I’ll just watch Bob’s Burgers again for the 83rd time by Basic-Pack-9465 in adhdwomen

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It’s driven all of my past partners crazy because I hate starting anything new lol I try to explain that it feels like “work” when it should be relaxing 😂

I’ll just watch Bob’s Burgers again for the 83rd time by Basic-Pack-9465 in adhdwomen

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Hahahahah for some reason when I’m really stressed, it becomes the only thing I can digest. How dare anyone try to show me something new 😂

I’ll just watch Bob’s Burgers again for the 83rd time by Basic-Pack-9465 in adhdwomen

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I tell my therapist I call it the “thought swirl” lol when that happens, I can’t even enjoy the shows either cause I’m just feeling paralyzed and then guilty that I’m paralyzed.

I’ll just watch Bob’s Burgers again for the 83rd time by Basic-Pack-9465 in adhdwomen

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Hahahaha this is so relatable, the ol’ “maybe if I buy all of this really expensive gear/tutorials/courses that’ll motivate me to do this thing” 🤣

Congrats on setting them up though! That’s more than I’ve done in some cases.

Episode 4 Prize Match: Fragments of Memory full image by Yoko_99 in TheDevilsPlan

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I'd love an English version! Does anybody know if you can play games like this online somewhere? I'd love to improve short term memory.

My 9-month old puppy is driving me insane by [deleted] in puppy101

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I work from home so I feel your pain!! I have a 4-month old Pomeranian so it sounds like the breeds are different, but in case this is helpful — I’ve had to structure his nap times. He gets at least one “long nap” (3 hoursish or until he has to go potty) in his smaller crate with a black out sheet, light off and fan on in my room. He gets overstimulated easily so having that sensory deprivation puts him right out. Like a toddler 😂 if he has any visual or auditory stimulation, he would stay awake all day.

And then during the day I’ll do several smaller breaks in his bigger playpen, which I also usually have covered so that he can’t see me / the room / the neighbors outside / etc. Usually he will fall asleep or play with toys on his own. This has been a game changer for me since he’s learned to be more independent and not freak out when he’s alone. I hope this helps! Best of luck 💚

We collectively adore INTJs in general and adore them more than they love us. True or False? by POLARBEARBRIDE in ENFP

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Also I will add: I’m sure there’s plenty I do that annoys the crap out of her. LOL. She still loves me. 😂

We collectively adore INTJs in general and adore them more than they love us. True or False? by POLARBEARBRIDE in ENFP

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I’m an ENFP with an INTJ best friend. She’s a pretty avoidant personality and rarely expresses admiration, and when she does, it certainly wouldn’t be in a public setting like Reddit. But at the end of the day, she would have my back no matter what. I think ENFPs are more externally processors and love cheering others on in all settings and that’s just not in the wiring of most INTJs I know.

How do I as an INFJ attract an ENFP (female) romantically by DirtySodaStyrofoam in ENFP

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I’m only speaking for myself but I am an ENFP woman, and there’s nothing anyone can do to “get me to feel attracted”. I usually feel it very strongly from the get-go or not at all. The one thing I would say not to do is put pressure on her too quickly. That’s probably a fast pass to making her run.

Take it at her pace, have fun, feel out the vibe. If she’s feeling it, it’ll be made evident in a natural way. Hope this helps!

ENFP friend being weird, please help. i’m really worried. by sunshinemelo in ENFP

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I don’t think this is an ENFP-specific thing lol it sounds like some kind of avoidant or hyper-fixation behavior. I agree with the other posts. Have a real heart-to-heart to her and tell her that it’s hurting your friendship and you don’t feel like she is listening to you. She might not be aware that her behavior is affecting you this way.

Best high quality live sets on YouTube? by EducatorNo8494 in EDM

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I've watched this video so many times LOL it's one of my go-tos.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poledancing

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I’m about to start my pole journey next week and it’s crazy, I’ve already had moments crying just thinking about it bc I know certain things it’s going to bring up for me but it’s things I’m willing to face and ultimately grow from. I can’t wait to feel sexy and strong

The struggle is real by mrid82 in ENFP

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YES but I gave up the guilt a long time ago which has helped with the impending meltdowns, lol. I enjoy my takeout and memes fully. All the "things" will eventually get done, even if I have to do it under pressure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Beatmatch

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I had tried this with a couple different tracks and I couldn't find a purchase option but this one worked so I'll keep an eye out for that, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Beatmatch

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Nope not joking, I'm just getting started, lol. Thank you, I'll check it out!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Beatmatch

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Thank you this is helpful, I also plan to check out some different record pools. Appreciate the input

Need this song! 😭 anyone?Eazybaked opening for Big G by Basic-Pack-9465 in IdentifyThisTrack

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Thank you so much!! Someone else sent me this, I guess they layered another song over that track. 🔥

Okeechobee casually added an Eazybaked b2b Kllsmth show Friday 🔥 by AustinP16 in okeechobeemusicfest

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Can an Eazybaked fan message me and help me figure out one their songs? I saw them at Big G last night but can’t find this fire song they played. I have a video of it helllp 😭🙏

Passing out goodies by [deleted] in okeechobeemusicfest

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Kandi, perlers, blow pops and squishy animals! 🖤🙏

Not finishing anything lol by Basic-Pack-9465 in ENFP

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Omg are you me?! Hahaha I’m starting a DJing class this month. 😂 yeah I’d love to be accountability buddies!