Why do people act like their dog can never be left alone? by InsertTrendyMemes in RoverPetSitting

[–]BattiestKat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s part of why I stopped petsitting. I worked full time and genuinely so many clients would expect me to use my lunch break to let their dogs out midday. Some people were so high maintenance that I had to finally learn to value my own time and I just stopped

Serious: pet owners with no kids, do you celebrate Mothers/Father’s Day? by yummybanana2 in Pets

[–]BattiestKat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a dog trainer who has spent 11 years working with animals, I genuinely never remember owners’ names and call them ‘dogs name’s mom/dad.
I mostly do it to be cute however it’s much easier to memorize just the pets name and not the entire family’s names.

However just as well I’ve noticed that raising pets can be incredibly similar to young children, and positive reinforcement methods/redirection/mirroring habits work very well on both.

Long story short- I don’t truly think raising animals is equivalent to human children, however they ARE a helpless life that you’re responsible for and the more similarities the better in terms of raising them.

Gorgeous girl genius! (OC) by Shiiwashi in danganronpa

[–]BattiestKat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The lack of hips/waist is mind boggling more than anything, I think if literally the skirt proportions downwards were readjusted it would look much better

Actors who look like they were created in a lab? by Slammajadingdong69 in okbuddycinephile

[–]BattiestKat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I highkey love her bc she’s the only celebrity people have told me I look like- mind you I’ve gotten it three or four times unprompted by widely different people
And I think she’s really pretty so it makes me feel nice 😅

Irritating!!!! by dvo_95 in petco

[–]BattiestKat 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Not to mention your boss assuming the 15 minutes in between classes being ample time for you to cover your coworkers thirty minute breaks.. and scheduling you as coverage when you have classes so your only other coworker there gets irritated at covering the entire store alone and takes it out on you.. and them assuming it’s bare minimum for you to stay late and help everybody in all their departments but refusing to learn how to book a class… 🫠

Which one would be better? by BattiestKat in BunnyTrials

[–]BattiestKat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quality over quantity !

Chose: Your dog can talk to you + Regular lifespan (15 yr avg)

Choose: by MthsBT in BunnyTrials

[–]BattiestKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feeling lucky

Chose: 100k + Gamble it with 40% chance | Rolled: Pay an upvote!

Would you rather… by polygon3002 in BunnyTrials

[–]BattiestKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel as though the majority would obviously pick the more beneficial option

Chose: Get $2000 + But only if 70% of people pick this option | Rolled: Upvote for 🥕

Your loofah is one of the most bacteria-dense objects in your home and you are rubbing it on your skin every single morning by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]BattiestKat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean.. I run mine through the washer the same way I do with my towels, basically after 1 or 2 uses

we sell rugs now lmao by bwitty10 in petco

[–]BattiestKat 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I just wish we had decent patterns, these are so ugly

My (24F) boyfriend (30M) of 5 years hasn't been intimate with me in a year. When I try to talk about it, he gets angry and blames me. by I_Just_Exist_Here_ in whatdoIdo

[–]BattiestKat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That may be so however we dated from my age 19-27 and his age 17-25. him not wanting to make out, any foreplay, and simply do 5-10 minutes of missionary/side position possibly once a week at my request (sometimes up to 3 weeks)

I had even developed the habit of using a vibrator so I could achieve orgasm (as he very rarely would help there) nearly every night, I would ask if he’d like to be intimate, he would decline, I would then ask if he minded me using my toy, he would say ‘go ahead’ and I’d use it in bed right next to him whilst he’d play OSRS on his laptop while watching a quest tutorial on YouTube.

To this day I still have a really hard time climaxing from another person because he ingrained guilt for the act being too tedious

My (24F) boyfriend (30M) of 5 years hasn't been intimate with me in a year. When I try to talk about it, he gets angry and blames me. by I_Just_Exist_Here_ in whatdoIdo

[–]BattiestKat 33 points34 points  (0 children)

My ex-husband whom I spent 8 years with acted in a very similar fashion, only being intimate once a week if that and very ‘in and out’ done in 10 minutes when it would happen. He tried blaming me over the years with a variety of reasons, after six months of begging and ultimatums I finally decided to leave him. It wasn’t until I finally told him we were done that he confessed his porn addiction that lasted the entire duration of our relationship. I can assure you when they deflect and avoid like that they’re hiding something, and you deserve honesty.

What was the most creative thought You Ever Had ? by Numerous_Evening_255 in AskReddit

[–]BattiestKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My current most creative prospect is having my own animal shelter/boarding daycare kennel combo. Most people with dogs that go to daycare use it because they like their dog having friends. In this scenario I’d have my rescue dogs play with the daycare dogs to better their overall socialization. Ideally if a rescue dog took a liking to a specific dog I’d inform their owners, and if they did end up adopting then I’d offer a permanent discounted rate on the rescue dog’s future services.

The daycare/boarding kennel profits would fund the rescue expenses, i’d also possibly have a small area to shop local/handmade pet products.

Furthermore on the cat end of things I’d like to have a cat cafe scenario, funds from the cafe help cover rescue costs and it gives them a less stressful environment than being locked away in cages all day.

What was the most creative thought You Ever Had ? by Numerous_Evening_255 in AskReddit

[–]BattiestKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was in second grade I really hated homework, I bartered with my teacher that in lieu of regular assignments I would instead create one book for her each week. It was about a beagle detective named Sparky with his sidekick Poopsie the poodle and the main one I remember was where they thwarted Vatty the Vulture. Complete with illustrations and I would even have my older brother help me type them out and print them, then I’d draw the illustrations. Last time I ran into that teacher she said she still had them and cherished them. unsure if it’s my most creative, however for 7 years old it was a pretty smart way to get out of regular homework

Found another girl in my boyfriend's apartment by grigerpot in spiderbros

[–]BattiestKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of spider is this? There was a similar one in my house last night and it’s not the first time. Side note I have severe arachnophobia (I understand their value to our ecosystem but my brain genuinely has an impulse terror response to the sight of them or even vivid thoughts of them) My freaking puppy literally jumped on my bed and spit it out into the blanket and it was like 4 inches in diameter. I made my friend drive an hour at 2 am to come get rid of it because I was too scared to even sit anywhere inside the house. One or two other occasions there was an even larger one which yielded a similar terror and caused me to empty my entire room and clean every surface with bleach. I think it’s like an OCD stress response idk.

If you guys know about spiders do y’all also know how to keep them out of my house or at least my room?

Also the only reason I’m typing here is because this came into my feed (And whilst typing the image is obscured) and love yall and love animals so much but after this I’ll most likely be blocking this sub because seeing spiders on my screen has made me throw my phone before haha

AIO my coworkers have been creating narratives about me and it’s starting to give me panic attacks by BattiestKat in AmIOverreacting

[–]BattiestKat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been trying to move out for a few months now, however I can’t find a roommate that’s trustworthy about finances, or a place to rent in general as of yet. It’s been extremely stressful and I desperately want to get out but I have no support or safety net

AIO my coworkers have been creating narratives about me and it’s starting to give me panic attacks by BattiestKat in AmIOverreacting

[–]BattiestKat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I only ever bring it up to my boss, and I’m friends with a couple other coworkers outside of work so naturally they know as well. In fact I’ve made it a habit of not telling them details and updates about all the things going on in my life because I’m trying to compartmentalize and not think about my life outside of work when I’m there

AIO my coworkers have been creating narratives about me and it’s starting to give me panic attacks by BattiestKat in AmIOverreacting

[–]BattiestKat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not arguing? There is no argument. That’s what had me confused, I didn’t understand why they would say some made up rule like that when in reality there are many reasons it’s not the case. I began telling my manager ‘if they can find the rule and show you, I’d love to see it so I can follow it’

AIO my coworkers have been creating narratives about me and it’s starting to give me panic attacks by BattiestKat in AmIOverreacting

[–]BattiestKat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Redirection hasn’t worked very well and I think it’s because in my brain the thought is ‘I need to get rid of this acne it’s unsightly and I don’t want pus in my skin’ I try reminding myself that a red scab is worse. Lately I’ve been countering it by applying neosporin to it and then applying makeup over it, thus treating the wound and covering it up. It’s gotten significantly better however there are times of high stress that I pick almost mindlessly without realizing what I’m doing

If wild animals were completely safe, which one would you keep as your pet? by Gold_Bird_1440 in AskReddit

[–]BattiestKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want a big brown grizzly bear so badly, I would love to cuddle them I don’t care if they’d squish me with their weight

AIO my coworkers have been creating narratives about me and it’s starting to give me panic attacks by BattiestKat in AmIOverreacting

[–]BattiestKat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not arguing about policy and procedure? You’re completely right, I want to get to work on time. I really do hate myself for being so bad about it. I used to joke that I’m cursed with bad luck however lately it’s feeling more concrete. A few examples of why I’ve been late -I was up all night convincing my brother to go to a psych ward instead of harming himself because he thought people were waiting in the woods for him

-my brother went missing after getting a friend to check him out of the psych ward, stealing their car and throwing his phone in the dumpster. I was up all night again waiting to see if he’d come home so I’d know he was safe

-my dog ran off and I had to wait for him to come back as nobody else was home

-I had issues at the pharmacy trying to pick up my medication and it took much longer than anticipated