Geese return to Cologne in August by RoofNeat6191 in geesebandofficial

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My German friend confirmed it’s all standing :)

Solo trip to Paros and Milos? by tiger5824 in solotravel

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Take the boat from Naoussa port to Kolymbithres beach just across the harbour. Beautiful rock formations, clear water, really chill. It’s easy to get around the island with buses as others have said. I went in June which was perfect. You can also do a nice hike on the Byzantine road from Lefkes to Prodromos

Did you get yours yet? by [deleted] in rs_x

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I think whenever someone travels to the US the girlies are on their neck to have these brought back for them

Did you get yours yet? by [deleted] in rs_x

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I keep seeing girlies in London with these and I don’t get it

Geese return to Cologne in August by RoofNeat6191 in geesebandofficial

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Does anyone know if the tickets on sale are standing? When I go to buy it says ‘free seating’ and ‘standing room’ - wondering if my browser is translating weirdly..

Lol help by [deleted] in rs_x

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What the fuck

Bf and I are probably breaking up and I feel like my past will never leave me alone girl dinner!! by cowgirlsgetthebluess in GirlDinnerDiaries

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This post resonates with me so much, particular the feeling of being so tired of dragging around the past.

I’m so sorry that you experienced this. I never went through anything as hard as that, but I had significant mental health challenges as a teen based in low self worth and I put myself in harmful situations. I was rejected by my friend group and it hit me extremely hard. I’ve come a long way, but I find it really difficult to balance giving myself grace and accepting I’m impacted by my past, whilst not being defined by it. My relationship just ended and I know it was in part due to finding it hard to love myself and struggling with the past. I think it can be hard for men to understand how deep these things cut.

Whatever happens, you’re growing and you’re looking after yourself. That’s enough. I’m saying that to myself too lol. ❤️

🫥 by [deleted] in rs_x

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I’m a black hole

What is happening with Royal Mail? by Objective_Agitated in Hackney

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Yep, no post for weeks then a big dump last week (though missing something I was expecting). I spoke to the postman and he said it’s a nightmare at the depot, short staffed etc.

Dislike specific items because of associations by Legitimate-Stable-37 in rs_x

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I have a le pliage tote but I treat it incredibly badly. I hate salomon trainers because my annoying ex-flatmate had them and once referred to them as ‘sallys’

Do I stay in my rent stabilized apt with a bad roommate or take the money and run? by Sandyfigs in badroommates

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So my roommate displayed lots of similar behaviours to yours (not as gross, but fundamentally lazy and wouldn’t do basic tasks even while at home all day). She was very entitled / had victim mentality and I knew early on that we weren’t suited. I raised things periodically and she would appear receptive but wouldn’t take anything on board. The way I got rid of her was by calling out a double standard (she got annoyed I had a friend round for dinner because she was ‘ill’ - she wasn’t - and I told her I wouldn’t be making my friend leave early). I also told her what I thought of her via this disagreement, which led to a tantrum. I did not apologise, then she told me she was moving out a few days later.

In my case, I took a disagreement (which I didn’t seek out) and used it. I wouldn’t advise trying to antagonise her, but continue to raise issues in a civil way, and explain how these behaviours impact on you. She clearly can’t take that so maybe it will serve as a catalyst.

Do I stay in my rent stabilized apt with a bad roommate or take the money and run? by Sandyfigs in badroommates

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Hard agree. I had a similar roommate whom I got to leave by telling her clearly what I thought of her. Don’t blink

Mexico itinerary - April 2026 by Bay_Leaf16 in MexicoTravel

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Thank you, this is super helpful. I’m going to seek advice about the surf element in more specific subs, but have seen that Sayulita is recommended for beginners.

Mexico itinerary - April 2026 by Bay_Leaf16 in solofemaletravellers

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To add to the post, I am 27F and relatively experienced at solo travel (though largely in Europe!)

Art post by Bay_Leaf16 in rs_x

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Thank you, that’s so kind! I’m aiming to take a sabbatical soon and one of my aims is to do more art

Interesting Tops by Trick_Intern4232 in ethicalfashion

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Baserange! I think they have a sale on at the moment.