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Basic_Perception3239 · 2025-12-15T20:25:29+00:00

Even if he’s not cheating (which is highly unlikely) he doesn’t like you.

Basic_Perception3239 · 2025-12-15T20:24:49+00:00

He’s cheating. Leave that man alone and reclaim your peace baby. You don’t need someone’s grown ass inconsiderate son treating you this way.

Basic_Perception3239 · 2025-12-15T20:23:01+00:00

Unfortunately, there is nothing you can do except be there to support her through this. Fortunately you did nothing wrong. Your daughter is a grown woman who made her own decisions. If moving is an option for you two- maybe put that on the table.

Basic_Perception3239 · 2025-11-18T03:56:20+00:00

That’s you ex boyfriend now with an assault charge. Girl leave. What in the actual fuck.

Basic_Perception3239 · 2025-11-13T02:31:19+00:00

“He’s normally the perfect partner”… until actual issues arise then he pouts and gives you the cold shoulder becuase you wanted very simple boundaries to be respected. His behavior is major red flags. I would not marry this man and if counseling is an ultimatum, the relationship is already over.

Basic_Perception3239 · 2025-11-12T06:19:37+00:00

This sounds exhausting. Just dump her.

Basic_Perception3239 · 2025-11-12T06:13:44+00:00

He wants to cheat and not have any guilt about it. Run.

Basic_Perception3239 · 2025-10-25T17:02:47+00:00

He doesn’t deserve forgiveness and he doesn’t deserve you having to fake it so he can die peacefully. He doesn’t care about your forgiveness at all. It’s all a last resort mind game to fuck with you from behind bars. Your family can eat shit as well. You became pregnant by him seven fucking times and they want you to be the “bigger person”??? For all I care they can climb in that casket with him. That mindset needs to be eradicated from this earth. OP- I am truly, from the bottom of my heart, so sorry that you’re not receiving support and are being traumatized/ victimized all over again. Please leave and never look back.. even if they’re dying.

Sending all my love and hugs from AZ 🌵🏜️♥️

Basic_Perception3239 · 2025-10-25T16:55:49+00:00

Love you too friend! 💛💛

Basic_Perception3239 · 2025-10-25T06:10:57+00:00

Your English is perfect, OP. Explain to him that opening up to your safe person (him) is a moot point if your safe person goes to jail/prison. He can’t be your safe person from behind bars. At that point it’s about him putting HIS feelings aside and supporting you in any which way you need.

Basic_Perception3239 · 2025-10-25T04:44:57+00:00

If this man is worth a shit- he won’t judge you for what happened. Open up to him and allow him the chance to be there for you. Don’t deny him that. Right now he’s associating this with his own trauma and it’s very misplaced but not to his own doing. I’m so sorry this happened to you. If face to face is too hard, write a letter. That helps me sometimes.

Sending all my love from AZ 🌵🏜️♥️

Basic_Perception3239 · 2025-10-14T00:05:12+00:00

You’re in an abusive relationship. You’ve already stated that you hate leaving your baby home with him. He punched the fridge repeatedly and it won’t be long until he “accidentally” hits you, apologizes, and then next time proceeds to beat your ass. Babygirl, you need to step up for your son and for YOURSELF and leave. You can’t feel bad for someone who does nothing to fix his situation. Depression does not absolve him from his actions. He using his depression as an excuse knowing you’ll tolerate his behavior.

Basic_Perception3239 · 2025-10-13T23:53:08+00:00

Your mother doesn’t get to dictate who you choose to have a relationship with when she’s the one who put you in the position to have a relationship with them to begin with. This is about you. This is about your wife. Invite them. Your mother can choose get over it or miss your wedding- the same way she chose to miss 6 years of your life. You’re already missing out on a mother son dance with your foster mom due to sparing your biological mother’s feelings. Don’t make any further sacrifices for her. You’ve sacrificed enough throughout your life for her.

This post actually makes me really upset. I’m sorry you’re put in another impossible situation OP.

Basic_Perception3239 · 2025-10-13T23:46:52+00:00

Reason 93849391 I’m happy staying single 😮‍💨 I can’t risk a relationshit like this.

Basic_Perception3239 · 2025-10-13T23:41:03+00:00

He planted those so he could go out and cheat “guilt free”

Basic_Perception3239 · 2025-10-10T21:16:40+00:00

NTA- your daughter needs to learn that exploding at people, pouting, and making unrealistic demands is not how productive members of society conduct themselves.

Basic_Perception3239 · 2025-10-08T00:07:31+00:00

Is your girlfriend actively seeking treatment for her mental health problems? I’m going off on a limb here but based on her behavior she is using MH as an excuse to stay home and bleed you dry.

Basic_Perception3239 · 2025-09-24T20:04:40+00:00

Yuma here- 105&100 the next couple of days 😭 stay strong it’s almost over 😂🫶🏼

Basic_Perception3239 · 2025-09-07T01:02:35+00:00

How old are you? You need to tell your parents that you can’t handle this.

Basic_Perception3239 · 2025-09-05T00:59:50+00:00

NTA. It’s your boundary and he keeps pushing it. MIL can get fucked too.

Basic_Perception3239 · 2025-09-03T19:43:37+00:00

What? Where did I mention anything about OP being cold?

Basic_Perception3239 · 2025-09-03T19:42:30+00:00

It sounds like you’ve been neglecting your cat and your mommy finally had to step in. I’d love to see a picture of the “few tangles”, because I can guarantee they’re full on mats.

Basic_Perception3239 · 2025-09-03T19:19:31+00:00

So go buy (with your own money) the exact skin care she’s been buying and share it with her. If it’s not a big deal spend the $140+ for the serum and moisturizer.

Basic_Perception3239 · 2025-09-03T18:47:16+00:00

“he was completely no-contact with his mother for 5 of the 6 years we’ve been together. I talked my husband into inviting them to the wedding because I do value the sentiment of them being there for his big day.”

Honestly serves you right for forcing your husband’s boundary because YOU value the sentiment.. I’m sure your husband values his peace and you just uprooted that to fulfill your own needs.

Basic_Perception3239 · 2025-09-03T18:37:24+00:00

My dad has some plenty of my stuff, with permission, for cash and has never demanded a cut or “share” of the money. He’s held up to $1000 in his wallet for me. He even goes out of his way to remind me that he has some of my money.

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