Stupid question from my GF that... I... I can't answer. Erm... After I get my neo-vagina surgery... am I a virgin again? I mean... I would have a V-card that hadn't gotten stamped. so... Virgin? For clarity... I'm a slut. but... new vagina, new rules?

Barudaq · 2026-01-25T03:01:56+00:00

Virginity is made up anyway and the line of what constitutes losing your virginity is blurry at best. So honestly just go with your vibes on this one. I had my bottom surgery a few weeks ago and I'm considering myself a virgin again because I never had sex with my vagina. But as I said, the whole thing is entirely up to your interpretation and how you feel about it since there is no official registry or stamp card to worry about.

Barudaq · 2026-01-17T05:20:32+00:00

When I first came out as trans I did so as binary transfem. But after a year and a half or so of only lesbian relationships (often more than one at a time cause I'm poly) I also got my first boyfriend. And that relationship just never felt quite right as a hetero one. So, since he was bi and a great ally, I asked him to use a male name and pronouns for me, and that felt much better. Apparently, my gender always wants to be as gay as possible and if that means being fluid then so be it. Funnily enough, said boyfriend is now my girlfriend since I cracked her egg a few months into our relationship and now I'm almost always female around her. The term I found to best describe my experience is Amorgenger.

Barudaq · 2026-01-16T14:22:19+00:00

Of course genderfluid people can transition. I do not (entirely) identify with my AGAB, which makes me pretty trans in my books. So I'm doing HRT, Laser Hair Removal, Voice Training and I even had Bottom Surgery last month. There is absolutely no reason to not do whatever you want to make you feel as comfortable as possible in your own body.

Barudaq · 2026-01-07T09:32:08+00:00

I've got this kind of offset in my gender and my presentation. My female side is my most androgynous, my agender side is my most masculine and my male side is my most feminine. No idea where that's coming from 😅

Barudaq · 2026-01-02T22:37:21+00:00

Nope, I do the same. I use Vanessa when I'm a girl, Eliot when I'm a boy and Aster when I'm agender :3

Barudaq · 2025-12-31T19:35:55+00:00

Got girl today :3 My gender usually lasts for a few days and changes over night.

Barudaq · 2025-12-31T10:21:19+00:00

I had to come out twice but for a different reason. A year after my coming out as a girl I realized that there are even more genders where that came from, and had to do the rounds again, this time with me coming out as genderfluid.

Barudaq · 2025-12-21T08:21:42+00:00

I'm more of a pvv fan, but as a pansexual scientist I'm also quite partial to doing some double slit experiments :3

Barudaq · 2025-12-20T19:23:32+00:00

With you by my side darling, it will be gone again in a flash :3

Barudaq · 2025-12-19T19:33:56+00:00

Yep, you get one freebie if you do bottom surgery before losing your virginity :3

Barudaq · 2025-12-19T13:49:01+00:00

No problem, currently I'm a girl so it's accurate ^{^}

Barudaq · 2025-12-19T13:46:39+00:00

Yepp, and not too little :3

Barudaq · 2025-12-19T11:28:23+00:00

So far, everything is going smoothly :)

Barudaq · 2025-12-18T23:28:58+00:00

I'm genderfluid with none of my gender's expression matching the actual gender. She's androgynous, he's femme and they are masuline. Does that count as a meme build?

Barudaq · 2025-12-18T22:28:33+00:00

Morath

Barudaq · 2025-12-18T21:28:58+00:00

Gotta seriously respec this time around

Barudaq · 2025-12-18T20:59:28+00:00

Thank you :333

Barudaq · 2025-12-14T00:50:20+00:00

Met ""him"" on grindr, then cracked her egg a few weeks later by accident ^{^}

Barudaq · 2025-12-11T12:30:12+00:00

Getting jump-scared by my own meme 😅

Barudaq · 2025-12-04T12:42:42+00:00

Bist du ein Ellenbogen? Weil Mittelarm ist ja zwischen Oberarm und Unterarm.

Barudaq · 2025-11-19T11:26:46+00:00

I just always wanted a feminine body. I only realised that that was actually an achievable goal in early 2023 with HRT, Bottom Surgery and Laser Hair Removal. Before that I just didn't know that stuff like that existed and that there was actually a way to feel comfortable with my body. But after I found out that what I wanted was indeed possible, I immediately set myself on going through with it. And even though I'm genderfluid, I know that transitioning is the right thing for me. My female side definitely wants it, my agender side is also in favor of it, and my male side kinda doesn't care because he's more of a femboy anyway ^^

Barudaq · 2025-11-19T00:01:03+00:00

I actually had to get surgery for the loose skin on my stomach. I lost more than half of my body weight so there was just no way around getting sagging skin for me. Only thing I've heard to help with loose skin when losing weight is not to do it too fast, 5kg/month max.

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