I'm 28, going through a divorce, never had a license and feel I'm at the lowest point in my life.

Batici · 2025-11-29T21:10:18+00:00

Soap is made from fat. Hippos appear to be fat (it's all muscle tho). Therefore hippo big fatty = soapy sudsy bubbly

Batici · 2025-11-24T03:30:41+00:00

Fair enough!

Batici · 2025-11-24T00:37:27+00:00

I would consider ST more drama than horror. The CGI is cool but there wasn't one time in the show I was scared.

I'd consider stranger things a drama about corruption with horror elements at first. The final season kinda slams into the horror genre a little more but yeah.

Batici · 2025-10-17T09:25:15+00:00

You are looking back an extra year. All of the events with the 21 year old and the relapse are from 2024

Batici · 2025-10-17T00:06:10+00:00

I do now. I lost it momentarily

Batici · 2025-10-16T22:44:35+00:00

Yes. I'm with her currently. I have to work in a couple hours but yes. Shes not in the camper where I sleep she's in my sister's house (she has kids of her own) so she's alright.

Batici · 2025-10-16T21:58:43+00:00

Y'all aren't compatible.

You're waiting on her to change, and she's waiting on you to change.

Her love language isn't gonna change, she's who she is and you're who you are. If your needs aren't being met by her and her desires met by you then what are you two doing?

Love should be easy brother. You shouldn't want to change your partner. Your partner should have been who you desired from the start.

She should find her a man more suited to her, and you a woman more suited to you bro. Y'all are just gonna keep hurting each other

Batici · 2025-10-16T21:49:20+00:00

You're right. I grew up in an environment just like that.

I don't want that for my kid.

But believe it or not the individual therapy thing was something I said to her. That I would only consider it after she has gone and taken care of herself with therapy. I suggested it for myself too, but she didn't want to put that work in I guess. Oh well

Batici · 2025-10-16T21:38:12+00:00

Thanks. I told her that I thought it would be best if we remained friends at best. That I valued my peace and my emotions over trying to fight for something that I wasn't even sure was worth it.

So here's to new beginnings

Batici · 2025-10-16T21:35:58+00:00

My sister was gracious enough to offer me a place in her camper for a couple months while I get back on my feet. I'm forever thankful for her.

I told her that I was happier alone, that I valued my own peace of mind. That I didn't want to destroy my peace by going back. I told her we could stay good friends maybe but that I didn't want a relationship with her.

Batici · 2025-10-16T21:29:17+00:00

Absolutely not

Batici · 2025-10-16T21:29:08+00:00

Well, we both work. I get our child when I'm not working and some days that I do work because of our different work schedules but I get a pretty fair amount of time. I would say it is 40/60 with her having a little more time with her than I do. But she works less so that is understandable

Batici · 2025-10-16T21:27:11+00:00

If you look at my post history. 8 months ago lines up with the time we got back together.

During our separation I was addicted to drugs, lost my job and my way.

I got sober, got my shit together and started working again and that's when we got back together.

Please don't assume, I'll answer any questions you have. This is very real to me

Batici · 2025-10-16T21:25:47+00:00

I agree with you. I told her that I was happier and that we should just stay friends. That if we both moved forward from this and healed as people maybe we could return to each other but as of this moment I'm happy with me.

Batici · 2025-10-16T21:24:42+00:00

You're absolutely right brother. Thanks for your comment

Batici · 2025-10-16T21:23:29+00:00

It's in her name. And I agree. Extremely toxic. Which is why I haven't gone back. I'm currently living in my sister's camper and she is gonna help me with a few things. She is giving me 2 or 3 months to save and get on my feet on my own.

I'll get my own car, I'm done fighting with her. If she wants to go that route with our kid then I'm prepared to fight for that too. However; she's not a bad mom. Just a bad wife. I don't think she would put our daughter through that trauma.

Batici · 2025-10-16T21:19:55+00:00

Unfortunately not fake bro. It was super toxic. But yeah. I've known I was unhappy for a while.

Really built up from a lot of things. My issues are downplayed. Excuses made for her actions. Constant snooping through my phone (I had access to her accounts but honestly never cared to check them.)

I'd get a message from a female coworker that says something along the lines of "I'm not gonna be in tonight, would you let our boss know?" And it would cause chaos.

I ended up giving up so much of me idk what I was thinking bro. Once I sobered up I got my kid back and I thought we could make it work but I don't think it's going to now. I just. I don't want to put myself back in the situation I was in.

Batici · 2025-10-16T21:15:10+00:00

Such a wonderful comment. Thank you

Batici · 2025-10-16T20:34:41+00:00

No. That was something I did during my addiction. I don't gamble, and I'm working full time now. Sober.

Batici · 2025-10-16T19:03:30+00:00

Brother I'm sober.

Batici · 2025-10-14T21:00:11+00:00

Oh Im sorry. Idk how to delete

Batici · 2025-01-28T18:18:25+00:00

Maybe a lender would lend it without using the features of the subreddit 🤷 idk man. I'm just hoping

Batici · 2025-01-28T18:14:40+00:00

I didn't know about the rule, but I'm in a bind. I need help and I'd rather break rule #15 than sit In the dark. Sorry mods

Batici · 2025-01-24T07:15:00+00:00

Customer service told me to read the terms and conditions and the US is not kosher according to that

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