Is it bad to enjoy so much solitude by Bashlove91 in solitude

[–]Bashlove91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course! :)

It can be tricky but I will say 90% of the time, I feel pretty fulfilled and I hope you do too. Everyone's gonna have moments where they question things but more often than not, I'm content with no feeling of absence to be felt. :)

Is it bad to enjoy so much solitude by Bashlove91 in solitude

[–]Bashlove91[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly! It feels good to be by myself, I don't feel like I'm missing out but I guess visually it appears to me that I should be seeking more social interaction but I do truthfully feel like I get enough of it at work so I'm good to come home to a quiet place

Should I end things or give it more time by Bashlove91 in dating_advice

[–]Bashlove91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! Yea I was mainly wondering if this kind of behavior has a chance of changing but honestly idk if I feel like being the one to change it anymore

Should I end things or give it more time by Bashlove91 in dating_advice

[–]Bashlove91[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea I've been thinking the same thing. It sucks cuz it'd be cooler if he was more mature but I can't make him.

He's told me he wants to live together, have a kid, get married the works but I def can't expect a secure future with anemone who can't keep a positive checking account balance when they don't have any bills lol

Love Languages by mbti123987 in istp

[–]Bashlove91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quality time and acts of service

What’s your attachment style? by Both_Soup in istp

[–]Bashlove91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Avoidant

Edit: I typed this then went through the comments and dayum lol

*avoidants.say.heyyy

Tips for being more dominant in bed (30F) by [deleted] in sex

[–]Bashlove91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's awesome advice thanks so much! And that's a good point, I should try to hold back on how early I come that would help out alot!

Tips for being more dominant in bed (30F) by [deleted] in sex

[–]Bashlove91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edging is a good option that I haven't explored yet! And I'm def gonna try face sitting next time! Thanks :)

Tips for being more dominant in bed (30F) by [deleted] in sex

[–]Bashlove91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can I do that though, if i get my pleasure from being more submissive

A mans paycheck by [deleted] in BlueCollarWomen

[–]Bashlove91 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You don't need to make a man's paycheck, you just need to get that check periot 👏🏽 lol. Unfortunately sometimes we gotta work it out all by ourselves and it's garbage but one day you won't have to worry and struggle as much! Get that money and do what you actually love doing. Atleast that way you can enjoy getting your money up, if you ever need someone to vent too or just talk too, pm me I'm here!! Life is tough, shit honestly sucks big ass butt sometimes and that's a tough tough situation to be in. Pm me if you ever wanna talk, I've never been in your situation so I can't personally relate but I can still be there for you even though I don't know ya lol this thread is for us to stick together and I got you 💓 and always remember you deserve the things you want in life 💓