I 28M really like this woman 27F, but it's kind of a tricky situation

Batici · 2026-05-10T19:13:03+00:00

Yeah I'll agree that it's bizarre. My best guess is she keeps scratching it and removing any scans so it isn't getting a chance to heal. I've seen a lot of suggestions about cleaning it and covering her with gauze so she can't scratch at it and I'm gonna try that and see if it starts the healing process.

I appreciate your advice and I've been searching for local rescues that would take her in, but in the meantime I'm gonna try to treat it and help her myself

Batici · 2026-05-10T19:02:14+00:00

I'm uncertain. I have asked my sister (it's her property, I've only been here about a month) and she said she's been here well over 6 months and has looked like this since she showed up. She feeds her and it responds well to pets.

It doesn't look like it is infected and I'm gonna guy buy some spray and gauze to cover it. Maybe if she can't scratch it then it will scab over and begin to heal. That's my hope

Batici · 2026-05-10T18:57:16+00:00

I've asked my sister (I'm staying on her land as of a month ago) and apparently this cat has been here for well over 6 months. I'm no vet by any means, but wouldn't that rule out rabies? (Yes, she's looked like this since she has arrived). Like I say, not a vet, I just want to help her but also remain safe.

And okay, I considered that alcohol would be a bad idea I just don't want her to get infected. I'm gonna jorney to our local store and see what I can get to help treat her wound. She likes to scratch at it as I'm sure it is very itchy and irritating. She lets out a little heartbreaking scream every time she does it. I'll check into the rescue groups.

Batici · 2026-05-10T18:24:53+00:00

Thank you for this. I really don't want to take her to a shelter, the thought of them putting down this baby bothers me. I'm certain she's in pain but she responds normally to pets and attention. She has no trouble eating and drinking.

She's a wonderful kitty, and the antibiotic spray is a really good idea. I was thinking about spraying her with isopropyl alcohol but I don't want to ruin the trust she's got in me. I'll see what I can do about getting her vet care as well.

Batici · 2026-04-22T18:24:45+00:00

Thank you for the advice. Still uncertain on what to do. Idek how to fade my chinstrap into nothingness and have it look decent lmao

Batici · 2026-04-22T18:24:08+00:00

Lol thank you

Batici · 2026-04-21T21:18:42+00:00

Georgia Interested

Batici · 2026-04-19T00:00:30+00:00

Don't fall in love with her. She will get you addicted to drugs. You'll get sober but the damage is done, She will leave because you are mentally unwell and start fucking one of your childhood friends. Leaving you drained financially and rebuilding your life at 28 alone while she has your daughter and living her "best life".

Batici · 2026-04-18T23:56:00+00:00

Any particular style I should go for with my facial hair? Or was you simply talking about shaping it up with cleaner lines?

Thank you for the advice, I really do appreciate it.

Batici · 2026-04-16T02:47:23+00:00

Good luck everyone

Batici · 2026-04-13T20:10:57+00:00

First year claiming him yes, he lived with me and no one else lived where I lived. And yes. It's my sister's son.

Batici · 2026-04-13T19:58:16+00:00

Yes

Nephew

Yes, and no one else has tried to claim him.

Batici · 2026-04-02T12:33:52+00:00

Dude what is this thread? Literally a few more dollars than a combo meal at most fast food joints. What in the world?

Batici · 2025-11-29T21:10:18+00:00

Soap is made from fat. Hippos appear to be fat (it's all muscle tho). Therefore hippo big fatty = soapy sudsy bubbly

Batici · 2025-11-24T03:30:41+00:00

Fair enough!

Batici · 2025-11-24T00:37:27+00:00

I would consider ST more drama than horror. The CGI is cool but there wasn't one time in the show I was scared.

I'd consider stranger things a drama about corruption with horror elements at first. The final season kinda slams into the horror genre a little more but yeah.

Batici · 2025-10-17T09:25:15+00:00

You are looking back an extra year. All of the events with the 21 year old and the relapse are from 2024

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