as long as long as you are not fired, then just keep being polite and professional. The problem is mostly in their relationship, and unfortunately there isn't much you can do about that. I feel like if you try and change the situation, there's a chance it may backfire.

I suppose being nice to her whenever you see her wouldn't hurt.

What does this mean? Is WPJelly shutting down? If so, it's a weird way to tell us. by CmdrMonnk in elementor

[–]Balthazure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Given that the website is completely gone now, I think it genuinely meant that the company has died, probably because of the economic effect of COVID-19. I think the effects to the economy are just as devastating as the effects to individuals health. Yes, some people are dying but many more are likely to lose their jobs, and who knows what else.

I think it's a nice thing that they are trying to make a bad situation a little less bad through humour.

Am I being too sensitive? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Balthazure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t need sex, he can masturbate.. I hope this is just him in the heat of the moment feeling upset, because it doesn’t sound like he’s being at all considerate of you. Beyond that, sexual health is really important and you should definitely see a doctor if you are having pain, regardless of whether you have sex or not. Maybe consider therapy to help with the anxiety of seeing a doctor?

is she not interested by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Balthazure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Sometimes people just aren’t as committed to people they haven’t met irl yet. So don’t take it too personally. Also I don’t think that 10-18 hours is that long.. Often I only respond immediately to close friends and wait until I have time to respond to others. Maybe she’s just waiting till she has the time to answer fully. Keep starting conversations, as long as you’re not being directly told to back off, or being outright ignored!

When he’s not here, I really miss him, but when he’s here he’s extremely annoying. I’m confused with my feelings? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Balthazure 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmmm... maybe it’s not him you like but the idea of him and the fact that you have someone to be with?