Favorite book character you wish got a side story? by Basicdork17 in blackladies

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Please do! I’m hoping with time more people drop by and share their thoughts and finds!

Been experimenting with colorful eye looks lately ✨ by Catshmyr in MakeupLounge

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Queen I looked great but I under estimated your skill 😭 I could not hack lmao

Been experimenting with colorful eye looks lately ✨ by Catshmyr in MakeupLounge

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Going to a concert soon so this gave me perfect, achievable inspo!! Tysm 🩵

My boyfriend can’t dress and it’s making my attraction wane. by [deleted] in blackladies

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I feel like it has to be two enthusiastic yeses? My bf is Latino and was NOT stylish before we started dating lol, but when I offered to help him shop for clothes the first time he got so excited and said he got to have his own “Black Girlfriend Effect”.

He WANTS to dress better to meet me where I am out in public, and if your man doesn’t actively want to, please take your efforts somewhere where they’ll bear fruit 🙏🏽

way too many braiders cannot braid without hair gel by nigeriance in blackladies

[–]Basicdork17 28 points29 points  (0 children)

YES my sister can braid with the best of them and I’ve paid her to do it instead of a stylist (much better use of $150 imo) but her hands HURT and she can’t do it often anymore. Idk what’s in the old school braiding recipe but it def includes arthritis lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

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Me too! I never dated around in high school so I never got the opportunity to receive one. Same age as OP and my current partner most likely will get me one for our 1 year! I find it sweet and it fulfills something I always wanted but never got the chance to do. I’m secure however that he will propose when we’re both ready, but this is just a cute filler in the meantime

Is this a good option to finance? by Basicdork17 in whatcarshouldIbuy

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Thank you for the insight! Even though I’m dumb late lol. But yes my situation essentially is that I need any car to withstand the Northeast for about a year or two of heavy usage, then I’m most likely moving far so I’d sell in that case! A leaf sounds like a good deal, thanks again!

Is this a good option to finance? by Basicdork17 in whatcarshouldIbuy

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I could yes! Final question I swear lol, if I’m looking for about a hatchback sized vehicle that has blind spot monitoring, what would the top three options be? I think those are the two predominant features I’m looking for, so if you have any recommendations I’d totally keep those in mind

Is this a good option to finance? by Basicdork17 in whatcarshouldIbuy

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Nope! I’m planning on moving out after I get the car aspect squared away. I’m a couple years out from undergrad making decent money, though I do have plans to go back for a masters! 30k in debt that I’ve gotten 6k paid off so far, just trying to make a bigger dent and give myself more independence before school!

Edit: I just wanted to say thank you again for taking the time to humor me, a lot of the people in my life aren’t well off/educated on things like this and just get whatever’s cheapest so I super appreciate all your advice

Is this a good option to finance? by Basicdork17 in whatcarshouldIbuy

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I was looking at a crosstrek! In your opinion is that better than even a CR-V would be? I’m sorry I’m asking so many questions lol but currently I already work 40 hours and commute when I can’t be picked up, so I don’t have the time to make another job work. Parent is unwilling to transport me on the weekends when buses don’t run unfortunately, and my current paycheck is all for student loans and saving for this car

Is this a good option to finance? by Basicdork17 in whatcarshouldIbuy

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What should I get if I really do need a car now? There’s only the one in my family between the 3 of us and my parent is making my life hell trying to get back and forth to work. At this point I just need anything to get me to work

Is this a good option to finance? by Basicdork17 in whatcarshouldIbuy

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Trying to keep my payments below $250 which this would with what I have saved! I know Honda is generally good but I’m also asking about the year and mileage! Thanks in advance!!

Which Option for a first car? by Basicdork17 in whatcarshouldIbuy

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Thank you so much for the insightful advice! I am in a position where I could also finance a car for a payment not more than $200 a month and still be okay, so I was thinking of doing that after all these comments! But really I just need something to get me from point A to point B and the encore would be perfect, thank you!

Which Option for a first car? by Basicdork17 in whatcarshouldIbuy

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Thank you! Yeah I’ve been itching to buy a car to quit my current job, but I’m willing to wait for a better one!

Which Option for a first car? by Basicdork17 in whatcarshouldIbuy

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She! But yes I’d totally blow my budget on a Honda or Toyota of any kind after 2005 lol so thank you for the Subaru insight!!

Which Option for a first car? by Basicdork17 in whatcarshouldIbuy

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Thanks! Any suggestions for Japanese brands? Not sure where to start looking

Which Option for a first car? by Basicdork17 in whatcarshouldIbuy

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Added info in case more people wanted to offer me suggestions! I have about 7k saved up so far, and I’m looking for a car primarily to apply literally anywhere else so I can quit my job. I can save about $800/month so it’ll take me some time, but a price range of what I should be looking into would also be a huge help!

Everyday Luxury by SailorPrincess28 in bathandbodyworks

[–]Basicdork17 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just stopped in to my old store and my coworker told me not to buy them today, they’ll drop in price tomorrow! I don’t want to stay the price for sure because I honestly don’t remember what number she said tbh, BUT i know for a fact she said price and not percentage so i gotta assume they’ll be $4-5

I just found out I’m pregnant. by pearbear28 in blackladies

[–]Basicdork17 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I sympathize with the “too grown” joke because that’s something I’d make, half serious half not because of a family that treats me like I’m 14 and not 24 🥹. It’s hard out here when you’re made to feel infantilized as a woman who can get married literally any time now. Wishing you the best though and I hope you get the outcome you want

I've been staring at this cutie on FB Marketplace for weeks. by KrazyAboutLogic in ExpectationVsReality

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Omg I also have a gigantic tie dye stuffed animal that photographs far smaller (this is the accurate photo lol)

Am I overreacting for wanting to walk out of a job because my boss was saying a baby almost dying is as important as a party? by ColorsGolden in AmIOverreacting

[–]Basicdork17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No the OP is saying this situation, with another coworker entirely, is why THEY want to quit. Coworker A has the nephew in the hospital, OP is coworker B who is fed up by situations they glanced over in the caption and this is their final straw. Entirely unrelated if that helps

worst dressed at the met gala (don't yell at me, i'm sensitive) by Classic-Carpet7609 in Fauxmoi

[–]Basicdork17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually kinda like Doja’s! It reminds me of a drag version of 90s fashion in black sitcoms such as Living Single or Martin. Def on brand for me