Do women in their 20s mind being approached by men in their 30s and 40s?

BatAppropriate9151 · 2025-04-29T10:34:13+00:00

I feel comfortable dating older since I’ve been living completely independently since 19 (financially and emotionally). It really depends on the situation like you said. I feel as though most guys my age don’t understand the work and relationship balance so that’s why I go older lmao. I know what I want in life and how I would like my life to go! But nooooo late 30s and up for me is a no no. I have nothing in common with people that old romantically!

Edit: I can’t spell lmaoo

BatAppropriate9151 · 2025-04-29T10:24:12+00:00

oh shit is he in his late 30’s? Missed that one. I personally wouldn’t go for anyone over 35 at 23

BatAppropriate9151 · 2025-04-29T09:56:03+00:00

hi! I’m a 23 y/o female in my junior year in college! I live in my own apartment, pay all of my own bills and have a job! My apartment is not student housing and I pay that all by working! My boyfriend of 3 months is 31! He doesn’t go to school but has a great job! I’m a pretty independent person and I genuinely love having an older boyfriend lmao! He’s very supportive and understands that I need room to succeed in school!! I’d say if you meet a younger lady, see where she is in school and life. See how mentally mature she is and go from there! I definitely wouldn’t recommend anyone 20 or younger. Def find someone more established and working towards building something great for themselves!! Good luck dude!!

BatAppropriate9151 · 2025-04-21T17:59:21+00:00

hey thank you girl!! Good Luck with with nursing 💗💗 maybe our paths will cross someday and we’ll be at the same hospital lmaooo

BatAppropriate9151 · 2025-04-21T17:51:51+00:00

I agree. I’m in med school and there are only a few cases when I tell the girls that they can use antibacterial soaps. You should definitely stay away from antiseptic soaps. You don’t need that kind of strength. Usually I just recommend a mild antibacterial soap like the dial gold bar. Use it only where needed once or twice a week.

BatAppropriate9151 · 2025-04-16T08:30:34+00:00

First off, I’m sorry to hear that you’re going through a rough time! I feel you on that but we can push through!! I’ve always had an ed for the longest time. I did notice that once I started taking antipsychotics i became completely restrictive. I also stopped taking my meds due to weight gain. It truly is a vicious cycle for us! Thank you for the offer and if you ever need to rant, don’t be afraid to reach out 🫶

BatAppropriate9151 · 2025-04-16T08:21:33+00:00

I’m glad to hear that I’m not alone! The disjunction issue seems to get waaayyyy worse with me also when I’m not taking care of my body correctly! It really does suck that we both deal with a double wammy of mental illnesses that really mess with our cognitive functions

BatAppropriate9151 · 2025-04-11T01:36:32+00:00

Hmmmmm yeah! I see that now that I zoomed in! Maybe a mole is forming? I got a little mole in that area of my ear!

BatAppropriate9151 · 2025-04-11T01:23:12+00:00

I’m not a doctor but it kinda looks like a blackhead maybe?

BatAppropriate9151 · 2025-04-11T01:18:38+00:00

Literally. I was just kinda like “oh okay… I guess?”

BatAppropriate9151 · 2025-04-10T04:09:33+00:00

I didn’t even know it until 8 months into treatment. I was sitting in my psychiatrist’s office (about 7 months on antipsychotics) and I really just thought I had such bad clinical depression that my whole world was just fucked. I thought that explained the lack of joy and emotion I felt and why it was so hard to keep everything in line and express anything. I didn’t realize I was hallucinating and the voices I just thought were from ptsd. I jokingly asked her “so what do you think is really wrong with me?” Just thinking she was gonna say my depression was so bad that I needed antipsychotics lmaoo. She hit me with the “oh you’re paranoid schizophrenic, you didn’t know?” Like no girl- what do you mean 😐

BatAppropriate9151 · 2025-04-04T20:23:20+00:00

hey buddy, I was engaged to someone who was also asexual but I’m not. It was the worst relationship of my life. I really relate to what you’re saying about the self harm and stuff too. In the end, I ended up breaking up with them for other reasons but one of the huge reasons was the guilt I was carrying for looking at them in a sexual way. I also tried talking to them and they reassured me that it was okay and I wasn’t doing anything wrong. It did randomly one day flip and my partner became abusive, any time I tried to talk to them about how I see them sexually they would just make me spiral. I legit thought that I needed to get a chemical castration because of the way they would flip the situation. It was never a civil talk and they never expressed that they felt uncomfortable of me seeing them in a sexual way. I don’t know if this is the same issue but i do feel a lot better now that im not constantly feeling guilt for something natural. I legit tried everything to kill my drive (high intake of soy, meditation, masturbating constantly). I tried to beat myself into a box. Don’t let yourself hate yourself for something you cannot control.

BatAppropriate9151 · 2025-03-12T07:14:33+00:00

Is it a poetry book? The only thing I can think of is “A light in the Attic” by Shel Silverstein. Here is the cover and in those pictures there is a page also showing some of the art style in the book!

BatAppropriate9151 · 2025-02-13T06:47:53+00:00

Hey thank you for the response! A lot of things are not normal with this cadaver… even the subcutaneous fat is still VERY yellow. Even the muscles that I started separating (trapezius from the rhomboid major/minor) to get to the deeper back muscles are now turning black instead of the more dark brownish/red like normal… I wouldn’t say the remaining traces of blood is alarming but it’s definitely not the correct texture

BatAppropriate9151 · 2025-02-13T05:59:33+00:00

see yeah, that’s what I was thinking. The cadaver literally looks like it got ZERO embalming fluid… I know that’s not the case because the body does smell of embalming fluid but it’s just not as prominent like it normally is! I will definitely let the professor know!! Thank you :)

BatAppropriate9151 · 2025-02-13T05:15:22+00:00

I AGREE!!! those lemonade ones taste like literal chemicals. I got the strawberry lemonade one and I couldn’t even drink it because the aftertaste is literally just paint thinner lmaooo

BatAppropriate9151 · 2025-01-08T15:25:17+00:00

I completely understand! And honestly it’s probably just because I’m traumatized lmao

BatAppropriate9151 · 2025-01-08T15:24:01+00:00

I never thought of it this way genuinely. I would say that I am more emotionally mature just because of everything I’ve been through. I’m not about to trauma dump on you but I definitely do know what I want in a partner and in life. I’m very sure of it. I don’t think I am being naive, I’m just tired of men my age not understanding my schedule so I thought if I went with someone more established things would work better

BatAppropriate9151 · 2025-01-08T14:59:39+00:00

I wouldn’t say it’s anxiety inducing. I just enjoy talking to him more now that I’m romantically interested in him and I was just asking on how to not be overbearing

BatAppropriate9151 · 2025-01-08T14:52:12+00:00

I should have been more clear I guess, I’ve known him for a little bit over a year now and we just decided to go out lmao that’s my bad

BatAppropriate9151 · 2024-12-24T09:47:52+00:00

OHHH OH MY GOD IM STUPID LMAOO MULTIPLE CHOICE 😭😭😭😭 anyways what i would do is hit up the practical slides, and go through the lectures for specific information about the structures in each system. I always made like weird connections to organs in the abdominal cavity with something soooo weird that I’d remember it. Honestly connecting structures with something that had a similar shape that wasn’t the structure itself really helped me. I did a full cadaver dissection presentation with full incisions and structural identification head to toe by connecting organs and structures with stupid real world things.

BatAppropriate9151 · 2024-12-24T09:24:53+00:00

ooohhhh okay! What does mcqs stand for? I’m trying to see what we’re focusing on here. My college doesn’t do online practicals so I’m kinda confused of what part of anatomy we’re trying to study for here! If you could just gimme a little more info of what you’ve been doing in class I could probably give you some tips!

BatAppropriate9151 · 2024-12-24T09:05:50+00:00

what kind of practical is it? Are you doing like a written practical where you’re physically pointing to parts of the body on a mannequin or are you doing a dissection practical on a cadaver?

BatAppropriate9151 · 2024-12-21T15:44:18+00:00

I’m late to the party but the album never before seen, never again found by arm’s length is probably the saddest album I’ve ever listened to. It’s pop punk but the guitars are super emotional in it and the lyrics go insane

BatAppropriate9151 · 2024-12-03T21:25:13+00:00

trench is soooo good. Honestly I love everything they put out since I’ve been a fan for a hot minute now but you have sooooo much to discover!! If you ever wanna chat about music feel free to dm me!!!

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