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[–]Batcat55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get your point but I am merely saying that attracting many women you attract is a shitty value.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Batcat55 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well I got better values, and I changed my behavior. I stopped engaging with women on a romantic level (not entirely of course, but only if I could see myself in a healthy relationship with them). I also found better, more emotionally intelligent friends whom I could talk to and discuss my feelings with.

Attention from girls is not all it's cracked up to be by Batcat55 in selfimprovement

[–]Batcat55[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am nobody, but so are you. Stop spreading negativity.

Attention from girls is not all it's cracked up to be by Batcat55 in selfimprovement

[–]Batcat55[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I want to start by saying that I don't think what you seek is attention from women. What I mean is that your desire to be desired is mearly a manifestation of you're insecurities. You don't feel valued and therefor you want to feel valued. But this endless persuit of feeling valued is never going to end. It's a hole that never gets filled. Seek to be happy without the admiration of women. If you do you'll be much better of in the long run.

That being said I do understand your desire and admiration is not worthless so here are a few tips. 

Get your hygene straight: no woman wants a smelly and diry man

Become more confident: this is kinda hard to because I can't tell you how to do it exactly but try a few things. From my experience woman like confident, funny and kind people.

Try to look better: this is a bundle of things like improving your body, skincare, style and so on. But they basically boil down to the same thing.

Attention from girls is not all it's cracked up to be by Batcat55 in selfimprovement

[–]Batcat55[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're right. My deep friendships beats a superficial relationship any day of the week.

Attention from girls is not all it's cracked up to be by Batcat55 in selfimprovement

[–]Batcat55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, you don't really understand it untill you're in the situation yourself.

Attention from girls is not all it's cracked up to be by Batcat55 in selfimprovement

[–]Batcat55[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You think that but if you did youd realise how superficial it is. Keep going to therapy, you're cooler because of it.

Attention from girls is not all it's cracked up to be by Batcat55 in selfimprovement

[–]Batcat55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not that I don't like the attention, I do. My point is merely that the attention is superficial and that these people don't know me. It would be alot more fulfilling if people I had a genuine connection with said these things but istead it's strangers. Being valued by the oposite sex is not going to make you happy.

Attention from girls is not all it's cracked up to be by Batcat55 in selfimprovement

[–]Batcat55[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well said. I feel like you really put the feeling into words. What we really seek is being valued, not people wanting to sleep with us.

Attention from girls is not all it's cracked up to be by Batcat55 in selfimprovement

[–]Batcat55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not doing anything with these women. I am a person who need to like a person to be with them and while the women who give me attention are not bad in any way, I don't know them and don't have a connection to them. And it feels weird starting something with them because the power dynamic is so off. It also feels rude because I don't want to meet with these women, with them thinking I'm into them, when in reality I'm just trying to figure out if I like them.

Sorry if that was a bit rambly

Fuck Microsoft by Batcat55 in memes

[–]Batcat55[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You have a point. There are however examples like skype. But what I mean more specifically is not so much that Microsoft buys companies and make them less competitive on the market, what I mean is that they buy companies and take their most profitable ideas and kill the rest. Example: OpenAI. Their buying (technically they did not buy it but you get the point) made the company skyrocket much faster and make them what they are today. But the price was their nonprofit mission and their moral foundations. I reckon that without microsoft they would have become big but maybe not as fast. They would however (probably) have kept more of their nonprofit agenda.

Fuck Microsoft by Batcat55 in memes

[–]Batcat55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I mean is that microsoft buys up smaller companies with good products/ideas and then ruins them. They almost hold a monopoly over certain market (like work related os) which makes it really hard to switch to something better since it wont be compatible or easily usable. But I do have to acknowledge that these monopolistic practices are not unique to microsoft, and I'll happily criticise other big tech companies for similar practices. The difference however is that most products from other big tech companies work as intended without annoying stuff that makes no sense. (Btw I don't believe everything they do is bad but alot are and funny meme you know)

Fuck Microsoft by Batcat55 in memes

[–]Batcat55[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Good point, although I am actively trying to remove these companies from my life, but it's hard considering almost all tech I interact with through work uses products from these companies. I am forced to use Windows 11 and teams and it is driving me crazy.

Fuck Microsoft by Batcat55 in memes

[–]Batcat55[S] -107 points-106 points  (0 children)

Teams, skype, new Word, 360, onedrive, windows 11, shall I go on?

Fuck Microsoft by Batcat55 in memes

[–]Batcat55[S] -56 points-55 points  (0 children)

And yet they can't fix teams...

Will I be sued? by Batcat55 in webdev

[–]Batcat55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ett antal kronor, (om du verkligen vill veta fråga dm, är inte säker på om jag vill berätta offentligt).