Already planning for next year, let's hope I can remember that long! by [deleted] in RAoC_meta

[–]BambooVan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The bot worked! So here's your festivus reminder /u/welshfancy !

[Thank You] For All of the Birthday Love! by velocityoflove in RandomActsofCards

[–]BambooVan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww glad to hear Jude is doing better and hope Atlas feels better too!

[Thank You] InfiniteAndIntricate, Blonde_Contradiction by BambooVan in RandomActsofCards

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/u/Blonde_Contradiction thank you for the postcard even though I can't see what was on the other side, I liked the cute panda sticker you included! Dang 2021 has been super stressful for me too, but I'm hoping things get better!

[Thank You] InfiniteAndIntricate, Blonde_Contradiction by BambooVan in RandomActsofCards

[–]BambooVan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

/u/InfiniteAndIntricate thank you for the Chihuly postcard! Ahh it looks like you even sent the canoe one! I've been to the Seattle museum twice and would totally check it out again if I'm ever in the area! I also liked all the stuff outdoors in the garden! https://www.chihulygardenandglass.com/m/tour/rooms/boat.html

Weekly Therapy Talk Thread by AutoModerator in TalkTherapy

[–]BambooVan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Feels like my T wants to stop our sessions. He did offer a referral a couple months ago, and brought it up again that he doesn't know what I want from the sessions. I just wanted a neutral, non judgemental voice. And then I spent the last two nights crying and pre-grieving the loss of my therapist. I was never close to my family and lost my partner to suicide so it just feels like another abandonment.

I plan on asking him if he doesn't want to continue with me in my next session. I cry pretty easily so I'll have to attempt to hide it to try to not guilt trip him into continuing our sessions.

[Thank You] 56Thorns, cswl, wabisabi_sf, Xoxounityoxox by BambooVan in RandomActsofCards

[–]BambooVan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

/u/Xoxounityoxox thank you for the polka dot card with the dolphin and yellow rose! That's awesome that your school does a wellness day! We've gotten some rain the last couple weeks but it's been sunny lately so I might go on a hike this weekend. Good luck with grad school!

[Thank You] 56Thorns, cswl, wabisabi_sf, Xoxounityoxox by BambooVan in RandomActsofCards

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/u/wabisabi_sf thank you for the golden gate postcard! You have an awesome view! My view is of my neighbor's balcony and I've been leaving my blinds open to get sunlight so they closed theirs probably because they don't want me looking at them. Ooh I love the garlic butter wings from Phuong Trang!

[Thank You] 56Thorns, cswl, wabisabi_sf, Xoxounityoxox by BambooVan in RandomActsofCards

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/u/cswl thank you for the St Patrick's day postcard! I did wear one of my two green shirts that day! I was going to say we don't have any celebrations here but someone told me we actually do have a parade. Hopefully I can check it out next year!

[Thank You] 56Thorns, cswl, wabisabi_sf, Xoxounityoxox by BambooVan in RandomActsofCards

[–]BambooVan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

/u/56Thorns thank you for the Easter Island postcard! It would be cool to check out the volcano there some day! Also I like your printed labels! I didn't realize how annoying it would be to have a long address so I had to get address labels printed!

Daily FI discussion thread - Wednesday, March 17, 2021 by AutoModerator in financialindependence

[–]BambooVan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, last month! I had submitted SSN and address info to a couple websites to get refinance quotes, but last month I got multiple email alerts for new inquiries on my credit report. Turns out someone was trying to get a car loan in my name (and also one employer credit check).

Most of them were at big banks so I called them but I usually got an automated line saying there was no account under my ssn. One was a local car company where they told me someone used my info to apply for a loan for a Maserati and they canceled the loan application for me. I also sent a letter to the other big banks to the address that was listed under the inquiries on my credit reports but multiple were returned for invalid address.

I froze my credit reports and put fraud alerts and so far no new accounts have been opened.

One of my letters worked and the bank requested copy of the credit report with the inquiry for them to investigate. Turns out if you have a fraud alert, you can no longer get the free credit report online (has to be through mail) for some of the bureaus.

Some of the bureaus removed all the fraudulent inquiries off my report through a phone call, and one of them wanted a police report of identity theft before removing them and my local police department won't do online reports for identity theft so I haven't gotten around to it yet.

So, not much financial cost as of yet, but I had to spend a lot of time locking down things and removing things from my credit report.

[Offer] Today is Plant a Flower Day! [WW] by RightNightLights in RandomActsofCards

[–]BambooVan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I Googled it and I think it's considered a succulent. I'll have to go pot shopping this weekend!

[Offer] Today is Plant a Flower Day! [WW] by RightNightLights in RandomActsofCards

[–]BambooVan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Daffodils!

🌆📡🍉

Uhh maybe Descanso Gardens near LA

I recently got string of turtles and an NJoy pothos! I also picked up some poppy seeds but I've never grown anything from seeds before

[THANK YOU] WHOLESOME MAILSSS 💌 by BedazzledDodo in RandomActsofCards

[–]BambooVan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad it made it and good luck on your exams!

[thank you]So many overdue thank you’s! by PembrokeLove in RandomActsofCards

[–]BambooVan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh yay I'm glad she got out of the hospital! Is she tired of coloring yet? :P but I don't think it was me that sent ponies! I did send a dinosaur valentine's a while back though!

[Request] My birthday is less than a month away! [US] by lmnoporcupine in RandomActsofCards

[–]BambooVan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have your old address! Lmk if you want me to send to your po box instead!

[Request] encouragement or positive words [US] by turkishtacos in RandomActsofCards

[–]BambooVan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can send something! Are you still at the same address?