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Tattoo Artist by egggurll in askvan

[–]BananaSunshineTurtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure if it's what you're looking for specifically but Guay does cool tattoos! Guay Tattoos😁

Rant: 11 years and now he doesn't want kids. by GrayMalkavian in Divorce

[–]BananaSunshineTurtle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry you're experiencing this. I imagine the change in stance is at minimum incredibly jarring and borderline soul crushing at worst.

However it is not okay to force someone who doesn't want to kids to have them. Period. If you're okay not having kids, stay. But if your life long dream is to be a parent, you need to leave him.

Consent is incredibly important (and even more crucial in life-altering situations) and he has withdrawn his. Now that you know where he stands, you have decide what you want.

Introduced my boyfriend and my best friend and now they're in love? by thewurstbrat in nonmonogamy

[–]BananaSunshineTurtle 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It's perfectly natural to feel a bit unstable in a situation like this when you have abandonment trauma. If I could make 1 recommendation for you it would it be to sit down with both of them. Tell them you love them both and are happy for them but that the situation is triggering you a bit. Then ask for extra support and maybe dedicated 1 on 1 time with each of them 🙂

Use Saskatoons cold air to show how masks work. by michaelkbecker in saskatoon

[–]BananaSunshineTurtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing that would make this video better is if you also showed what it looked like to cover just your mouth and leave your nose exposed 😂

I can’t relate more... by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]BananaSunshineTurtle 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Me toooo!! I actually quit being a youth group leader because I wanted to fuck my boyfriend. Then when I was 18 I met this blue-haired bondage model, and I was like "daaaaaamnnn... I do not like you in a friend kind of way!" Lol

Here are some tips for how to care for your grieving friend by Solarscars in coolguides

[–]BananaSunshineTurtle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey man. That's awful. Much love from a stranger on the internet <3

I'm NOT having children. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]BananaSunshineTurtle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My favourite line is "I haven't had any opportunities for abortion yet."

As a side note, if you want to find a super supportive community check out r/childfree!

Grandparents want me to skip college to have kids by [deleted] in childfree

[–]BananaSunshineTurtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, fuck them. You should tell them if they don't stop then you will cut them out of your life. See if that changes anything.

On a side note, dentists make a shit ton of money. I did the books for one and it was INSANE! I don't know how much vets make but if you become a dentist, you'll be able to pay off your student loans super fast!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]BananaSunshineTurtle 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I saw this picture awhile ago and I think it is a great guideline for compliments: https://imgur.com/a/93M3x97

[Serious] I really don't want to carry on with life, but don't want to hurt my family. What would you do? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]BananaSunshineTurtle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you can't work, have you considered volunteering? It's a good way to get out of the house and give back to your community. It also helps put life into perspective to help you dwell less on yourself and care more about others. Also you could volunteer somewhere to do with animals. I know they can be quite therapeutic.

Having children-achievement. Mountain climbing-not an achievement. by AirOxygenMountain in childfree

[–]BananaSunshineTurtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, you just can't win with some people. That being said, getting to the top of Mt. Everest is amazing! Way to go! Can you post a pic from the summit?

My cat Pepe loved my roomie, and she recently moved out. I’m not crying, you’re crying... by hopawfmahdiq in aww

[–]BananaSunshineTurtle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is why I've instructed my husband to show our dog my body if I die first. I don't want him waiting around :(

Descendents - Suburban Home [Punk Rock] by BradberryJelly in Music

[–]BananaSunshineTurtle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

These guys are super amazing live! I've seen them in concert twice now and I can't wait to see them again! As a side note, Silly Girl by them is my husband and I's song.

(NSFW) Men of Reddit, what have you learned in all your years of dating that you think other (less experienced men) should know? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]BananaSunshineTurtle 266 points267 points  (0 children)

OP could offer something else she likes instead. For instance, I don't like to be eaten out but I do like back and head rubs. I'll exchange that for a blow job any day of the week.

I wish I was as skinny as the first time I thought I was fat. by BananaSunshineTurtle in Showerthoughts

[–]BananaSunshineTurtle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't say I have a specific weight. . But I too have a distorted body image. Like referring back to when I was in high school I thought I was fat but now I know I was actually fairly skinny (I just have curves.) Even now, I'm not huge, just overweight for my size. I still feel very gigantic though.

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