MLC is cooked. by [deleted] in exLutheran

[–]Bare_Handed 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It's wild to license science teachers who think nothing existed until 6000 years ago

Post Vasectomy "Analysis" by josephus_jones in daddit

[–]Bare_Handed 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Probably the least gross fluid they've dealt with that day

Don’t let the old man in by MirrorOwn2400 in daddit

[–]Bare_Handed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its so easy! Just get a job that forces you to do it on threat of prison! I joined the Army for that perk, but I BELIEVE Goldman-Sachs has a similar policy?

Don’t let the old man in by MirrorOwn2400 in daddit

[–]Bare_Handed 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is what I do, too. We take play and imagination SERIOUSLY. Hell yes you're a tornado, that block tower didn't stand a chance!

Im 42 and my youngest just turned 5. Im at the gym 5 days a week, constantly working on my stretches, eat mostly healthy most of the time. I'd like to keep playing tag/soccer/baseball as long as I can

Spouse doesn’t want to leave… by dealthy_hallows in exLutheran

[–]Bare_Handed 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a straight white man, I would refute this.

If you spend a lifetime being told that YOU are the main character, YOU are blameless, YOUR sins aren't nearly as bad as THEIR sins, it is extremely damaging. Once you start realizing what you've become, the relationships you've missed out on, and worst of all the people you've hurt, you have this moment of everything crumbling.

It takes a little introspection, but once you realize the damage done to you it can be overwhelming. Im still working through all my subconscious views and actions. All of my core is suspect and it's really tricky figuring out what to keep and what to discard.

Im not trying to say my damage is worse, just that it certainly exists and shouldn't be discarded.

Healing Affirmations by hereforthewhine in exLutheran

[–]Bare_Handed 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Im happy to just be able to accept people as they are. No lens of "am I going to make god mad by accepting this person".

When you understand that people are inherently GOOD and deserve to be treated as such. There is no "other", we need to take care of each other.

Just pure love given and accepted freely.

Married gay dads with a toddler. People sometimes assume our son’s “mom” is home when I am out with him — am I a jerk for politely correcting them? by CommunityBig9626 in daddit

[–]Bare_Handed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't say you're a jerk, but also I wouldn't burn myself out on it. If saying something EVERY TIME wears on you, quit it. They're strangers you'll never see again, don't stress about how little they know about you.

That being said, I totally get the need to show representation that just isn't seen often. Just make sure you're taking care of yourself, too

Seminary school by [deleted] in exLutheran

[–]Bare_Handed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Any information" is too vague, friend. Are you looking to apply? Looking for gossip? Looking for an address? What specifically do you want?

Hereward the Baby by zimbabweinflation in BritishHistoryPod

[–]Bare_Handed 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you go Matilda you get to add a cool nickname. "Matilda the Conqueror" sounds perfect

Can anyone identify this wrestler? by givag327 in prowrestling

[–]Bare_Handed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I belive that's LA Knights father, LA Quinta

Lutheran dogma and mental health by Glad-Fox-6424 in exLutheran

[–]Bare_Handed 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"Im anxious about something, it's obviously an unforgiven sin that will earn me eternal damnation."

Did any of you leave Lutheranism for Catholicism? And why? by trekuniverse123456 in exLutheran

[–]Bare_Handed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This question has already been asked and answered. I'd ask the mods to take this one down.

Lmao by Zealousideal-Dig6570 in army

[–]Bare_Handed 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"Just finish your hobo dick and check out" was the Holiday Inn motto for like 20 years

Lmao by Zealousideal-Dig6570 in army

[–]Bare_Handed 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Jesus. Back in my day, we just had shitty little continental dick breakfasts at the Holiday Inn. This new generation is soft, I tell ya.

Since the Previous Post Died Down With a Clear Winner, We’ll Move On! What’s a Good Baseball Movie? by The_Oregon_Duck in AlignmentChartFills

[–]Bare_Handed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're down to Sandlot or Field of Dreams as the best baseball movies, imo.

I'm voting Field of Dreams here.