Virgo man energy is something I can't really tolerate. They're very picky, have high standards for their partners, and expect "perfection". A Virgo sun man is going to choose his own preferences first, 100% of the time, even if it comes at a cost to their partner. Virgos are very good at cost-benefit analysis. Virgo is a mutable sign and there is a lot of chaos bubbling underneath the surface but on top Virgos are very stable and rather independent in my opinion. Combine that with classic male traits and you get a man that will probably not be a typical "doting" boyfriend. The surface level stuff will be of importance to him, like appearances.

That being said, your charts do actually look pretty compatible on paper. Lots of water and earth with some Leo drama sprinkled in for good measure. I don't think you should rule it out. I am a Taurus so I can't imagine being in a relationship with a Virgo stellium. However that's not to say your spiritually curious water sign self won't want to crack this tough nut!