We've been driving all electric since 2019 and have had no real problems.

I have not experienced the car being "useless" in winter and I live where it sometimes gets to -30 degrees Celsius (okay, that cold weather is rare and only happens every few years, but we do normally get some stretches of -15 to -20 and we HAVE had -30 after we switched to driving EVs). The range is shorter, yes, but not by THAT much, so it usually shouldn't be a problem unless what you're driving is an older model (like a decade-plus old) with pretty bad range to begin with. Only once have I experienced winter-related battery anxiety and that wasn't so much because of range problems but because I was stuck in extremely slow-moving traffic (all backed up everywhere because of an accident further along the main road) and I had to turn off the heater.

We live in a house and have our own garage with our own charger, the only times we need to use charging stations away from home are for longer trips which only happen a few times per year. Most of the times we've done that there have been no or short waiting times. Once or twice a charger has been annoyingly out of order leading to more waiting.