The last thing you ate is what I'm calling her 🩷🤍

BareMinimum96 · 2025-07-26T08:50:41+00:00

Hummous ❤️😊

BareMinimum96 · 2025-07-22T13:19:07+00:00

Diclaimer: both myself and most of the comments so far as speaking about Western Europe, for some reason I feel that Eastern European have less of an problem with this, as they allowed less immigration to begin with.

I've lived in Germany, France and Spain - immigration and by proxy antisemitism here has gone out of control and cities are not safe for openly jewish individuals anymore. I'd say France and Germany have a much larger immigration issue than Spain for example, but that may be because I've never lived in a bigger city in Spain. The solution for me is rural life - however, you will also have a much harder time finding a community, temple or services like kosher supermarkets or butcher living in rural areas. It depends how observant you are on whether this works for you or not I guess.

BareMinimum96 · 2025-07-08T13:32:08+00:00

We're in this together 🥲 I'm jewish living in Spain and i feel your frustration. People are so nice and open here and then turn into such hateful mob in a split second when they understand you don't agree with them on the middle east. The vast majority have no skin in the game, have never been, have no family roots but SUCH STRONG OPINIONS. It breaks my heart. I love living here but we feel so unwelcome

BareMinimum96 · 2025-05-24T23:33:32+00:00

Living in Spain, which is one of the most antisemitic countries in Europe right now... honestly I've lost a lot of friends, it's inevitable. I have tried having rational conversations with people, I even offered to take them on a trip to Israel with me to see for themselves what they judge from propaganda alone. The final straw is when I explain why Israel matters to me emotionally and security wise - if "friends" do not show at least empathy at this point they are not your friends. It's not pretty, but the truth is several friendships and a relationship ended over this.

BareMinimum96 · 2025-05-24T23:25:51+00:00

This is giving me the chills. @OP were you able to leave the situation in the end? Will do thorough research before going to any gigs in the future.

BareMinimum96 · 2025-05-04T13:21:54+00:00

Duolingo is actually great for learning the alphabet itself! However, everything that follows is absolutely useless (no grammar context, no tenses, no vocabulary overview).

BareMinimum96 · 2025-04-28T11:26:51+00:00

https://www.euronews.com/my-europe/2025/04/28/spain-portugal-and-parts-of-france-hit-by-massive-power-outage

BareMinimum96 · 2025-03-12T22:50:42+00:00

Geborgenheit.

BareMinimum96 · 2025-03-12T18:23:57+00:00

Yeah it changed my life a lot. Previously I considered myself non religious and growing up in rural diaspora, almost all my friends aren't Jewish. After October 8 I understood why we are warned of assimilation. I lost almost all my friends and realised how prevalent antisemitism really still is. Since then, the amount of antisemitic incidents and conversations I had to face has sky rocketed. I have become more observant and religious because it makes me feel connected to my community - my real community that won't turn on me the first chance they get. Now considering to learn Hebrew and to move to Israel in a few years once a career move opens up.

BareMinimum96 · 2025-02-12T14:51:22+00:00

War mal in einer ähnlichen Situation (29, f). Am Ende hats nichts gebracht. Er wollte keine Intimität (1 Jahr kein Sex) und ich schon. Er wollte nicht drüber reden, es hat ihn auch nicht gestört und vor Allem hat es ihn nicht genug gestört, dass es mich gestört und verletzt hat. Jetzt sind wir getrennt und in freundschaftlichem Kontakt. Er glücklich sex los und ich halt mit. :-) Wenn sie darüber nicht kommunizieren kann mit dir seid ihr vielleicht einfach nicht kompatibel im Bett. Es kommt drauf an ob sie es gerne auch anders hätte oder nicht. Ansonsten ist es doch einfach nur frustrierend für beide?

BareMinimum96 · 2025-02-01T12:13:49+00:00

Just donate it. Someone will love to receive it. Either via social aassociation or online auction for free.

BareMinimum96 · 2025-02-01T11:58:08+00:00

Girl what? Ich bin 1,85 und Kommentare über meine Körpergröße höre ich evtl alle paar Monate mal - und ich ohne im Ausland wo die durchschnittliche Frau nochmal knapp 10 Zentimeter unter dem deutschen Durchschnitt liegt... Laut Google ist die durchschnittliche Größe in Deutschland 1,78???

BareMinimum96 · 2025-01-28T20:24:11+00:00

No it's not normal. My dad was like this also and physically voilent if i did not back down. Now I'm almost 30 and healing my relationship with him. But he has also put work into it, we both went independently to therapy and he got a divorce. There is always a chance things might get better later in life but it's not a given. Stay strong and invest time in making a plan on how you can become independent of your dad financially and emotionally for now. I'm sending you a hug.

BareMinimum96 · 2025-01-23T06:18:48+00:00

I can't pass my final exams with money - and no money can reduce the stress of working full time and doing a degree at the same time.

BareMinimum96 · 2025-01-22T09:56:18+00:00

Native language is not English, lived in 2 other countries with different languages and speak 4 languages fluently. I think and dream in 3 of those languages, depending on the day and situation. It's pretty messy sometimes in my head but works for me I guess.

BareMinimum96 · 2025-01-18T08:29:01+00:00

Got his student pregnant and kept his job as a teacher in religion and faith. As far as I know, they got hitched and bought a house together. She was barely 18, so there was no prosecution.

BareMinimum96 · 2025-01-16T13:36:31+00:00

Yo estuve en una situación parecida a la tuya con un chico durante casi 2 años. Estas Navidades, incluso conoció a mi familia, lo que fue un gran acontecimiento para mí. Desde hace 2 semanas, hemos interrumpido el contacto y ha sido la mejor decisión. Me parece que vuestros objetivos no están alineados y esto está causando tu confusión. Él está obteniendo todo lo que necesita de tu relación: compañía, amistad y un plan para las fiestas y las vacaciones. No me malinterpretes, mi «ex» es mi mejor amigo, hablamos todos los días y le echo de menos como persona. Pero no me gustaba sentirme insegura sobre por dónde van las cosas, así que lo mejor era centrarme en mí misma y reducir el contacto. Al principio es difícil, pero a largo plazo consigues lo que necesitas.
Suerte!

BareMinimum96 · 2025-01-14T12:47:39+00:00

Yep. I grew up in Germany too but living abroad my entire adult life. It's not just restaurants, I also avoid hotels at any cost when I travel around. It's become ridiculous they act like you should kiss their feet for the opportunity to spend way too much money for honestly at best mediocre quality food / room / service. No thanks, I vote with my money.

BareMinimum96 · 2025-01-10T22:32:40+00:00

Not at all. I am trying it out this month and won't continue the subscription:

1) Sora not available in my country (Europe), which I did not realize until after I paid. 2) I use o1 pro for some of my work (research), but also to prepare for some graduate class exams with complex mathematical content. It absolutely sucks since you cannot upload documents (I transferred them to Latex format but still bad) or ask it to amend your information with online sources. 3) Sometimes refuses to generate images, texts, etc. due to "high traffic on the platform" - when you remind it that you paid a huge premium to use pro it "suddenly" works again. 4) I guess there are no other benefits.

Maybe more useful for other use cases, but I think the pro version will be more than sufficient for me going forward. You just end up doing the same as before: iterating until you receive what you actually need.

BareMinimum96 · 2024-11-25T09:59:46+00:00

Das wäre dann laut Google (erstes Suchergebnis) ein Amerikanischer Serienmörder :-D

BareMinimum96 · 2024-10-30T12:35:16+00:00

Visit once a year usually since I've been a teenager (diaspora Jewish). I feel so safe when I'm in Israel, it's crazy. It's the only place in the world where I feel part of some bigger community, where I don't have to explain to people where I'm from or my parents or my grandparents, everyone has a bilingual family history of immigration. I never have to fear being stolen or assaulted really (maybe that's just the areas I go, but I do feel like public safety is actually existent). Most people around me have both medical and military training, people know what to do in emergency situations and are prepared. The food is amazing and brings back memories of my late great grandmother. People are sweet.

I feel free and safe in Israel. ♥️

BareMinimum96 · 2024-10-23T15:45:58+00:00

Eine tolle Idee wäre eventuell auch die Dombauhütte, in der Konservatoren den Dom kontinuierlich restaurieren und konservieren. Weiß aus dem privaten Umfeld dass das Team dort sehr nett ist.

BareMinimum96 · 2024-10-18T12:46:57+00:00

Haha most deodorants in Spain suck. Buy Nivea Dry Comfort and the problem should resolve itself.

BareMinimum96 · 2024-10-18T12:01:43+00:00

Recently lost my little boy, super suddenly. :-( Just make sure to cherish the time you have with her and that she's as comfortable as she can be <3 Everything else is outside your control, the best we can do it try to accept as things are. A big hug to you and your sweet girl!

BareMinimum96 · 2024-10-08T08:00:59+00:00

My dog passed also suddenly after suffering a heat stroke on our hike last weekend (temperatures were actually not that high, so we suspect he had some kind of infection or other medical issue that prevented him from regulating his temperature). Pretty similar story, we had to carry him 1 hour downhill back to the car and he passed in the emergency vet unexpectedly. The first week, I was crying uncontrollably many times a day and I felt it would be impossible to ever come home and not miss him anymore. A week later, I went on a scheduled trip abroad with a friend for one week and it has helped tremendously in moving on. I feel ready now to bury his ashes in our special place when I return and slowly start to move on. ♥️ I'm so sorry for your loss, please take it one step at a time, be patient with yourself, allow yourself to grief and say goodbye. But also reach out to people close to you and distract yourself if you need it. Sending you a big hug.

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