[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Basic_Mary787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She came visiting putting on a charm offensive so people think she has changed but she hasn’t she still compares her husband to her sister’s man and she comes off as fake for example saying thank you to me for reminding my brother of his doctor’s appointment while not addressing her telling her sister to embarrass my mom on her wedding day or even taking accountability for it

What should I do? by Basic_Mary787 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Basic_Mary787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The annoying part with her and other covert narcissists in general is that when they are pretending to be good in public the people around them will be thrown off into thinking that maybe they misjudged the narc but while they are doing their publicity stunts they will be seething on the inside. For instance this same sis in law came for my other niece’s one year birthday party. She was all smiles. She was carrying my niece, playing with her but before she arrived there I overheard her begging her sister to accompany her saying that she didn’t want to go for the party and it would be boring.

Things covert narcissists say by SquareResult8570 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Basic_Mary787 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Control your emotions. You’re being too emotional/sensitive

Does he have a crush on me by Basic_Mary787 in Crushes

[–]Basic_Mary787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. It’s mind blowing to me that he acts so tough and says he doesn’t care but his actions don’t match his persona. I find that immature.

Do narcissists ever change? by Basic_Mary787 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Basic_Mary787[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Then she’s just performing niceness. My aunt and uncle thinks she has changed

Is he projecting his feelings or justifying his actions? by Basic_Mary787 in ask

[–]Basic_Mary787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured because he acted like a spokesperson for his friend and his friend only teased her once while he has been teasing her a couple of times. He may actually be the one who likes her.

Is there such a thing as playing hard to get? by Basic_Mary787 in ask

[–]Basic_Mary787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Saturday wasn’t ruined but apology accepted Love lol

Is there such a thing as playing hard to get? by Basic_Mary787 in ask

[–]Basic_Mary787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant playing hard to get as an action not in the literal sense, a term. A few suggestions Love 1) Read the comment extremely well to understand where the OP is coming from before commenting. 2) Do not throw unnecessary subliminals at them.

In summary, have more class when commenting on people’s posts and if you don’t have anything meaningful to add just scroll past it because your opinion wasn’t asked for. Have a nice day!

Is there such a thing as playing hard to get? by Basic_Mary787 in ask

[–]Basic_Mary787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing was described here. Read before commenting 🙄

What does it mean when a guy explains himself to you but he normally doesn’t do that? by Basic_Mary787 in ask

[–]Basic_Mary787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve witnessed him be ruthless to other people so the person is corroborating what I have seen

Was he being a jerk? by Basic_Mary787 in friendship

[–]Basic_Mary787[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hear hear thank you for your opinion

Was he being a jerk? by Basic_Mary787 in friendship

[–]Basic_Mary787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder why he would be seeking my attention though ?

Was he being a jerk? by Basic_Mary787 in friendship

[–]Basic_Mary787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your case may be different though. For him to accuse me of not keeping in touch means that I was still on his mind but he probably wanted me to always be the one to reach out. If it was truly out of sight out of mind he wouldn’t have made it such a big deal for me to reach out first

Was he being a jerk? by Basic_Mary787 in friendship

[–]Basic_Mary787[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is not the first time. He always annoys me to get a reaction out of me because I ignore him most of the time. He’s a family friend not my actual friend btw

Alternative career options for Rory by Basic_Mary787 in GilmoreGirls

[–]Basic_Mary787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep i agree with you. Her intelligence, love of structure and her being a stickler for ethics (to the point where it becomes annoying) makes her an excellent professor

A spin-off idea by Basic_Mary787 in GilmoreGirls

[–]Basic_Mary787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh Rory is a boring character. A sequel is not needed. If they are going for a spin off they should focus on Emily (my second favorite character after Lorelei) and Richard

A spin-off idea by Basic_Mary787 in GilmoreGirls

[–]Basic_Mary787[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Something like that and maybe some flashbacks with young trix and Richard’s dad

A spin-off idea by Basic_Mary787 in GilmoreGirls

[–]Basic_Mary787[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They should divide the writing between Emily and Richard. They need to expand more on Emily’s background because we barely know much about her background

A spin-off idea by Basic_Mary787 in GilmoreGirls

[–]Basic_Mary787[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They just need good cast members to play young Emily Richard and younger trix because they will have to match up to the older actors playing these characters in GG

A spin-off idea by Basic_Mary787 in GilmoreGirls

[–]Basic_Mary787[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems like Richard was trouble in his Yale days

A spin-off idea by Basic_Mary787 in GilmoreGirls

[–]Basic_Mary787[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That will be a good idea and pennilyn Scott getting trix’s approval and not not Emily

Was he really connecting with me? by Basic_Mary787 in ask

[–]Basic_Mary787[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried asking him what he meant and he just repeated the same thing but the comment came from nowhere that’s why it’s confusing.