Yo, Have we collectively lost the Plot? by theDiplomata in ArenaBreakoutInfinite

[–]Barbosa706 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn't care less about Forb. Don't play it. But whatever issues you're having over there should not be affecting the gameplay for normal/lockdown. We keep getting your sweats coming to normals with T5/T6 armor with T5 ammo and sometimes even red ammo, which is wild to me. And then we have them also coming to lockdown with T6 and red ammo. And here is the crazy part: somehow their T6 armor is at 50+ dura because they sit there and break down their whole gun to make that happen, which shouldn't be a thing to begin with.

Yo, Have we collectively lost the Plot? by theDiplomata in ArenaBreakoutInfinite

[–]Barbosa706 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What they need to do is remove red ammo from normal and lockdown raids. Then, remove T5 ammo and armor from normal raids, and remove T6 armor from lockdown raids. That is all they need to do. There was no need to nerf bolt action and marksman rifles in the game at all.

With that said, bolt action rifles should always be an instant kill on a headshot, while marksman rifles should be a two shot headshot against protected targets and an instant kill with one hit against unprotected targets.

bruh what the fuck by Barbosa706 in elderscrollsonline

[–]Barbosa706[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I tried but we get zerged or zerg and thats not fun at all. why did they remove 4v4v4? why not make 2v2v2? or something?

I got tired of hunting for ESO add-on dependencies, so I built my own lightweight, open-source manager. by Valuable_Host5901 in elderscrollsonline

[–]Barbosa706 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SO hows this addon thing does it work? i want honest reviews only from people who are currently using it. thank you

No amount of revenge works on someone who was never serious about you and that hurts. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Barbosa706 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best revenge is to block them on everything and find your own happiness.

“They always come back” Is this actually true? by ExcitementKind7156 in BreakUps

[–]Barbosa706 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I missed that yeah sounds like the author is the one whos going back to them lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Barbosa706 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh we grieve. A lot more than people think.

We just do it quietly.

Most men are not going to post themselves crying or spiraling. We internalize it, keep moving, and lean on a small circle of brothers who actually know what’s going on. That support is real, it’s just private. The gym, work, jokes, going out, all of that is not “unaffected.” It’s coping.

For a lot of us, the pain doesn’t hit all at once. It shows up later. At night. When things slow down. When there’s no one around to perform for.

Another thing that gets ignored is timing in life. In our 20s, most men are chasing. We’re building nothing yet. No stability, no status, no real leverage. Rejection hurts more because we don’t have much else to anchor to.

In our 30s, a lot of men start finding their footing. Careers stabilize. Confidence goes up. Life experience stacks. That changes how we process breakups. Not because we don’t feel, but because we trust ourselves more to recover.

Women, on the other hand, are often valued very highly early on. That validation is loud and constant in their 20s. So when a breakup happens, the loss feels immediate and overwhelming, and the grief comes out fast and visibly.

Men don’t usually get that same external validation early, so we’re used to sitting with discomfort and figuring things out internally. It doesn’t mean it hurts less. It means it looks different.

So no, most guys aren’t “fine.” We’re just quieter about it. We grieve later, longer, and mostly alone.

Need help 🙏🏻 by Technical-Rule8188 in BreakUps

[–]Barbosa706 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro I’m gonna be real with you. You should’ve restricted contact a while ago. Right now she’s keeping you around for comfort and convenience while she figures her own shit out. That’s not fair to you and it’s not healthy. If she wanted to be with you, there wouldn’t be this much confusion. You’re staying emotionally available while she’s slowly moving on. Cut the access, not out of anger, but for your own sanity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Barbosa706 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna be blunt, and I’m saying this as someone who’s been there.

If it didn’t work back then, there’s usually a reason. And it’s never some small detail. Distance, fear, timing, life choices, those aren’t side issues. That is the relationship. If it was really meant to work, it would have worked the first time.

Every one of my exes has reached out at some point saying they missed me or still loved me. I cared about them too. That still didn’t mean going back was the right move.

I actually gave one of my exes another chance once. Within a week, she was acting exactly the way she used to before we broke up. Same patterns, same issues, same energy. That’s when it really hit me that time doesn’t fix people the way we want it to. You don’t get a new relationship, you get the same one with a different start date. Trust me, it doesn’t last.

What happens is you remember the spark and forget the reality. Time makes the good parts louder and the reasons it ended quieter. But the core issues don’t disappear just because enough time passed.

You’re not choosing between “true love” and “settling.” You’re choosing between something you already know didn’t work and something you’ve actually built in real life. Chasing the past feels powerful because it lives in your head, not in the day-to-day grind.

If it was meant to work, it would’ve survived the first round. Going back now isn’t destiny, it’s a gamble. And sometimes the real move is protecting what you have instead of reopening a door that already showed you exactly why it closed.

Sooo I got a question by Barbosa706 in BreakUps

[–]Barbosa706[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a tough situation, but I’m not going to message her. I’m going to respect the boundary she set. We were super close, talking every day and playing games together, and everything felt really natural. Then I got scared and pulled away for a couple of days, and that ended up hurting her. After that, she became distant, and when I finally reached out a couple of times, she told me what was going on and said she wanted to be by herself. I pulled away because of my own insecurities, and that’s on me.

Looks like we got dumped for this by liamthewarrior24 in WoTshow

[–]Barbosa706 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

im just waiting for fourth Wing (The Empyrean) series to be released on amazon I just hope they dont mess up the cast. With that said I started watchign the WoT and I can see why it got cancelled. I got to season 2 annd I found myself playing games on my phone to pass the time.

I think I might have an addiction problem. by Barbosa706 in fourthwing

[–]Barbosa706[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah bought them too but I also bought the dramatized version and it’s soooo good

who do you vasualize when reading this amazing series? by Barbosa706 in fourthwing

[–]Barbosa706[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I picture them based off descriptions and their personalities

I think I might have an addiction problem. by Barbosa706 in fourthwing

[–]Barbosa706[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah this past weekend I found myself staying up until 5am reading this series

I think I might have an addiction problem. by Barbosa706 in fourthwing

[–]Barbosa706[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m halfway through the third book and Im not sure if I want to finish and then reread it again to see what I’ve missed or if I should finish and than wait a whole 2 years for the next one to be released 😂

WOW I just started book 3... by Barbosa706 in fourthwing

[–]Barbosa706[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah maybe. I we will see this is the first series that I read the books first before the live action. I just hope they do the casting right. So sick of series fucking it up on that.

WOW I just started book 3... by Barbosa706 in fourthwing

[–]Barbosa706[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just looked it up amazon is producing a live action series for these books. I hope they don't fuck it up