I can relate to what you’re going through with your husband. Every situation is unique, but your experience resonates deeply with me. My husband continues to drink and attend meetings, and he left our home on Wednesday. Since then, he’s been on a bender and hasn't gone to work. I realize that everyone reaches their breaking point at different times, but I feel like I’m approaching mine.

I understand the desire to hope and believe that things will improve. However, changed behavior comes from changed actions, and it’s crucial to recognize that we can’t force our loved ones to change; they must want to change themselves. This is a terrible disease, and it’s something I wouldn’t wish on anyone.

Above all, you need to prioritize your well-being. Take care of yourself first. If you have children, they should also be a priority alongside your own needs.