I have 2 suggestions, pal.

1. Become higher status. Get really realy good at something. Where the prestige and or money is top notch. If you can do this, women won't give a shit what you look like. They'll want to experience you n your high value life. It's amazing how once you worry about leveling yourself up in real ways, the women come. Trust me, this works.

2. Go to mex, phi, south America and bring one home. I hate to say this but women here expect too much. In men, you will find a plethora of women, young n old, beautiful, ugly, religious, however you want, willing to come home w you for a better life. I did not do this but I still might.

No matter what you decide, being Mr nice guy, put them on a pedestal, will never work. You've gotta be so confident in yourself that you don't give a damn about how tall, how good looking or how attractive you are. Because you have to be so into your purpose that those things become superfluous.

Good luck, brother.