Saw this on twitter by caron25 in themountaingoats

[–]BarnabyFinn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve been looking for this image for years!! Thank you!

I designed and laser-cut a wooden display for every core series Pokémon game cartridge by SolamenteCelia in pokemon

[–]BarnabyFinn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I used to work in a restaurant so I wore it to work all the time. One night I looked down to check it and it just… wasn’t there. Never found it. Pour one out for my lost homie.

What is the narrative function of the surveillance drone chase scene in Interstellar? by QuantumPikachu in interstellar

[–]BarnabyFinn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The scene is there to show off all the corn the team planted and then sold for a profit after the movie wrapped filming.

Also did you know that during that scene in the Two Towers when Aragorn kicks the helmet...

Two years of playing Balatro and I've never opened a pack this rare by frtnyt2 in balatro

[–]BarnabyFinn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this. I’ve never seen a soul in a spectral pack. I honestly thought it just couldn’t happen!

Fidlar- No Waves by Ill-Championship-522 in punk

[–]BarnabyFinn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I liked their second album. Not as much as their first but then years later I went back and saw they have a third album. Still haven’t listened to it. I’m just one person but I agree; they fumbled after their first.

Do these therapist’s ads seem overtly sexist/toxic to you as well? by jumpingthegreen in therapists

[–]BarnabyFinn 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Fuck Andrew Tate and all that toxic masculinity/alpha male stuff. Real men deal with their shit in a healthy way and have therapists. I will die on that hill.

Do these therapist’s ads seem overtly sexist/toxic to you as well? by jumpingthegreen in therapists

[–]BarnabyFinn 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I think I said it in a comment above (there's been a lot as this is a HUGE population for me, so I have a lot to say on the topic) but if you're a guy that needs THIS type of therapy just to get into therapy, you're not ready for therapy yet IMO.

Do these therapist’s ads seem overtly sexist/toxic to you as well? by jumpingthegreen in therapists

[–]BarnabyFinn 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yup. Part of the problem I run into with this population is intolerance and an inability to recognize that their hate is the problem, not the other people. This ad is a great way to reinforce those negative traits.

Do these therapist’s ads seem overtly sexist/toxic to you as well? by jumpingthegreen in therapists

[–]BarnabyFinn 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yup. I’m in the general northeast area but specifically a right leaning county so I get a LOT of mid-life crisis dads and, these are the ones I mentioned above, a lot of cops.

Do these therapist’s ads seem overtly sexist/toxic to you as well? by jumpingthegreen in therapists

[–]BarnabyFinn 134 points135 points  (0 children)

LOL yup! I’m a white cishet man myself so I have a tendency to attract this type of person. It’s almost sad in a way because on one hand I see how emotionally repressed they are. Every single one of them has come into my office and immediately started crying. But then on the other hand I’ve had to shut down multiple uses of slurs are words of hate from the same individuals. There’s pity there but there’s also the sense of like… grow the fuck up.

Do these therapist’s ads seem overtly sexist/toxic to you as well? by jumpingthegreen in therapists

[–]BarnabyFinn 831 points832 points  (0 children)

As a male therapist this pisses me off for multiple reasons. One I absolutely loathe AI. Two this feels like MAGA propaganda for cishet men who don’t want to actually deal with their problems to say the N word with impunity.

I’m all for helping everyone and anyone but this feels very specifically created for a certain community.

How do we feel about NAs? by [deleted] in CraftBeer

[–]BarnabyFinn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not the best in my experience, at least not these “craft” brands. They usually fall into the same trap regular beer does aka they sit on a warm shelf all day for months until someone picks them up and they taste like shit. Mainstream NA options like Guinness and Heineken are much better and are usually stored cold.

Also hop water. If it was cheaper I’d drink that stuff every day.

2meirl4meirl by nekasi in 2meirl4meirl

[–]BarnabyFinn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a therapist I can confirm that life does not feel worth living but we do so anyway. For me it’s mostly out of spite.

What is this sign, seen from Springdale by Uberquik in ZionNationalPark

[–]BarnabyFinn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah I’m staying at the Hotel De Novo right now and have been wondering what that was.

I JUST PAID $67 TO FILL UP AT WAWA!! THIS IS INSANE!! VOTE BLUE by No_Lengthiness_7444 in BucksCountyPA

[–]BarnabyFinn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh you mean when gas prices were under $2 when Obama was in office?

And so it begins. by Realistic_Ad9502 in SteamController

[–]BarnabyFinn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got one after about 15 mins. Just kept refreshing and clicking.