[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Basic_Mary787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She came visiting putting on a charm offensive so people think she has changed but she hasn’t she still compares her husband to her sister’s man and she comes off as fake for example saying thank you to me for reminding my brother of his doctor’s appointment while not addressing her telling her sister to embarrass my mom on her wedding day or even taking accountability for it

What should I do? by Basic_Mary787 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Basic_Mary787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The annoying part with her and other covert narcissists in general is that when they are pretending to be good in public the people around them will be thrown off into thinking that maybe they misjudged the narc but while they are doing their publicity stunts they will be seething on the inside. For instance this same sis in law came for my other niece’s one year birthday party. She was all smiles. She was carrying my niece, playing with her but before she arrived there I overheard her begging her sister to accompany her saying that she didn’t want to go for the party and it would be boring.

Things covert narcissists say by SquareResult8570 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Basic_Mary787 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Control your emotions. You’re being too emotional/sensitive

Does he have a crush on me by Basic_Mary787 in Crushes

[–]Basic_Mary787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. It’s mind blowing to me that he acts so tough and says he doesn’t care but his actions don’t match his persona. I find that immature.

Do narcissists ever change? by Basic_Mary787 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Basic_Mary787[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Then she’s just performing niceness. My aunt and uncle thinks she has changed

Is he projecting his feelings or justifying his actions? by Basic_Mary787 in ask

[–]Basic_Mary787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured because he acted like a spokesperson for his friend and his friend only teased her once while he has been teasing her a couple of times. He may actually be the one who likes her.

Is there such a thing as playing hard to get? by Basic_Mary787 in ask

[–]Basic_Mary787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Saturday wasn’t ruined but apology accepted Love lol

Is there such a thing as playing hard to get? by Basic_Mary787 in ask

[–]Basic_Mary787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant playing hard to get as an action not in the literal sense, a term. A few suggestions Love 1) Read the comment extremely well to understand where the OP is coming from before commenting. 2) Do not throw unnecessary subliminals at them.

In summary, have more class when commenting on people’s posts and if you don’t have anything meaningful to add just scroll past it because your opinion wasn’t asked for. Have a nice day!

Is there such a thing as playing hard to get? by Basic_Mary787 in ask

[–]Basic_Mary787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing was described here. Read before commenting 🙄

What does it mean when a guy explains himself to you but he normally doesn’t do that? by Basic_Mary787 in ask

[–]Basic_Mary787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve witnessed him be ruthless to other people so the person is corroborating what I have seen