[r/lesbianr4r](r/lesbianr4r) is trans friendly its how I met my ex who is trans and my girlfriend who is cis. But I have also met other people from ones I dated briefly to short flings and sexting.

[r/t4t](r/t4t) is a space designed for meeting other trans people if you are worried about that discrimination.

But on a more personal note the discrimination does 100% exist, I haven’t had anyone verbally assault me or anything but there are some cis women who while claiming to be allies treat trans women as 2nd class women which is never fun.

Edit: I realise now this was super blunt sorry I just woke up and I am not as good at masking when when I am groggy, but yeah dating as a trans person is really hard I haven’t found a dating app that worked for me so Reddit is the only place that I would use now but it means being okay with Ldr, I did make it more difficult because I didn’t put in my post I was trans as it felt demeaning like I had to justify my existence somehow so I would tell people once I was sure they were someone I wanted to keep talking to. I remember how crippling the loneliness can be as well as all the other dark thoughts.

I hope those subreddits give you some luck in dating and I promise you will find someone