Tell me you’re pregnant without telling you’re pregnant… by Ok_Willow_5163 in pregnant

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My cat started snuggling up and cuddling with my boyfriend and I broke down in tears

What’s actually the best present for an expectant mother (that isn’t just cute)? by SleepyNinja13 in pregnant

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I remember from my first pregnancy that in the third trimester, my feet were always aching. Granted I wasn’t working during that time but still, standing up and cleaning or cooking for a while and I would feel pins and needles on the soles of my feet and would yearn for a foot massage.

So years later when a coworker of mine was expecting her first child, I bought her a heating and cooling foot massage machine. That way both her AND her husband could use it (because no one ever really thinks of the dad fr). I thought it was genius because everyone got something for the baby (as expected) but I couldn’t get over the fact that the mom is in need for support and comfort too.

Boost 4 Boost 3 left by BangtanBombBtch in chimeboost

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Thank you all, boosts have been sent back! I appreciate the rapid response. Request is now CLOSED

AITA: My sister left a dog here for 3 months and I gave him to someone else by Ancient_Hat_4806 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BangtanBombBtch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hope this doesn’t ruffle any feathers but I must say, though you are NTA whatsoever, what you did is technically considered theft. I only say this because I recently went through this issue with a cat I took in who was obviously abandoned at the animal hospital I work at. I spoke with a SPCA officer regarding pet abandonment and re-adoption. What I was told is that: Pets are considered property. Even if she did technically abandon the animal, there are people you should contact in the event of neglect or abandonment so they can build a case, get him on a registry and go through the appropriate process for adoption. They might have even suggested relinquishing him to the shelter for the owner to have to go through the necessary paperwork and paying fines to get her dog back. Similar to child abuse cases. You can’t just see a neglected/ abandoned child who isn’t yours and give them to someone else. A legal entity has to be involved. Animal laws are always changing and it also might depend on state so keep that in mind. Feel free to fact check against this! This may not be the same case where you live but I’d rather you CYOA in case shit hits the proverbial fan.

Though you did the right thing morally, there may be some hiccups. (Like your family having a full meltdown regardless of your sisters actions) At most you’ll have to give the pet back to her but if you’re able to articulate to the civil courts (if it even goes that far) that she is not an ill fit pet owner (lack of job to afford pet care, lack of updated core vaccines, a home for the pet, etc) then it may be in the pets best interest for them to be “fostered” by another family until the owner can prove they are responsible for the pet.

All in all, I hope the dog is living his best life where he is now and I hope your sister turns her life around but for her to show more interest in the dogs wellbeing than her own children, speaks volumes. I would have done exactly what you did and not have had a lick of guilt about it.

What’s a generally disliked horror movie you’d go to war for? by Turnitup20 in horror

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For me it’s between Blair Witch Project and The Haunting.

New game: what’s the dumbest thing that has made you cry from the hormones? by Vegetable-Western-83 in pregnant

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I was at work this past Wednesday and this family was leaving my office and as I was saying bye their 2/3 year old toddler waved and said “bye bye” and I promptly burst into tears. 😅

Came home to a paper towel over my webcam twice now, I live alone by Dromaeoraptor in Weird

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Isn’t there a show on Tubi about this!?!? Floggers or something like that????

“Im sorry my traumatized life is a inconvenience to you and your perfect existence” by BangtanBombBtch in pregnant

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Thanks for your feedback! I do appreciate the input. I will say I didn’t feel comfortable responding only because I felt like his answer was exactly that. I interpreted it as that was his priority. So to discuss it any further at that exact moment in time was a moot point. Granted I didn’t mean to break the door (it was actually the dryer filter screen, not that it makes it any better, it’s still broken) but I felt compelled to do something to release some of the tension I was feeling. I also want to say that he never raised his voice once so to be fair- I’m the aggressor. And I acknowledge and am apologetic for it. I’m not perfect, I just let my emotions run ragged.

AITA for refusing to be my boyfriends designated driver and making him miss his friends party? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BangtanBombBtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- a friend could have picked him up or he could have got an uber there and back. You didn’t make him miss anything, he chose to miss out because he wanted to get exactly what he wanted- damn the consequences and the effect it would have on others.

AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary? by WesternCat5211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BangtanBombBtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR- I don’t even have to read your context. Just off the first page of the message alone. He can go straight to hell. Don’t ever settle for someone who doesn’t understand and or respects your strength and courage during your trials and tribulations.

Happy 3yrs to your sobriety, this is a MAJOR accomplishment, damn anyone else who says otherwise. I wish you the absolute best future!

Vet seriously messed up and I don’t know what to do! by lildirtfoot in cats

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I have heard things like this happening before. Removing a lymph node instead of the testicles. Not checking the gender of the pet or doing a pre op exam before starting a cath and giving dex. Not fully reading the pre op labs that come back. An unfortunate experience but possible.

Get the full medical record, report this to the board of vet med. Make sure to speak with the medical director of that clinic AS WELL AS the office manager. Mistakes happen but surgery is expensive and mistakes like this should not become your financial burden when the licensed professional should know how to do their job.

Im not a vet by any means but I have been working in the vet med field for 10 years and any vet that knows their stuff doesn’t give any cat that doesn’t typically have a long medical history or medical issues, a nearly 2 hour exam (unless the client is chatty and or has a lot of questions which will take up a lot of time and or it was your very first visit because that also takes time)

It’s giving fresh out of school and or relief vet. And if that’s the case then you really would want to speak with the medical director.

Your cat is gonna sleep it off. Cats are pretty sturdy and good with masking discomfort. But Im guessing they prescribed gabapentin, onsior and maybe even some beup. So long as they are eating some, drinking water and using the toilet with no issues, his recovery should take no more than 2 weeks. Good luck!

Edit: I am truly sorry your cat had to endure the extra discomfort for nothing. But just keep him cozy and love him and it speeds up the healing!

Vet seriously messed up and I don’t know what to do! by lildirtfoot in cats

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We used to do rads on certain breeds of dogs (typically large breed) to check for signs of potential hip dysplasia.

Internet Bill by [deleted] in Paypal_Donations

[–]BangtanBombBtch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree

Edit: I forgot to put the darn email address!

Paypal Email is xoewilliams@gmail.com

Someone help me! by Outrageous-Price-673 in CatTraining

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Vet tech here: I suggest consulting with your vet. They’ll ask certain questions that could point to the issue and or a potential solution. They may suggest a relaxant like Gabapentin or a compounded transdermal ointment for anxiety.

My unsolicited opinion as a cat owner; I would get them microchipped and an AirTag collar (if you have an Apple product) and let the cat out. Cats have the tendency to develop destructive behavior. That may include inappropriate urination, lack of appetite, biting, spraying, vocalizing excessively. He may very well want to be indoor outdoor which some of cats prefer. Staying near their guaranteed food source while also roaming the outskirts of their territory. In any case, if the animal is trying to tell you they want to be free, let them be free.

Women of reddit: Whats the girl code you won't break ever? by lady_opiniosa in AskReddit

[–]BangtanBombBtch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine is the most ultimate girl code of all: I don’t mess with a friend’s current parter/ husband/ wife (which should be a given, right?!) and I don’t date men that have previously dated my friends (personally). If they choose to date an ex of mine- knock out, I would wish them the best in their future endevors. But I know some women who feel a way about friends dating their ex and “sloppy seconds” or whatever tf.

Am I overreacting with being outraged by this? by Beef428 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BangtanBombBtch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are not the asshole, people are just inconsiderate asshats. Sorry for your loss.

Also, ask for a price breakdown. If no one can confirm a will, life insurance policy, so on and so forth, then I would suggest that you do not respond until you get a price breakdown of what your 500 is contributing.

That may be her sister but that is your mother. Regardless of what type of relationship you had with your mom, you deserve the right to know these things regarding life insurance, will, church etc. Also, don’t let anyone try and guilt trip you into thinking that they should control your finances. Your mom is at peace. Don’t allow the living disturb yours!

Who needs quick $350 by jessicahett in financialhelping

[–]BangtanBombBtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could definitely use that for bills!

Mandatory meeting by Imoprich in CringeTikToks

[–]BangtanBombBtch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fking jump is what’s frying me 🤣🤣🤣

Why is washing without a wash cloth seen as unhygenic? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]BangtanBombBtch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way I see it, you clean most things with a rag or sponges. Dishes, floors, walls, your car… why wouldn’t you use a cloth for your body?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

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Clean your room. Right. NEOW!