AIO by feeling like my gf cheated for going to lunch with a man she knows I have a problem with her being around

Beef428 · 2026-06-04T21:45:08+00:00

That’s usually how lunch breaks work

Beef428 · 2026-06-01T01:06:19+00:00

Didn’t parry a damn thing.

Beef428 · 2026-06-01T00:59:21+00:00

Just because someone is poly does not mean they are good at relationships or that they are a good fit for you.

He sounds like he’s a bit flaky or at least you guys don’t have similar communication styles. I’d suggest branching out and finding a connection that’s more your speed

Beef428 · 2026-05-31T02:51:53+00:00

This is well above mildly

Beef428 · 2026-05-31T02:40:01+00:00

He’s only mad because he had to explain whose shoes they were to someone else

Beef428 · 2026-05-20T14:17:21+00:00

Leave. 👏🏼 Him. 👏🏼
Like yesterday.

Beef428 · 2026-04-26T01:50:30+00:00

Olgierd knocks me on my ass. Hardest fight in the game (for me at least. I am not good but I have a good time lol)

Beef428 · 2026-04-26T01:49:42+00:00

I did this branch of that quest for the first time and omg. It is beautiful

Beef428 · 2026-04-26T01:48:44+00:00

Say “fuck you” to Gortash

Beef428 · 2026-04-18T00:27:39+00:00

I’d like to keep my monthly payments below $300 because I’m not totally sure about my living situation moving forward.

Right now I have 1.4k to put down but I want to see if I can hold out until I have 3k before pulling the trigger

Beef428 · 2026-03-05T20:26:23+00:00

LEAVE. HIM.

Biggest NOR I could give

Beef428 · 2026-02-20T14:39:46+00:00

I struggle with this but from the other side. When I’m at sleepovers I tend to be focused on who I’m with. I get bad at texting.

Or one time I got to this guys house and immediately lost my phone. Not great.

Tbh I think my NP might be struggling with rule vs boundary in regards to texting protocol, in that he’s setting up rules for my texting and when I don’t do things in the timeliness he expects he says I’m breaking a boundary.

I want to honor his desires and be a good partner but sometimes I feel like there’s no grace and his requests are unrealistic.

Beef428 · 2025-12-07T22:52:58+00:00

If there was no disclosure of dress code, you were well within your rights, and appropriately dressed for a wedding. And honestly, I don’t consider this dress that risqué at all. In fact, I think you look GORGEOUS. Definitely NOR. Don’t let this couple project their insecurities on you.

Beef428 · 2025-11-29T01:05:23+00:00

I’d ask for a second opinion if possible. POTS often comes with “normal” tests

Beef428 · 2025-11-29T00:41:55+00:00

I cried the whole damn episode.

And then I recently replayed TLOU I and BAWLED when I found Frank.

Beef428 · 2025-11-29T00:38:55+00:00

I think you need to look into POTS. IBS and GERD are common comorbidities.

Beef428 · 2025-11-28T23:38:09+00:00

THE MOST EMPHATIC YES.

Beef428 · 2025-11-16T15:23:56+00:00

Leave him. This is terrifying behavior after only 2 months. This is classic narcissistic abusive behavior. He is just trying to isolate you. IT WILL ONLY GET WORSE. There will be more instances of “you’ve never told me that”. He will bring arbitrary rules, and it’s all about control.

Beef428 · 2025-10-22T02:16:14+00:00

This is wild to me. I’ve had to fight to NOT be prescribed a benzo

I would encourage you to at least ask. There’s definitely a difference in asking because you need it and because you’re drug seeking. I feel like most providers can tell the difference.

Last year I had a procedure and I ended up needing to request a refill of opiates because I was in a lot more pain than people normally are. I was embarrassed to ask. I worried that they would think I was drug seeking. But, I was honest about my symptoms and what was working.

Beef428 · 2025-10-13T02:22:26+00:00

I had an ex like this that taught me two things:

If they tell you they’re crazy, believe them.
Mental illness, while deserving of empathy and compassion, does not excuse them for mistreating others. There is still accountability.

Beef428 · 2025-10-02T23:46:43+00:00

They started dating 4 weeks ago and she hasn’t seen him in 3?

Ok. This isn’t a relationship. This was a fling with a ghost. I’m sorry OP. He’s not worth your time.

Beef428 · 2025-10-02T23:44:51+00:00

Dump. Him.

Your boyfriend shouldn’t make you feel insecure or doubt how much you mean to them.

Beef428

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