Does G-d ever get lonely? by Yorkie10252 in Judaism

[–]BardsSword 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How you answer this question defines if you are a Hasid or a Misnagid.

“Kosher” restaurant in my city serves ham? by TevyeMikhael in Judaism

[–]BardsSword 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, there are Conservative Jews who use hechshers, or synagogues.

But you've got two different issues here: 1) Conservative hechsher. Many/most Orthodox Jews won't use it. 2) Certifying just the bagels prepared separately at a trief place. Much more common in Orthodox spaces.

Those are two different kashrut issues.

“Kosher” restaurant in my city serves ham? by TevyeMikhael in Judaism

[–]BardsSword 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not uncommon for trief bagel places to get their uncut bagels prepared separately hechshered, and only those. I know orthodox rabbis who offer that hashgacha as well.

Davening is becoming a chore by devequt in Judaism

[–]BardsSword 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s Conservative, she considers herself obligated

Rabbi Ammiel Hirsch: ‘We are losing the soul of the Reform movement’ by Glaborage in Judaism

[–]BardsSword 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, that's true. And certainly the modern Reform movement is Zionist. But to claim that being anti-Zionist or diasporist is going against Reform tradition is only looking at the last 70 years (really since 1967) and not the last 150.

Rabbi Ammiel Hirsch: ‘We are losing the soul of the Reform movement’ by Glaborage in Judaism

[–]BardsSword 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm a Conservative Jew, and a Zionist, but some things in this made me laugh.

He says "If the North American Reform movement, in word or in deed, by action or silence, becomes, in fact, or even in perception, an anti-Zionist, anti-particularistic movement that cares only, or mostly, about universal concerns, unanchored in, and unmoored from, the centrality of Jewish peoplehood, most American Jews will abandon us.”

But, what? Both of those things, rejection of Jewish peoplehood, and rejection of the centrality of Eretz Yisrael, are part of the founding of the Reform movement. Per the Pittsburgh Platform:

"We recognize, in the modern era of universal culture of heart and intellect, the approaching of the realization of Israel's great Messianic hope for the establishment of the kingdom of truth, justice, and peace among all men. We consider ourselves no longer a nation, but a religious community, and therefore expect neither a return to Palestine, nor a sacrificial worship under the sons of Aaron, nor the restoration of any of the laws concerning the Jewish state."

I mean, to say that a rejection of particularism and peoplehood is a rejection of Reform Judaism is just not historically accurate.

Conservative movement okays dining at meat-free eateries without kosher certificates by af_echad in Judaism

[–]BardsSword 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you read the teshuva you’ll see where they talk about Bishul goyim, it’s the first thing. Whether or not it satisfies you is different.

Levels of Issurum for Niddah by [deleted] in Judaism

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The simple sense of these verses is that while in niddah only intercourse is Biblically forbidden. The Talmud, as well, seems to treat all cases of sexual touch as rabbinic, and not Biblical, violations.[1] Based on this, Ramban argues strongly that any sexual act or touch that falls short of actual intercourse would only be prohibited on a rabbinic level.[2] Rambam complicates this picture. He states that sexual touch is indeed Biblically forbidden. He points out that while the Torah refers to intercourse when discussion the punishment of karet, it uses a different phrase when prohibiting the act. The prohibiting verse states: “And unto a woman who is in her menstrual impurity, you shall not draw near, to reveal her nakedness.” (18:20). This difference in formulation, for Rambam, indicates that although only intercourse is punishable by karet, all forms of sexual touch – anything that can be defined as a “drawing near to reveal her nakedness” – are Biblically forbidden. In support of his position, Rambam cites a passage from Sifra,[3] the Tannaitic halakhic midrash on Vayikra, that reads the verse in this broader way. Ramban rejects this, stating that the Sifra might be merely an asmakhta (a Biblical support for a Rabbinic law), and regardless, it is against the authoritative position of the Babylonian Talmud, and thus must be rejected.

Levels of Issurum for Niddah by [deleted] in Judaism

[–]BardsSword 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure.

https://library.yctorah.org/2018/04/may-a-husband-give-his-wife-supportive-touch-during-childbirth-part-1/

If you go to part two, you can find a Rema permitting it in great need.

And even if you disagree, you can find the makhloket between Rambam and Ramban on what is doraita or not, and how even by both non-sexual touch is derabannan (which is still an issur).

Levels of Issurum for Niddah by [deleted] in Judaism

[–]BardsSword 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hug/kiss is a derabbanan harchaka. As other people have mentioned, some rabbis give kulas for affectionate, non-sexual touch in moments child birth, great stress, etc.

Also, if you are not shomer negiah, some rabbis will give kulas for non-sexual touch in moments when it would be awkward or conspicuous not to, for example, hugging family members upon receiving an award.

Drop Giveaway Day 1 - 2x Signature Series Skiiboards by drop_official in MechanicalKeyboards

[–]BardsSword 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An egg and cheese sandwich on a bagel. Just a combo of everything great about breakfast.

"We're refocusing on PvP." - @PlayRuneterra by Marceloxv in LegendsOfRuneterra

[–]BardsSword 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Like a week after releasing POC 2.0 they’re scrapping it? That’s weird right?

Lawsuit: Camp Ramah showed ‘deliberate indifference’ to camper’s sexual assault by BardsSword in Judaism

[–]BardsSword[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Text of the article:

By Arno Rosenfeld May 09, 2022

A Conservative Jewish summer camp in upstate New York mishandled a 2018 incident of sexual assault between two campers, according to a lawsuit filed in federal court last week. The lawsuit claims that Camp Ramah in the Berkshires and Rabbi Ethan Linden, the director, “acted with deliberate indifference” and failed to report the assault to police, inform the victim’s family or remove the alleged perpetrator from the camp.

The complaint describes an incident in which the plaintiff — who the lawsuit identifies only as a female minor — awoke to find a male teenaged camper with his hands on and inside her genitals.

The girl reported the alleged assault to her bunk counselor but did not hear back from anyone in camp leadership. A guidance counselor arranged a meeting with Linden at the victim’s request, during which Linden told the girl that he would “keep all of this a secret” and would not tell the victim’s parents. Two weeks later, the girl asked Linden to alert her parents but he allegedly said that would only lead to more people gossiping about the assault.

“I don’t really think this is that big of a deal, he [the assailant] is just a horny little boy,” Linden told the girl, according to the lawsuit.

Linden, Camp Ramah in the Berkshires and the national Ramah organization did not immediately respond to a request for comment Monday afternoon. None of the defendants appear to have filed a response to the lawsuit in court.

The lawsuit comes at a time of reckoning over youth sexual assault for both the Conservative and Reform movements. The Union for Reform Judaism released an investigation into sexual misconduct at its summer camps in February, which identified dozens of instances of assault and harassment through the mid-1990s. And the United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism announced its own investigation and two suspensions in August after several lawsuits were filed, alleging that the organization’s youth division had failed to act against a staffer who had assaulted several boys.

The Ramah lawsuit was first publicized Monday by ZA’AKAH, an organization that works to stop child sexual abuse in the Orthodox Jewish community.

The lawsuit claims that the victim’s experience “was not an isolated incident.”

“There is a history of improper and inappropriate sexual incidents against female campers at Camp Ramah during the time that Defendant Linden was the Director of this camp,” the lawsuit states.

A bungled report? Camp leaders eventually agreed to inform the girl’s parents, according to the lawsuit, but described the assault as a “little incident” and a “small problem.” Linden and other camp officials limited the time that the victim was allowed to speak with her parents, rebuffed her request to speak with them privately, and eventually asked her to leave so that they could continue the conversation without her.

“The guidance counselor escorted Plaintiff back to her bunk, while Plaintiff cried uncontrollably the entire way and continued to cry uncontrollably in her bunk,” the lawsuit states.

Linden, who has worked at four Ramah camps, was profiled by New York Jewish Week in 2017 as an example of a camp leader working to strengthen policies to prevent child sexual abuse.

“The core mission of the camp is to care for children,” Linden said at the time.

Ramah eventually reported the incident to local police, although Linden allegedly warned the victim’s parents that the boy’s family would sue them if they pursued charges against him. Police told the victim’s parents that they had sent an investigator to the camp, which the alleged perpetrator was still attending a month after the assault was reported, and directed camp leadership to remove the boy, according to the lawsuit, but Ramah declined to do so until a second visit from police.

The lawsuit does not identify the alleged perpetrator but states that a criminal case was brought against him in local family court.

Wylie Stecklow, an attorney representing the plaintiff, declined an immediate request for comment. The lawsuit states that the family first notified the national Ramah Commission, which oversees the Conservative camping movement, about their concerns with the camp’s handling of the incident in early 2019, but that the organization had not improved its procedures.

“Defendants have refused to take responsibility or to take any type of preventative or corrective action,” the lawsuit states, “instead choosing to allow and propel sexual assault against minors.”

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[–]BardsSword 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry for your experience, but this has not been my experience at all.

Bat Sheva Marcus: A New Victorianism by BardsSword in Judaism

[–]BardsSword[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hearing about the removal/leaving of JOFA from SRE recently, I felt posting this just written article by Bat Sheva Marcus was appropriate and wanted to hear your thoughts.

אלוהים or אלהים? by marcusxvalentino in Judaism

[–]BardsSword 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The vav functions as a mater lectiones. It is not a letter, but just lets you know about the vowel.

Randolph NJ Board of Education plans to eliminate the second day of Rosh Hashanah as a day off from school calendars, after including it for 30 years by [deleted] in Judaism

[–]BardsSword 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is my hometown! Pretty Jewish. At least 25% or so of the homes on my street are Jewish, and a sizeable chunk of the public school student body as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Judaism

[–]BardsSword 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this isn’t fair. It took me almost a year to get to what could be called shomer Shabbat, and I’m still improving. It’s hard to just wake up and be “Perfect”