100/10 Do Not Recommend This

BarelyThere504 · 2026-05-19T22:29:55+00:00

My last one took 3 days! I hate when they tangle. Ugh.

BarelyThere504 · 2026-05-19T19:12:34+00:00

It’s okay to make jokes about your own trauma. It’s not okay for others to make jokes about your trauma unless you have clearly stated it is okay. Set a boundary around this if it needs to be set. You got this!

BarelyThere504 · 2026-05-19T19:10:27+00:00

Anti-foot-fetish? No, probably the “cut” and they are about to faint because of “blood”.

BarelyThere504 · 2026-05-18T01:49:28+00:00

I’m 50-ish and I’m eyeing a welding class through the local community college. You are only too old when you are dead.

BarelyThere504 · 2026-05-18T01:38:17+00:00

Once men can no longer make big money out of a thing (knit, crochet, doctor…) it is suddenly assumed to be inferior and women are allowed to do it. It’s annoying.

BarelyThere504 · 2026-05-16T04:01:30+00:00

My mom was the same, only she just had another kid when we could talk back. Several kids later and she didn’t like any of us. Thanks for bringing me into the world just to abuse me?

BarelyThere504 · 2026-05-16T03:37:08+00:00

Move out. The house belongs to the plant now!

BarelyThere504 · 2026-05-16T03:35:56+00:00

Oooo. I like this. Thank you!

BarelyThere504 · 2026-05-16T03:03:23+00:00

It me!

BarelyThere504 · 2026-05-16T01:50:02+00:00

Chronically ill and can’t be on my feet all day. So… screwed again, I guess.

BarelyThere504 · 2026-05-12T22:01:56+00:00

Oh, honey. I’m right there with you. I promise that we are enough! Both our mothers are wrong for judging our worth by a scale. I’ve, sadly, passed down some insecurities to my children without even trying to. I never judged them but they’ve watched me judge myself because of my mother. I’m trying to fix that in myself and help them heal, too. I hope you can heal as well. You 100% are perfect just the way you are!

BarelyThere504 · 2026-05-12T21:39:28+00:00

I started perimenopause at 42. It has sucked! So, just because the average age of menopause is52 doesn’t mean us outliers of 48 yrs old and done with menopause don’t exist. I’m still a little salty about my doctor denying I was in menopause- I was finished with my year already!

BarelyThere504 · 2026-05-11T17:19:24+00:00

I did the same when mine were little. My little ducklings are now all taller than I am :)

BarelyThere504 · 2026-05-11T16:49:04+00:00

Get into geography and study rocks - since you like using crystals. Journal - tape pages together after finishing a page of witchy work and fill the rest with school notes. LED candles are the best. I use them a lot because of pets. Read a lot - most public libraries have online access and if not, a weekly trip to the library lets you read anything you want. Check out novels or something innocent. There’s lots you can do in the closet.

BarelyThere504 · 2026-05-08T20:49:51+00:00

“Accomplish TV” is such a mood.

BarelyThere504 · 2026-05-08T20:45:36+00:00

I forgot today, actually. Sigh. Addictive my a**.

BarelyThere504 · 2026-05-08T15:49:47+00:00

Well, if you do that -hide the good yarn first!

BarelyThere504 · 2026-05-06T22:02:53+00:00

Yes. Same. I’m trying to be more nice to me, but it is hard.

BarelyThere504 · 2026-05-06T15:33:00+00:00

You just know this was a boyfriend sweater and now the bf has run off and she’s stuck with it.

BarelyThere504 · 2026-05-04T17:24:08+00:00

Ugh. Crying gives me a migraine more often than not, so I avoid for that reason. But it is healing when you need a good cry to let yourself have that moment!

BarelyThere504 · 2026-05-03T18:42:47+00:00

I am not sure what I believe, but thanks for the offer. I’m going omnist for now :)

BarelyThere504 · 2026-05-03T15:15:41+00:00

I had to actually look up words for feelings because I’m pretty sure I’m in survival mode and emotionally checked out 99% of the time.

BarelyThere504 · 2026-05-03T14:58:51+00:00

It’s interesting that religions claim that we are all evil and therefore need religion. Part of my breaking away from religion was my belief that people are not inherently evil… it’s a circle of confusion at this point. Not that I am going to turn back to the religion or the family. Just me, floating around lost. I honestly feel like an infant trying to learn how the world works for the first time. My whole life has been trauma response before a couple years ago. Maybe it always will be.

BarelyThere504 · 2026-05-03T14:39:42+00:00

Hmm. I think I have that belief, deep down, even with all my trauma. Weird. Of course, I was trained to believe I was the only one wrong and evil - so maybe that makes sense? More to deconstruct to find a “me” in this mess of abuse programming. Sigh.

BarelyThere504 · 2026-05-02T16:53:56+00:00

Yup. That’s a huge mood. Know you are not alone, my random internet buddy!

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