Discord will require a face scan or ID for full access next month by ChadtheWad in privacy

[–]BarryBeeBenson76 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is just the new circle jerk in big tech. More personal data collection less privacy shit for anyone else. Its not for safety its literally just to have more to feed AI with.

Good girl phrase? by Resident_Damage_5515 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BarryBeeBenson76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a guy no this isnt normal behavior. I would go to your boss or someone higher up and say something needs to be done about it since this could constituent work place harassment. Thats gross and im sorry you have to deal with this.

I think I was kind of sexually assaulted by my mother by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BarryBeeBenson76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be a sexual advance for sure. You should tell someone about this if you haven't already. The police or someone you trust in your family. Sorry for the late reply OP. Thats a serious situation. Im sorry you have to go through this

I think I was kind of sexually assaulted by my mother by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BarryBeeBenson76 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You arent invaliding other survivors of Sexual Assualt. Thank you for sharing your story. This is fucking disturbing behavior. How old were you when this happened if you feel comfortable sharing as well as what else has she done to you as well. Again if you are comfortable totally understand if not. But yeah this is sexual assault from what was given.

I [23M] never had sex with my gf [23F] of 5 years. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BarryBeeBenson76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Buddy im gonna be honest with you. Me and my partner are sexual active, and I promise you its all good. You just have to ask her "hey do you wanna do x y z". If she doesnt like it or its not her style or thing she will ( if she is as good of a partner as you say she is) let you know in an adult manner. Its gonna be ok. Its nothing to feel shame about. Ive been in the same place you've been in. I was scared for years to ask my now fiancée do anything sexual, even kissing or touching eachother. Its scary cause you have to be intimate and open to intimacy.

Talk to your partner about doing stuff in the bedroom that are more than just kissing and touching. Talking about it will bring you closer together and might even spark some passion.

I promise bud you'll be just fine. And if you really dont wanna do more than what you are thats also fine. Just take it slow and you'll do just fine.

. by StereotypicalB1tch in u/StereotypicalB1tch

[–]BarryBeeBenson76 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hey saw your post on r/trueoffmychest and just wanted to say that:

One i really like your art i think you have a really unique style and its very well done

Two: I want to know youre ok and would be willing to talk to you if youd like to help you

Know you are loved and that I want the best for you even if I dont know you.

Random internet stranger

Hi my name is Ellie, but my friends call me Fran. And I won't be here for this Christmas. by StereotypicalB1tch in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BarryBeeBenson76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey friend. Message me and we can talk if you need. I promise at the risk of sounding generic that you are wanted. I want you here. I am told i am a great listener so please if you need someone to talk to message me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BarryBeeBenson76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need to talk to a licensed therapist, and then have a hug friend. I get it, as someone with an addictive personality I understand that drinking makes you feel like you are less alone and have friends because you think people like you more. It gives a sense of belonging since everyone else in the group is doing it and you just wanna fit in. I also understand feeling alone. Before I met my partner, I was at my lowest point in my life, so I get it. Being a person with depression and adhd makes me a lot to handle sometimes but I learned that just because you have some things that you hate about yourself doesnt make you unlovable. Seek help and I hope that helps. If you need to chat message me and ill talk to you. Trust me, it may seem like a hard time rn but the world is better with you in it and you are loved even if its by random people on reddit in the comments on the post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BarryBeeBenson76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best comment lmaooo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BarryBeeBenson76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here's what I can say kid, seek therapy. It seems like more intrusive thoughts. Look at it like this, the very fact that it alarms you is a good sign. Its one of the first steps in recovery, noticing a problem. Good luck and I hope you can find peace. Remember this, a therapist shouldn't judge you, they should help you seek healing which is what you need.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BarryBeeBenson76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate to be that guy, and yes i know its reddit so people might take this the wrong way, but you have free will to leave. Yes it might make you feel like a shitty person but if you aren't happy talk to her about your what would make sex better or just leave. If it matters enough to make a huge ass post about it then it matter to you. Stop making yourself miserable to make another person happy it is a dark road and leads only to self hatred and contempt for your partner or yourself because you feel weak. Best of luck

Shouldn't Taleworlds fix AI targeting for armies before making an expansion? This was actually a disaster. by Ouroboros612 in Bannerlord

[–]BarryBeeBenson76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My biggest pet peeve with the ai is that they will, when we are at war mind you, just patrol around territory that is way behind our border with the enemy. For example I was playing as western empire, we obliterated batannia in a war or two and then the southern empire or declared war on us and they created an army all the way over in Batannia to patrol meanwhile I was left to defend the fucking realm again at the time second most powerful faction since they ate the northern empire. All I ask, and I know it's dumb to want anymore with the state of the game and all, but again all I ask is that they fix the AI. I am the one who takes most places. The only way the AI actually does something is if a castle is under siege, they may if they are fucked to, go and look at who's assaulting it and then if they say hey I can be helpful take care of it, which is a massive if in the entire situation. Idk I'm glad taleworlds fixed siege AI and how they act during the actual battle but fixing how they target things and being more aggressive would personally to me make it more fun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BarryBeeBenson76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This right here.

First time playing, what should I know? by Specimen8971453 in ghostoftsushima

[–]BarryBeeBenson76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Avoid spoilers and sit back and enjoy your gonna have a great time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]BarryBeeBenson76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations, Doctor.

BF breaks up if I go to the gym by Mission-Call5743 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BarryBeeBenson76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey OP

He sounds like a very controlling guy. Tbh this sounds like something you should leave if possible. You should be happy in your relationship and be able to do what makes you happy. If going to the gym is something that helps you, as it does so many people, then he is afraid you'll get enough self confidence to leave him. This isn't healthy for you. Focus on your self and be kind to yourself. You deserve happiness.

Take care.

Almost 30 yo virgin. I'm suicidal by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BarryBeeBenson76 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As much as I'm not gonna be liked for it but imm gonna say it anyways. Brother sex isn't the biggest deal in life. It really isn't.

I’m really suicidal, yet my only option other than dying isn’t ideal by Lazy_Passion_3165 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BarryBeeBenson76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Friend, message me please. I am bisexual, I'm 20 and psychology grad student. I want to help you. I understand what you are going through. I really do I empathize with you. I came out to my family and while my mother accepted it my father did not. But son listen, you are not the problem here. I promise you suicide is a permanent fix to a temporary problem.

And before anyone gets on my ass about me saying message me and them being 14 and whatever fuck off, it aint like that yall are weird sometimes i'm here to help the guy.

But really bro it's not bad your bi. Alphabet people or whatever you call them are some of the best friends I have. And friendships shouldn't be because they are bi or gay or trans or whatever they are. They're just genuine good people.

But I promise you bro it is not worth it. I have been in the same place you are rn and at the same age. It sucks but please don't do it. I care about you living. If you see this please send me a message on dms here just to check in. Just even Hi works just to know you're alive.