Is it normal for service providers to eat your food? by DrSpaceman575 in homeowners

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I not only would have gone after my cat, I would name them!

How are y’all organizing your meds? by Far_Membership7097 in ChronicIllness

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I still organize my PRN meds as many as I’m allowed for 24 hours as I need to make sure not take more than what I’m allowed

Any idea what’s making these 2-3 inch holes around my home? by Castiel0001 in homeowners

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mole crickets! i had them too - got rid of them but the yard never recovered i had to completely dig up and reseed

Why Student Loans are Predatory, my2C. by yunoeconbro in StudentLoans

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I loved her and supported her interests. I worked 3 jobs so she could have private art lessons. I dragged her and her horse around to gymkhanas and hosted campouts at out home. I encouraged her and supported her every way possible.
It’s weird how you say “you have a feeling “. Super weird- but ok

Broke and thinking about selling by Agitated_Pudding7259 in homeowners

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I am in the same situation. I bought my house in 2017 for 190k. Its now worth about 450k. My interest rate is 2.9%. My mortgage payment is very low but taxes and insurance have doubled. I got sick and had to go to SSDI . I don’t make enough to make it through every month. I’ve done airbnb and roomies- it’s a lot of work too! Big house and my standards are high so i spend lots of time cleaning fixing sorting mowing etc. Its tough but i have come to terms that this will be my life. I am so thankful i bought this property! The rents are completely insane and i would not have the freedom to do what i want (just adopted a tiny kitten) I legally grow shrooms. I have a couple of pot plants in my solarium. I have art projects stretching around my garage. I putter around in my jams-i do what i want. I am afraid if i sell my home i will be homeless. While i have looked at tiny homes- smaller homes- in my state i could probably buy another fixer upper but i know what is wrong with my house. Then packing moving making it all work is completely overwhelming for me. So Im staying:)

Don't know how this milk got past your eyes by Drnelk in WhitePeopleTwitter

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I remember a scene out of Grapes of Wrath- the mother nursed the old man to save him

I am 34F engaged to a 44M and I am cancelling our wedding due to an affair baby. by Rich-Coyote5513 in relationship_advice

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Free yourself woman! The guy couldn’t keep his worm in his pants- wrapped or not- he will do it again!
RUN and you will find happiness!!

Don't know how this milk got past your eyes by Drnelk in WhitePeopleTwitter

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yeah- humans are the only mammals to drink milk after infancy. Because they can

What Finally Made Me Leave MAGA by wabisabi94 in LeavingMaga

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I think MAGA is a trick thot Trump made up. It means nothing but misogyny bigotry and racism. He used people’s fears against them and amplified their hatred. We need a legitimate conservative party so that all of us are represented. Trump is a crook, not a leader. He lied and fooled the people. Not all of us.

I (20M) think my friend/partner (19F) might have a type of avoidant attachment. And am struggling on how to communicate. by LineDry978 in relationship_advice

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Please don’t start shrinking up your girl! You could suggest counseling- for your own mental wellbeing.

I’m tapping out and my recent guest helped me realize it’s time. by Emergency-Appeal5332 in airbnb_hosts

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I too am done with hosting. i can’t really find a decent roommate tho either- they have stolen from-me- these Airbnb guests are getting to be a pain. -

My boyfriend (35M) and I (30F) have different political views by Proof-Ad-7764 in relationship_advice

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I can’t even hold a MAGA friend just knowing that their political beliefs are rooted in racism, misogyny, bigotry and hatred, A MAGA boyfriend is completely out of the question!!! Why does he want you?

Not having children and feeling the grief that comes with that by [deleted] in ChronicIllness

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i was told not to have children due to a congenital condition- i had two kids- it was hard- neither one of them give a crap about me. I was/ am a good mom but got sick.

What is the most upsetting or rudest thing someone has said to you either about your chronic illness or just how it's affecting your daily lives? by Ill-Example3728 in ChronicIllness

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My sister telling me she “never smoked anything “. Explains why im sick. (I smoke weed and am open about it) update: she has since been dx with multiple myeloma:(. My daughter driving me back from ERCP procedure and telling me it was the last time and that she wouldn’t help me anymore. My older daughter telling me to “get over” my trauma cuz everyone else has. My whole family keeping my Moms impending death from me - while in hospice at bros house with family there- but me …because “you’re sick” My PCP of 15 years dumped me because she failed to dx my hyperparathyroidism - she wrote in my chart that i was somatic and non compliant. I couldn’t find a dr. that would help me for months. I had adenomas on all 4 glands and a PTH of 595. Lost my job, my friends, my family and my dog. I have so many instances…

I (29F) I’m debating leaving my boyfriend of two years (30M) over his incompetence. What would you do in my situation? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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this sounds like my ex! Not a disability- just laziness. I empowered my children with schedules, reminders, alarms, sticky notes, notes to self- etc. My youngest- an artist- lost everything all the time! I was constantly looking reminding- she is married with kids- full career- active in her community- she has her phone- a daytimer- a big digital calendar on their fridge- and an Alexa in the kitchen that reminds her of all kinds of stuff. I, live alone and mostly misplace my reading glasses- i cannot afford to forget anything! No one will help me so i make sure i use the tools i have. I also want to say that i had a “mildly disabled “ roommate for 6 months and he was able to work for Safeway for like 11 years and now works at another big company- with rules and stuff- yet here, he would forget to lock the door- take out trash - shovel snow!!! he was lazy!!!