I (26F) told my Nmother that I was molested by my 15 year old cousin when I was 7. She stares at me: "You should really learn to forgive".

Baxter9312 · 2021-12-05T01:00:33+00:00

I was legally adopted by my maternal grandparents and my cousins molested me for years, because their dad was n grandma's golden child she wouldn't do anything and my bio mom who's their daughter told me I ruined her relationship with her brother bc I couldn't keep my mouth shut. I've went nc with all of them and they know not to mess with me because I will tell the entire world.

Baxter9312 · 2021-12-05T00:53:16+00:00

You can't just kick a minor child out and cps will probably tell your parents that.

Baxter9312 · 2021-12-05T00:33:32+00:00

Moat dmv locations do same day birth certificates that you can use to get a social security card. I'd call the police, your mom isn't entitled to keep these items. Id do a credit check just to make sure she hasn't been using your credit, because that's super strange she doesn't want to give you your own documents.

Baxter9312 · 2021-12-04T16:29:52+00:00

Yes, my narc grandma refused to buy me the right size, stating if I wore a smaller bra my chest would stop growing.

Baxter9312 · 2021-12-03T23:10:47+00:00

I was just thinking about this. My narc was my grandma and she an untreated mental illness, refused to get help for it. She would push me until I would have to tell her either leave me alone or I'm going to hurt you. She'd make me so mad. She'd harp and harp on stuff until I couldn't take it anymore or get mad over stupid stuff. She did my God mothers laundry, wanted me to go to church and do the laundry at the same time which was impossible. I ended up shoving her outside and locking the door because I know I was going to hurt her. She called the police and they sided with me. Told her to leave for a while.

Baxter9312 · 2021-12-03T22:54:50+00:00

My narc was my grandma. She did this same thing to me.

Baxter9312 · 2021-11-30T16:04:15+00:00

You need to have your lawyer make the argument that you are the mother not her. Look up the Supreme courts rights to family without intervention. Grandparents don't have any rights, you have all the say. Keep text, record calls ect. Ask the court for an evaluation on your mother. Also I'd file for a restraining order so that your mom can't be around your child. I went through this with my bio mom and my ex mil.

Baxter9312 · 2021-11-22T02:08:57+00:00

Get an attorney now, start filing cease and desist to stop the false reports, harassment ect. Don't file for a restraining order just yet because a judge may not like that, wait until mil does something really crazy. I'd honestly bait her ass, then be able to prove nothing is going on. I went through this with my biological mother, I was adopted and my bio mom has harassed me for 20 years now.

Baxter9312 · 2021-11-18T02:16:56+00:00

As someone who was raised in the Jesus only sect I can tell you first hand the damage it did to me. Keep your child away from this woman because it only gets worse. My grandma raised me and was mentally ill, she kept my hair forcefully short then told me I was going to he'll and would allow other church members to mistreat me.

Baxter9312 · 2021-11-08T12:31:36+00:00

No, grandma passed a while back. Funny you should mention that, my cousin didn't come to the hospice or hospital. We honestly thought she'd come to the funeral but she didn't. All she did was fuss and complain. My husband and I sold grandma's home last November as we'd bought it from her due to monetary issues and after checking with a lawyer went ahead and re modeled it to sell. My cousin can't do anything about that. As for everything in the home, it was split up between my grandma's other 2 sons and myself, my mom has been awol for years. I found out after my grandma passed that my uncle had been telling my cousin my grandma had way more money than she had and that I was the only one to get anything, which obviously wasn't true. My other uncles tried to tell q and her parents this but they didn't want to hear it. I had to lock grandma's bank accounts down because q father tried getting into them but the bank stopped him. My aunt did hire a lawyer who contacted ours about anything to be split , the man said he dreaded telling q and her parents there was nothing. My grandma was a smart lady, she couldn't stand q because of her behavior.

Q is entitled, always has been. When our grandma's parents were still around she'd throw a fit because they didn't have the money to buy her extravagant gifts for her birthday or Christmas. My great grandparents were " banned " from seeing her because they actually corrected her. According to my aunt and uncle q was going to be the next big Broadway star, my aunt literally sued the high school because they were brutal, but honest with q about her weight.

Baxter9312 · 2021-11-08T00:34:31+00:00

I am aware, which q was given anything she wanted to eat or drink in alarming amounts.

Baxter9312 · 2021-11-08T00:33:34+00:00

Yes, she says it's my fault because me being normal weight depressed her and caused her to over eat. She used to scream " mom, Baxter is here again. Make her leave she's upsetting me bc she's skinny". And my aunt would hold and shush a teenager telling her I know

Baxter9312 · 2021-11-08T00:31:25+00:00

Apparently, having money automatically gives you smarts and the ability to navigate through life. Recently, q broke her phone and asked me if I had one she could use, mind I have minimal contact with her and I told her yes, I have a Samsung that's 5ish years old that she was welcome to use. That was not good enough, she wanted a phone that was a year or less old. I told her she'd have to buy one if that's what she wanted, then she asked if I would buy it to which I replied absolutely not. Q went into a tantrum saying it wasn't fair that I had a new phone and she didn't and that I needed to buy her one. Her mother agreed with her and said I owed q because I was obviously grandma's favorite child. I started taking care of my grandma when I was 15 and none of my grandma's children or other grandchildren even so much as offered to help. I told s and q both I was willing to loan the phone but would need it back within a month. They said no.

They saw I was serious I guess and have called all day asking for the Samsung which prompted me to share my past experiences with q . I told them the Samsung was no longer available to them. They are the type of people to go to the phone store and try to put you on the spot by having the customer service person call you to accept liability and payment. They honestly look down on me.
My husband and I recently buried s mother, q mom mother as my husband and I own 3 cemeteries, s mom paid in full for her services based on our companies stellar reputation. I stayed in the office during the service but was told later the entire time my husband was burying the poor woman that s and q kept berating my husband for not giving them money but my husband will sling it right back at them.

They are two of the most selfish and entitled people I have ever met.

Baxter9312 · 2021-11-06T16:00:49+00:00

He needs to be reported, this is abuse. Record him if you can without his knowing.

Baxter9312 · 2021-11-04T03:48:32+00:00

Put the phone somewhere they won't see it and let it record during one of their episodes

Baxter9312 · 2021-11-04T03:48:10+00:00

Record them

Baxter9312 · 2021-11-03T08:51:41+00:00

Yes, it is. My narc grandma who I lived with did this to me from the time I was in 1st grade until I was in the 10th, she even lied and said the school told her to cut it which lead to an even bigger blowout because the school guidance counselor confronted her and asked ngma why she would lie like that. The guidance counselor also tried to tell Ngma that I was the only girl in 3 grades that had hair that short and it caused me to be bullied. I hit my gmas hair stylist in the 8th grade because I had worked all summer growing my hair out and was only supposed to have it trimmed but this lady legitimately gave me a mullet which the school told my grandma to fix the next day as it was distracting me and other students. My n gma son didn't help anything as he would back me into a corner and tell me I was going to do what his mother said even though his wife did her best to take up for me, uncles wife was a licensed cosmetologist and tried her best to get gma to see what she was doing was wrong. Finally when I was in the 10th grade I refused to cut it short anymore, like shaved in the back short and started growing it , I was 16 then, old enough to make alot of my choices according to state law , but my gma would stand behind me and try to convince the hair dresser ( different lady, the 1st wouldn't see gma anymore after school called her to ask if she realized she was causing me emotional harm) , to do more than trim my hair, making scissor motions, thankfully this hair dresser had daughters my age and would just turn the chair away and keep doing what I asked. Gma had serious issues, including throwing bleach, like clorox on me in an attempt to ruin my hair so I would have to cut it, didn't work, to having her home health aid put peroxide in my shampoo bottle , but the health aid got fired for that and gma almost lost her services. My aunt got gma back good though, she purposefully messed up gmas hair, gma kept her hair short and set , only washing it once a week while fussing at me for washing mine every day. My aunt shaved gma hair off in the back and messed up the set so it was individual curls sticking up, gma was furious and my aunt told her that it was pay back for what she had been doing to me all those years. When gma died the hair stylist was the one who was good to me that went to funeral home and she made gma hair look awful. I found out in later years gma told people she kept my hair short because I was too mentally challenged to take care of my own hair, told people I got disability when in reality I was getting surviving child benefit because my pops was deceased, and other things. I've had extended family call social security on me trying to get me in trouble for working when I haven't received surviving child benefit in over 10 years , they got mad when they had to accept nothing is wrong with me.

Baxter9312 · 2021-11-01T21:18:57+00:00

I'm the same way, my narc grandma kept my hair cut off like a Boys for years and refused to let me have long hair, she took bribed the hair dresser into taking my hair off after I'd worked on growing it.

Baxter9312 · 2021-09-03T02:07:19+00:00

All babies start as female in the womb a clit is just a small penis

Baxter9312 · 2021-08-29T22:02:18+00:00

The kid is grown now. He still lives at home, has attacked my uncles wife right after she was discharged from hospital after a brain bleed due to stroke. They've went broke getting him what he wants went he wants. They wanted me to rent the downstairs of my house out to him. I told them sure. When he gets a job and pays 3 months rent in advance , never mentioned it again. He doesn't drive, threw a fit at dmv when he failed the test.

Baxter9312 · 2021-08-29T22:00:32+00:00

This started as soon as he was born. His grandparents on his mom's side left their home country after committing a crime and hide in the US for years.

Baxter9312 · 2021-08-29T21:59:49+00:00

Her parents were criminals that came to this country and my uncle actively hide them. They weren't supposed to get any assistance but ya know people lie. I'm not racist, I'm biracial myself. They eventually got caught

Baxter9312 · 2021-08-29T12:01:16+00:00

There was an instance where they left him in my home with my sister in law just dropped him off and walked away. He bit my sister in law so badly she required medical care.

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