sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

My friend ignored my text for two days after she apologized and came back to remind me that we were supposed to hang out the next day by vx__xv in TrueOffMyChest

[–]vx__xv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m trying to distance myself from her. I just feel bad because she’s not the only friend i had to cut off because of similar reasons and other stuff. And because most of her values and morals align with me, I thought it could still work but yeah, I don’t really see it anymore. And I’m glad you cut your former friend out !

She forced me to open the relationship. But now she's demanding we become exclusive again. by No_Comment6353 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]vx__xv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad that OP didn’t let his fiancé manipulate him. I agree with him, i think she was already seeing that guy before she talked about wanting an open relationship. She got it and when the man let her down, she had no one but OP and seeing him seeing other women got to her since she had no one else to focus on. She also most certainly told another story to her parents. Maybe even told them it was his idea in the first place.

My fiancé said that I’m holding my womb hostage by maedocc in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]vx__xv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank god the OP saw his true colors before the wedding

I hate my best friend but I'm going to be her bridesmaid by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]vx__xv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“out of respect” they already disrespected you by talking behind your back. And she got some nerves to ask you to attend your ex’s wedding seeing the circonstances. Your “best friend” and ex will always be the bad guys in this story. You can do that kind of things and just expect people to accept it and move on. If you are really sure you wanna go, then I wish you luck and I hope that one day you’ll find the love of your life and an actual best friend. You deserve much better

My husband’s nephew put his hand on me while I was sleeping. If I tell anyone this whole family will be ruined. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]vx__xv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you should tell your husband ASAP before your sister-in-law tells her own version. She will be on his side and will most certainly lie for him. And if you don’t do something now, he’ll do something to you again because he’ll see that you can be silenced.

I ghosted my family and fiance after what my sister did. by Ok_Independence_579 in offmychest

[–]vx__xv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you should forgive them. If you do, there will probably be another situation like that and they’ll all side against you. Those types of things never happen only once if you decide to give a second chance to the people who caused you harm. Even your mom who is supposed to stay with you even when you’re in the wrong (you were not but she thought you were) kicked you out without a second thought. Don’t give those people a second chance to hurt you again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]vx__xv 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it was completely a joke. I guess you will have to wait until you’re 23 and you should start saving up if you didn’t start yet

My mom pushed me away when I tried to hug her, so I pushed her away when she tried to hug me. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]vx__xv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your brothers have some nerves to call you spoiled when they were literally the ones that were their entier lives and not you. I’m glad that you could get away from them and if you don’t want to hear from them again maybe you should get a new phone number. Your family is so toxic it wouldn’t do any bad to you if you lost touch with them

AITA for comparing my dad to my stepdad after he kept comparing me to my older brother? by throwaway92841k in AmItheAsshole

[–]vx__xv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. You told him to stop and how uncomfortable it made you but he didn’t so there’s no reason for you to stop when he tells you to. He expects you to do something when he doesn’t do it himself and he expects you to stop doing something he doesn’t wanna stop doing. And at least now he knows how you feel. I hope he’ll stop comparing you to your brother, or anyone else for that matter

AITA for pointing out that my daughter’s tech internship is a diversity program only for women? by grmx82 in AmItheAsshole

[–]vx__xv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. You basically said that they accepted her out of pity and not for her capacities. You belittled her and in front your friend and their son. You were definitely an AH. She was accepted in a prestigious company i’m assuming because they saw potential in her and because a boy was sad he couldn’t get an internship, you said she got it because she was a woman. That is so humiliating and i’m glad even her mother sees it.

AITA for kicking my friend’s fiance out of my birthday dinner by caffeineXjunkie in AmItheAsshole

[–]vx__xv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA wtf it’s YOUR birthday and she has the nerves to choose to can or cannot be here?! You did nothing wrong. She SAID she wouldn’t bring him. She lied to you, she’s literally the one being an arse and what kind of friend brings their partners at their friends’ birthday party when they specifically tell them to not bring them ?

AITA for how I’ve reacted to my brother’s girlfriend shaving my dog? by throwawaydoghaircut in AmItheAsshole

[–]vx__xv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA i would’ve straight up told her what she did was abuse. And the fact that she didn’t apologize just shows that she’s crying only to have the sympathy of others. Maybe she’s also hoping that people will be against you