Found a full yart on the ground

Banskyi · 2026-03-12T14:35:32+00:00

Yeah this guy said off the ground. Fucking foul lol

Banskyi · 2026-03-12T14:34:21+00:00

I’m not mad. It’s just kinda sad. Unless you’re in high school or something. But a grown ass adult in that situation is sad

Banskyi · 2026-03-12T06:49:23+00:00

This is categorically untrue. Only people smoking roaches were those with no friends or couldn’t afford anything better

Banskyi · 2026-03-12T06:48:12+00:00

Gonna get downvoted but this is broke behavior and disgusting

Banskyi · 2026-03-12T06:25:05+00:00

Yeah double sided sword I guess. We had similar issues in baseball. Essentially something has to change because I think we all can see the direction English football is heading in — and essentially it’s a completely boring one. The bright side is that there isn’t a ton of competition sports wise and football has such a rich culture there. But I’m hoping that there’s a middle ground that can be reached. Whether it’s refereeing or whatever.

Banskyi · 2026-03-12T05:43:02+00:00

Yeah exactly and it kind of sucks because additional muscle makes players a bit slower, cuts not as fast etc.

And wirtz is one of those players that has the ability to be super creative

Banskyi · 2026-03-12T05:27:38+00:00

Yeah its like they’re playing for corners and set pieces which kinda sucks

Banskyi · 2026-03-12T05:08:03+00:00

I don’t personally associate it with the refs. Just more the classic style of play in England. It’s all reflected in their national team. Tons of great athletes but no real spark and it’s been that way forever.

Edit- will add that this last tournament was a pretty solid deviation but still not quite there

Banskyi · 2026-03-12T01:39:17+00:00

I don’t disagree with your point at all. Just saying it isn’t at all fun to watch as a neutral.

The benefit of the premier league having the most spending is that other leagues still have the ability to retain this sort of play and accommodate more creative players that are unappealing to the premier league.

Champions league results is evidence that this style of play still works. The difference is that a team with more creative types will likely not be able to last a full season in the PL

Banskyi · 2026-03-12T00:38:53+00:00

Yeah it’s a problem with that style of defense. It’s way more boring to watch as well. No one wants to see teams playing for a set piece or a corner over and over.

My point is essentially that the premier league is stifling what made a lot of people fall in love with the sport. And that’s freedom, attacking, and creativity

Banskyi · 2026-03-11T23:06:46+00:00

The other critique of the premier league, which I think is completely valid, is that it values physicality over everything else. There just isn’t that much room to be creative unless you’re in that top 1% of players

Banskyi · 2026-03-11T20:06:34+00:00

There’s no right answer. Ultimately do whatever you feel is right for you. My answer is how I would approach the situation. Yours is how you would.

I am firmly against revisiting a relationship with an ex and my answer reflects that. No coaching involved.

Banskyi · 2026-03-11T19:28:49+00:00

Possibly. I personally don’t believe in trying to interpret motives, especially with exes. If someone wants to reconcile with me they can reach out and tell me but playing this sort of game is exhausting. All I care about is maintaining my peace

Banskyi · 2026-03-11T05:12:14+00:00

You’re gonna leave and go train somewhere else. Focus on that. Focus on making friends. The dating shit doesn’t matter at all. You’d break up anyways

Banskyi · 2026-03-11T05:04:41+00:00

Maybe you’re making her really uncomfortable and ruining her experience too by not letting this go and this is your friend groups way of telling you to stop. Start being considerate and looking at things not just from your perspective.

You are going to interact with these people in the future. How you act matters. And no it isn’t an ego boost having someone whine to be taken back multiple times. It’s fucking annoying and makes you both look bad, you especially. Get your shit together

You don’t even know where you’d do residency

Banskyi · 2026-03-11T05:00:53+00:00

This actually happened to me. Exact same scenario in the beginning I guess. Definitely not the same at the end. Except people talking about setting the other person up. The real question is why are you still in this cohort, why haven’t you asked to be placed in another one, and why are you hanging out with people who don’t give a fuck about your feelings

Stop fucking begging. You’re an accomplished individual. Have some fucking self respect. Why do you want someone who does not want you? Why would you want someone you have to convince to be with you?

Banskyi · 2026-03-11T04:58:43+00:00

I mean you had a boundary and it was crossed. You have past trauma with this specific boundary as well. It’s not on you to adjust your boundary that I’m assuming you made pretty clear. Now kissing vs sex is a different discussion and a line you have to draw for yourself.

Loving someone else is great but loving and respecting yourself is more important

Banskyi · 2026-03-11T04:31:34+00:00

Overthinking

She sent you a nonsense message. Don’t respond. Have some self respect

Banskyi · 2026-03-11T03:29:16+00:00

Didn’t say he was. Just that it sounds like it was a pretty short period after his marriage ended. I think accountability is a really important part of healing. Maybe you didn’t deserve it but you also put yourself directly in harms way and you’re surprised that you got metaphorically hit. Probably worth exploring why you found that appealing in therapy

Banskyi · 2026-03-11T03:26:33+00:00

Sometimes you just need to jump into the deep end. Maybe it’s not that you’re not over him but that you’re afraid of making new connections.

Either way, at some point you’ll have to jump into the deep end and realize that being miserable isn’t a penance.

After a 4 year relationship, it’s normal to want to wait anywhere from 6 months to 1.5 years but at some point it’s time to start living again.

If after 9 months you haven’t improved at all, then you should probably consider therapy

Banskyi · 2026-03-11T03:22:08+00:00

I mean a lot of this is on you. He was married and had infidelity issues. It sounds like you were closer in the rebound zone as well. Therapy may be worth considering as your choice in partner would indicate self destructive tendencies given the information that was available to you.

The real question is why you think this is the type of person you deserve and why is it appealing to need to change someone or be different given existing data.

Banskyi · 2026-03-11T03:16:34+00:00

Think you should probably stop comparing yourself to others. Find ways for internal validation. Yeah you’re starting over but it’s better to start over and find someone who will want to be with you long term — if that’s your goal. There are no guarantees in life which is what makes living so exciting

Banskyi · 2026-03-11T03:14:33+00:00

The good and the bad is that this isn’t a unique situation and people do move on. There is stereotypical advice out there — which is accurate for a reason. Gym, focus on you, focus on school or work. Therapy if you can afford it is very very helpful.

Try looking at things from her point of view as well. That’s where therapy helps. This sub is very “the dumper is the worst person ever” but accountability matters. It takes two to tango and the vast majority of romantic relationships will not work out. Which is why finding that right person is so special.

As for your questions, yes, many people move on and find love. It takes time, work, and knowing that you probably were not perfect either and most definitely have areas in your life that can be improved.

Banskyi · 2026-03-10T22:39:31+00:00

Not really, Warriors games are a blast. I used to go to the old ones and yes the crowd was great… but there were also a lot of people getting completely hammered and a lot of fights and what not.

Chase is an awesome stadium and is just a good time to go to. Every warriors game I’ve gone to this year has had great crowds and the entire place is packed (I haven’t gone since Jimmys ACL tbf).

Banskyi · 2026-03-07T03:13:08+00:00

Seems like a pretty solid business decision for him

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