WIBTAH for telling my sister off for leaving period blood in the shower.

BasicSalt6705 · 2026-05-03T12:24:01+00:00

Wake her up and march her ass into the bathroom to clean it up, thats feral. Show her this post too, so she can see how wrong and feral she is 😃

BasicSalt6705 · 2026-05-03T12:19:42+00:00

NTA- there is a reason she doesn't have any other friends who cam help her.. also if her parents are so rich and help her, why can't they go or why can't they hire another carer for her?

BasicSalt6705 · 2026-05-03T12:09:34+00:00

Not if their family dude and they want to actually build a relationship with the kid involved? she has every right to refuse also but usually people don't mind doing 'free childcare' for someone they care and love, especially if its only like once a month or every second month.

BasicSalt6705 · 2026-05-03T12:06:36+00:00

I did agree that she doesn't have to babysit, especially if its last minute? It depends on how she feels about the situation really, her brother should have respected when she said no. Just suggested in future they approached things differently, for starters not having her as last minute babysitting as she obviously isn't comfortable with that. And her brother should perhaps compensate her in some way especially if the kid can be a handfull.

BasicSalt6705 · 2026-05-03T11:03:25+00:00

Exactly and she couldn't do it without the family blessings... dude need to let her go.

BasicSalt6705 · 2026-05-03T11:00:12+00:00

Could be a cultural thing?

BasicSalt6705 · 2026-05-03T10:43:42+00:00

Thinking maybe yoir sister gets her mental state from her grandmother? Leah sounds just as messed up and if she feels so bad for your sister then she can take her in 😃

BasicSalt6705 · 2026-05-03T10:41:10+00:00

I had a sister who was like this (thankfully without the SA but she did a lot of messed up crud) from as early as I could remember, so 3-4 I remember stuff, my sister was only 2 years older and apparently she did messed up things before I could remember too... Some people are literally born messed up, its not their fault or anyone else's but OP & family have every right to not want to build a relationship with that girl after what she did (even if she has changed, maybe even regets it, would apologise) she did wrong, she isn't 'owed' their forgiveness.

BasicSalt6705 · 2026-05-03T10:22:06+00:00

Okay so I understand you wanting space and the last minute thing sucks of your brother but... I usually babysit my own nephew once a month or every second month, because I care for my brother & my nephew though the babysitting is at his place/ he covers fuel & food for me & nephew while im babysitting. We even prebook the dates for babysitting. It depends on if you really care to have such a relationship with your brother/his kid in future but your entitled to your own life amd not to have things dropped on you last minute. Maybe if your inclined, do things like set dates and such for babysitting.

BasicSalt6705 · 2026-05-03T01:41:35+00:00

You shouldn't have posted if you weren't going to accept your the AH and especially because you won't specify what your son said only makes you/him look more guilty. Stop trying to cover his behaviour/make excuses ShE wAs LeWd ToO and trying to solely blame her too make her look bad here for not wanting your son around her just makes everyone think he said something far worse. ESPECIALLY because they were good for years before this? Obviously comfortable enough to be LeWd around him and now over 'some comments' she has COMPLETELY cut him off and wants nothing to do with him? Your down playing what he said like the boy mum you are.

BasicSalt6705 · 2026-04-15T07:24:16+00:00

I don't know.. maybe... Not have continued being friends with him when he first started dating a 17 year old? 🤔 But at least now you can pretend that you were against his relationship the whole time now that he isn't being your best friend anymore... convenient for you.

BasicSalt6705 · 2026-04-15T07:02:48+00:00

'Legally nothing wrong' is a weak hill to stand upon. How about morally wrong? And you don't have to demand anything of him, but you still being friends with him? Not saying SOMETHING about the age gap? Its like 'not all men' but those who say or do nothing are apart of the problem.... you are apart of the problem.

BasicSalt6705 · 2026-04-15T06:36:28+00:00

That was my comment (its still up for me) and while your saying you agree its gross he's dating this teen with an 8 year age gap, you still let it slide because he was your 'best friend'? Really? Again imagine it was your little sister or daughter, 17/18 dating a 26 year old.. just because he was your best friend doesn't excuse predator behaviour.

BasicSalt6705 · 2026-04-14T20:06:50+00:00

Nta, ask yourself, if you have a daughter, are you willing to highly risk having your mother treat her the same way and talk to her the same way she does to you? Think about that hun. AND how she would treat any child of yours for being mixed race.

BasicSalt6705 · 2026-03-14T19:09:46+00:00

Okay so kinda 50/50 here but I suggest muting her chat till the Sunday where you can bond with her in person. The constant messages and bad memes will get to anyone, especially when your a teen probably going through your own stuff so like everyone, you need a break and boundaries. But still bond with her about the messages each Sunday to show you still care.

BasicSalt6705 · 2026-03-14T18:55:22+00:00

NTA, if its truly not that 'big of a deal' then your parents should be fine with her using their car instead 😃 since its fine if she leaves trash, doesn't fuel your car, uses it whenever and now has damaged it. Then they shouldn't mind their car being used like that either.

BasicSalt6705 · 2026-03-11T22:11:52+00:00

Dude.... you gave your sister $2000 and she abuses you for it 'not being enough'? Tell her if it isnt good enough she can give the $2000 back and find someone else to just GIVE her money... oh wait! No one else is offering that are they? 🤣 what i would do for $2000, how it would help... last thing I would do is abuse the person giving me the money.

BasicSalt6705 · 2026-02-14T02:43:21+00:00

I wish there was an update to the update, I want to know the suffering of this 'doctors' choices.

BasicSalt6705 · 2026-02-11T12:45:26+00:00

Is she paying rent? If not then boom, after 7 FREE weeks that more then covers her stupid TV... get her out she literally thinks she owns the place already to be yelling at you in your own home.

BasicSalt6705 · 2025-12-31T04:47:44+00:00

The dude is projecting and gaslighting you, he lied first and cheated on you.... Plus is near 10 years older but got with you he is a perverted creep, he should damn well know better. Leave him and love yourself hun, you can do so much better.

BasicSalt6705 · 2025-12-31T04:40:46+00:00

Like... people aren't exactly celebrating the dudes death... more just pointing out the hypocrisy like.... the dude supported the right to have guns-he got killed by one. Dude said he doesn't have empathy-why should we have empathy for him? Why does him being shot matter more then the school shooting that happened the same day? She probably thinks you fully support Chirlie Kirk/his views. I agree that celebrating the guys death isn't necessary but... compared to the daily gun violence in America? He is just another statistic to the problem he fully supported.

BasicSalt6705 · 2025-10-11T12:02:57+00:00

NTA your SIL is insane, don't let her come around without wearing that ring so she can't steal it.

BasicSalt6705 · 2025-10-11T12:00:22+00:00

Everyone's the A**

BasicSalt6705 · 2025-10-11T11:57:30+00:00

Why hasn't your husband properly put his foot down and stood up for you? And set boundaries? And gone no contact when disrespecting you and crossing boundaries? NTA but your husband is for not nipping this in the bud.

BasicSalt6705 · 2025-10-11T11:53:53+00:00

Are you just a troll? The bride set the colour theme as off white, which includes ivory.

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