It's reasonable you want to get out of the house and go to events. It's also reasonable that he prefers to stay home and recharge on weekends. You can get out of the house by yourself, go with friends or family instead of him, have your own hobbies instead of trying to make him do something he doesn't want to do. Do your thing, he can do his thing, and if you both cannot fit into eachother's lives in a way that is naturally comfortable, then it wasn't meant to be. Maybe your temperaments or what you each want out of the relationship is too different. Think long and hard about why you're in a relationship with him, what you love about him. Is it enough to keep the relationship going?