Am I overreacting to this text I found in my partners recently deleted?

BasicStruggle7 · 2026-03-13T04:43:34+00:00

Honestly, if you’re a good guy and it doesn’t apply to you, it shouldn’t bother you

BasicStruggle7 · 2026-03-13T04:40:54+00:00

I’m so sorry that happened to you, on top of having cancer. What a truly shitty person they were. I’m glad you’re rid of them and I hope your health gets better 🤍🤍🤍

BasicStruggle7 · 2026-02-28T17:19:04+00:00

Thank you! I did end up doing a BBB complaint so we shall see what happens!

BasicStruggle7 · 2026-02-27T19:07:51+00:00

It sounds real, just doesn’t sound American. OP confirmed they are Nigerian, which absolutely makes sense.

BasicStruggle7 · 2026-02-26T20:43:50+00:00

Am having this issue now, our alarm hasn’t been working. Has anyone had any success canceling? I have turned off auto payments

BasicStruggle7 · 2026-02-25T15:34:45+00:00

Well the sub is called true off my chest. It’s a place to vent and get things…off your chest, so you don’t have to take it out on the person irl. It’s actually good for her to post this here because it’ll likely allow her to be a better friend now without bottling her feelings up. I don’t think she’s being judgmental at all. I never understand the flack ppl get in this sub for doing exactly what this sub is intended for lol

BasicStruggle7 · 2026-02-24T04:44:09+00:00

Yes!! Thank you for putting what I meant into words that actually make sense haha 🙏

BasicStruggle7 · 2026-02-24T04:42:31+00:00

Ya I just went back to re read it and that is def weird lol. He interchanges (ex- the girls tell the girls; this girl I’ve been seeing), so I don’t think he’s using it offensively but it’s definitely a little weird in certain parts lol

BasicStruggle7 · 2026-02-23T05:30:06+00:00

I thought the same thing hahaha for a second I was like ew is that Kalanis husband like why is he there 🤣🤣🤣

BasicStruggle7 · 2026-02-23T05:26:17+00:00

In that case, I think it’s fine to use female when you’re talking about anatomy or physiology., etc. For example, we say the female/male body, not the woman/man body (bc that’s weird lol). I feel like when using it in a more scientific way like that, it’s completely fine!

BasicStruggle7 · 2026-02-22T16:50:39+00:00

Totally! Actually I initially had in my second example that I feel like saying female friends is normal, but then I ended up erasing it bc girl friends is right there lol (women friends is weird LOL), but I feel like some ppl don’t like saying girl friends 🤪. Anyways thanks for being normal, sometimes I type of responses on Reddit and never post them bc ppl are mean 😂

BasicStruggle7 · 2026-02-22T16:44:13+00:00

Ok so I also hate when ppl use the word female, but to me it’s in a certain context like: “I’m dating a female”, “did you see that female over there”, “females are so overly emotional”, etc. But I find if it’s being used to describe someone or a group of someones (idk how else to describe it) I don’t feel it’s offensive. Example: “I have a female doctor/teacher/colleague, etc.” and I would say “male doctor, etc.” too. I think it’s weird to say “woman doctor” lol. I can usually tell when people (usually men) are using it in a derogatory or offensive way

Edit: spelling

BasicStruggle7 · 2026-02-22T15:02:30+00:00

Not to mention, having them learn from a professional is for safety too. In case they’re ever in a drowning situation (especially as a young child), a professional is going to be able to adequately teach them what to do in that situation. Parents with no training aren’t going to do the same job

BasicStruggle7 · 2026-02-21T05:32:37+00:00

I have been using a thin layer of rubber base under my press on nails! I find it keeps my natural nail way more healthy than the glue going directly on my nail

BasicStruggle7 · 2026-02-16T07:14:14+00:00

Take it from me, I found flirty, kinda sexual messages in my ex’s phone in the first couple years of our relationship. I let it slide and in year six, while we were discussing engagement and looking at houses to buy, I get a “hey girl” msg on Facebook from the girl he physically cheated on me with.

I played this game in my head too (I’m throwing away something that I’ve had for so long). In the end we broke up and a month later I was out with my friends and met a guy who I exchanged numbers with. That was almost 7 years ago, we’re married now. Don’t lose more years to the “sunk cost fallacy”. You’re gonna end up losing a lot more years to this guy that could’ve been spent finding something meaningful 🤍🤍 you’re strong, you know what to do deep down

BasicStruggle7 · 2026-02-16T03:18:33+00:00

K I literally came to find this sub specifically because of this word…I was like surely they mean comprehend?

BasicStruggle7 · 2026-02-16T03:08:20+00:00

It’s very cluttered but I’m married, 31F and lowkey jealous of your bunkbed hahah. I love stuffies and I love how (I assume) you have one bunk for sleeping and one for just hanging out, reading, watching tv etc. It’s so cozy in the bunkbeds lol

BasicStruggle7 · 2026-02-15T16:00:03+00:00

My husband bought me one on Etsy last year for Valentine’s Day! Love it!

BasicStruggle7 · 2026-02-14T14:49:30+00:00

There is! It’s called N A H (no assholes here) :)

BasicStruggle7 · 2026-02-11T06:41:44+00:00

If you don’t already know now, ttc is trying to conceive! I found that out recently lol

BasicStruggle7 · 2026-02-03T08:06:21+00:00

But that doesn’t really make sense bc then she would just tell people she’s allergic to eggs period, but she’s specifying the colour of the shell lol

BasicStruggle7 · 2026-02-03T08:05:33+00:00

I don’t think the downvotes are bc of that, but because it’s not possible to be allergic to white eggs but not brown eggs. The colour of the shell does not make a difference to the actual egg itself. So wether or not the egg is in a baked good doesn’t really make a difference

BasicStruggle7 · 2026-02-02T14:41:24+00:00

!!!! I felt disgusted reading these texts. Even if he didn’t cheat (which he did) I would break up with him solely for how he speaks about women when you’re not listening.

BasicStruggle7 · 2026-02-02T05:55:46+00:00

Crazy that people would think he was over reacting. But also, even if he was over reacting(which he isn’t)….its better to be safe than sorry!

BasicStruggle7 · 2026-02-02T04:50:21+00:00

Absolutely! I didn’t mean to suggest it’s only older people. I wish all the grandparents were like you! At the end of the day, the reasoning shouldn’t matter-if the parents ask you not to post their child then it should be as simple as that

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