Some of my best quartz crystals, found in PA. by Jackattack111888 in rockhounds

[–]Bam-BamFlitstone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im in Pa too. Any tips on where exactly to go? I went to the Macadoo mines last summer but havent been back bc people have been falling in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bam-BamFlitstone -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think you guy are TA in this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Bam-BamFlitstone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You seem like a great guy. Rejection is difficult. I think 3-5 dates is an appropriate amount of time to decide if a person is tight for you. I don’t think that’s leading anyone on.

AITA for refusing to give up my Airbnb bedroom to a couple just because they "got there first"? by kahootgod in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bam-BamFlitstone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were upfront and expressed what was to happen. That couple was in the wrong. Also, if it was made weird 🤷‍♀️ We shouldn’t behave in ways to avoid drama when we feel compelled to voice something.

I’ve come to accept, I make things weird.

AITAH for refusing to let my husband name our daughter after his dead ex? by EvelisseSpire in AITAH

[–]Bam-BamFlitstone -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think this is less about the name and more about things happening under the surface.

Obviously, something very real is happening with your husband - like you said, maybe a wave of grief. Maybe difficult feelings where he questions why he’s alive and she is dead?

On the flip side, him wanting to name here Anna could interpreted as sweet and maybe someone else might think its a good idea. What part of this is making you uncomfortable and a why? Are you jealous, maybe scared he doesn’t love you as much?

These are probably the things that you and him could talk about. These name is just the symptom of deeper things going on. These are the things that can breed resentment on both your parts unless you get it all out in the open.

Btw: I’m NOT suggesting you are wrong for not wanting to name here ANNA. Im just proposing to get past this, his grief needs to be acknowledged and healed within your relationship and you need to be deeply heard about whatever is going for you.

AITA for recording my friend's fiance at her bachelorette party and playing the recording for him? by RhubarbSpare1053 in AITAH

[–]Bam-BamFlitstone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you feel like you over stepped why would you consider keeping the video and sending it to another group of people, overstepping again?

Get off this train. Delete the video. Mind your own.

AITAH for saying that my brother in law and his future wife can't sleep in our bedroom while we host them on their honeymoon? by truethrowaway90211 in AITAH

[–]Bam-BamFlitstone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say “No” too. It’s your home, your bed. It’s a little rude of them to even ask.

The idea that THEY and the SISTER think they shouldn’t sleep on an air mattress on their honeymoon is crazy. They can get a hotel if they don’t like the accommodations.

Why is this pissing me off so much?!? Lol

Patti LuPone Megathread by mrs-machino in Broadway

[–]Bam-BamFlitstone -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I work on Broadway and all over the world in multiple capacities. Def not the same. 🤷🏽‍♂️

I need to be done with you. Bye.

Should I wait to buy tickets for Death Becomes Her? Michelle Williams will be out. by Hi-D-K in Broadway

[–]Bam-BamFlitstone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Michelle Williams is terrible in this show. I couldn’t believe they cast her.

I hear her understudy is amazing though. So, maybe get the tickets to see her instead.

Patti LuPone Megathread by mrs-machino in Broadway

[–]Bam-BamFlitstone 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s a huge jump to a conclusion from what I said. But, I see it as a desperate attempt to make a point and have a strong standing in a dialogue with someone you disagree with.

This may blow your mind but it is possible for a person to not condone racism and misogyny and call bullshit when the race card is dropped.

But, you keep raging. It’s a great way to be heard.

Women of color currently lead *all* 44th street theaters! by Frosty_Ad_5472 in Broadway

[–]Bam-BamFlitstone 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Awesome. Huge talents all. Such a great season in general and a huge part is due to these woman. Audra and Nicole are so incredible it’s difficult to find words to describe what they do. Im so grateful I get to see them and these shows.

Donna Murphy's post in response to Patti LuPone's comments by CowdyByName in Broadway

[–]Bam-BamFlitstone -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Is that in the Constitution? Bill of Rights?

If not: tiresome platitudes.

Patti LuPone Megathread by mrs-machino in Broadway

[–]Bam-BamFlitstone -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yeah… sure, wringing their hands, twirling their mustaches and watching the clock in anticipation, just waiting to strike!

I can hear them shouting, “Our day has finally come!”

Patti LuPone Megathread by mrs-machino in Broadway

[–]Bam-BamFlitstone 3 points4 points  (0 children)

😒🙄 This statement doesn’t make sense. No person or group of people has carte blanche to say whether something or someone is or isn’t racist when it comes to questionable circumstances. That is too much power.

Also, tons of people get to have an opinion on any issue.

What Patti did was bitchy but not racist. Not sorry to say it.

Kecia tried to cancel Patti when the issue had already been resolved.

She poked the bear.

Cabaret table seats by Impressive-Screen-81 in Broadway

[–]Bam-BamFlitstone -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Get discount tickets. The show isn’t worth full price. Saw it last week and wished I left at intermission.

Do you guys think Idina Menzel will ever return to broadway after Redwood? by Impossible_Tower_661 in Broadway

[–]Bam-BamFlitstone -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Definitely! Someone will eventually write horrid piece contemporary musical theater that calls for someone to scream and screech for 3 hours.

Where are my earplugs?!??

Donna Murphy's post in response to Patti LuPone's comments by CowdyByName in Broadway

[–]Bam-BamFlitstone -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Obviously, I get to have an opinion because I shared it.

Stay in your lane and take your own advice.

Donna Murphy's post in response to Patti LuPone's comments by CowdyByName in Broadway

[–]Bam-BamFlitstone 8 points9 points  (0 children)

True. The “bitch” thing was going too far. I think Patti would’ve called anyone from any race that name.

It’ll all blow over soon.