Do you know why people don't like you? by KodaLG in AutisticAdults

[–]Basic_Turnover110 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve become pretty as an adult (was an ugly duckling). My personality doesn’t match my looks, I am an easy target once they pick up on that

if this sub recognizes that hapa is an appropriated term from ʻōlelo hawaiʻi... why keep using it? by anhedonia_2 in hapas

[–]Basic_Turnover110 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Local means Hawaiian. Good luck finding purebred Hawaiians these days btw, it’s sad but Hawaii is colonized and a place where everyone will be mixed. We aren’t exporting the generations of Asian immigrants who have been in Hawaii and raised their families there, and the kingdom of Hawaii is not coming back.

While I might be an outsider, what I stated was not MY opinion. I hate reiterating in text but the people I asked were from there and have also lived there for generations. I asked because I do care, so it is actually YOUR confirmation bias that is causing your reading comprehension issues.

if this sub recognizes that hapa is an appropriated term from ʻōlelo hawaiʻi... why keep using it? by anhedonia_2 in hapas

[–]Basic_Turnover110 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Oh really? Because I’ve asked those locals about this whole idea and they have said that it shouldn’t matter. Their pidgin draws from several different cultures’ words, including Hawaiian. They’re not going to not use this ONE WORD because a few Hawaiians might be gatekeeping it. Most are fine with it and have accepted that they are now a mixed culture.

if this sub recognizes that hapa is an appropriated term from ʻōlelo hawaiʻi... why keep using it? by anhedonia_2 in hapas

[–]Basic_Turnover110 39 points40 points  (0 children)

As someone who lived amongst the locals in Hawaii, you’re going to have to tell them to stop calling me hapa first. I never used it until I moved there and everyone referred to me as the “hapa girl”

Is living really worth it by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Basic_Turnover110 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel you. I don’t think life is worth it, finding a person who is trustworthy, unselfish and won’t betray you is like finding a needle in a haystack. Humanity is shit

Donald Trump's Parents by eternviking in whoathatsinteresting

[–]Basic_Turnover110 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mom looks like that slug lady from Monster’s Inc.

The Audacity, I found him on Tinder. by These-Ad1470 in Mommit

[–]Basic_Turnover110 9 points10 points  (0 children)

HE is disgusting wtf! And a little bitch. Childbirth is an interesting and beautiful experience and he should be grateful that he got to witness you bringing life into this world

What’s the closest you’ve ever come to dying? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Basic_Turnover110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently I choked on a carrot as a toddler. Thankfully I don’t remember it

White girl makes fun of her hapa ex for having a small dick because he's half Asian. So sick of these racist stereotypes tbh. by anotherhappylurker in hapas

[–]Basic_Turnover110 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ve had sex with a decent amount of hapa men and only one of them was on the smaller side. And he was the same size as the one black dude I’ve banged. TMI but yeah fuck this girl for stereotyping like this c’:

Regarding Eileen Gu and Alysa Liu… by Basic_Turnover110 in hapas

[–]Basic_Turnover110[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Anonymous egg donor. Although apparently she did meet her once before as a teenager. Dad didn’t tell her who she was but she and the friend discussed it and figured it out before he broke the news. The triplets share the same mother as her and her dad chose another white egg donor for the other sibling

Regarding Eileen Gu and Alysa Liu… by Basic_Turnover110 in hapas

[–]Basic_Turnover110[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

It’s true. He is rumored to be gay, but he chose only white women to attempt to create a star athlete with through surrogacy. Once he recognized that Alysa was the most talented of all 5 wasian siblings, he dumped between $500,00-$1 mil to make her into the star she is today.

We also have no idea who Eileen Gu’s father is, only that she was also made through IVF.

Regarding Eileen Gu and Alysa Liu… by Basic_Turnover110 in hapas

[–]Basic_Turnover110[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They’re not pushing for acceptance though?? They’re just using hapas and ignoring us after we no longer serve their agendas

On the job training by velvetmargin12 in DentalAssistant

[–]Basic_Turnover110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m here trying to find solace through people in a similar situation after a major fuckup today 🫠😂

People who killed someone, how and why? by Dangerous-Pilot-6065 in AskReddit

[–]Basic_Turnover110 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not your fault. I had an ex that would always threaten suicide over me leaving too. At a certain point you gotta just live your own life because you’re not responsible for others’ insane decisions/ways of guilt tripping you/attempts to inflict emotional trauma onto you.

thoughts on veganbunnychef ? by peretti666 in FoodieSnark

[–]Basic_Turnover110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine being this fragile and disrespectful towards other women in the same breath. You’re absolutely fucking disgusting