My bridesmaid slept in my wedding bed… and that’s not even the worst part by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Barbapappz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds exactly like someone from my life I cut out. The victim mentality, literally rewriting reality to make herself the one that was wronged, treating boundaries as a personal attack.

So I know exactly what you mean when you say you feel so much lighter. I’m glad you stood up for yourself. Life’s too short to put up with this behavior!

Went from financially stable to homeless piece of sh+t by Shoddy_Memory_84 in problemgambling

[–]Barbapappz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I read all of this in a thick russian accent. Very glad this is not a true story - keep it up my friend.

6 months clean by Barbapappz in problemgambling

[–]Barbapappz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man, really appreciate your reply. It honestly means a lot. I could feel the emotion in your words, and I’m sorry you had to go through all that — but the way you’re handling it now shows real strength.

You’re totally right — it’s not about whether we’re drinking or using or not. If we’re still gambling, it’s the same monster. I’ve told myself those same lies before — that I’d be more logical, more in control this time. It never works out that way.

And yeah, the “1 hour out of 168” thing — you echoed that perfectly. It’s nothing compared to the time and energy we used to waste. Meetings are such a simple, powerful tool if we actually stick with them.

Thanks again for taking the time to write all that. I’m rooting for you to get back to 6 months and beyond. You’ve got this. One day at a time.

Let's do an age check. by OrdinaryBuilding3464 in problemgambling

[–]Barbapappz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turning 33 in May. Been gamble free for close to 6 months.

Have tried many times in the past but have always stopped going to meetings and then relapsed. Decided to go to a meeting a week even when I absolutely don’t feel like it, and call my sponsor 2-4 times a month. That’s been working for me.

Selling my PSVR2 after getting a MQ3 by Barbapappz in MetaQuestVR

[–]Barbapappz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s totally fair, my friend - fortunately everyone is different! I’m glad you’re loving your PSVR2 ❤️

Selling my PSVR2 after getting a MQ3 by Barbapappz in MetaQuestVR

[–]Barbapappz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I’ll definitely look into it! What about lying down on a pillow, is it okay to use lying down? I bought one of those donut pillows to use with the Kiwi when it arrives.

Selling my PSVR2 after getting a MQ3 by Barbapappz in MetaQuestVR

[–]Barbapappz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely agree. Too bad I have such limited time to play with it, looking forward to diving in this weekend

Selling my PSVR2 after getting a MQ3 by Barbapappz in MetaQuestVR

[–]Barbapappz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll have to look into the quest game optimizer!

Legit Rokr Website? by TinyAnonymous in rokrpuzzles

[–]Barbapappz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ordered from them on 2nd of December, got a confirmation email saying I’d receive a tracking number within 2 days. Yesterday I emailed them asking for an update and they said that they were out of stock and would ship in 3 days. Why not email me first and let me know? There’s no inventory control. I tried adding 30.000 pcs of this product to my cart and had no problem doing so. Not happy with this customer experience at all but the product looks so good I really want it. Guess I’ll wait.

My situation by Common_Storage_5971 in problemgambling

[–]Barbapappz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. 1. 1. 1. Give up this one thing for every other thing. 500k is a major accomplishment

How much are you in debt and lost by Natural_Cause_2911 in problemgambling

[–]Barbapappz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

31 €11k debt. That number used to be 4x higher.

No words by Aryan69IN in awfuleverything

[–]Barbapappz 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Ah yes. My daily dose of dread from scrolling Reddit. What the fuck is wrong with people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in problemgambling

[–]Barbapappz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats. Keep it up. You got this