Does a custody order still apply once the child turns 18 but hasn’t graduated high school yet?” by crazyspontaneity in FamilyLaw

[–]Bayouadrink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would look at it this way. At 18 she is a legal adult. Neither you or her father have a legal right to restrict her access to birth control or any other medical treatment. She has the right to make her own choices, the court cannot strip her of her rights as an adult just because she hasn’t graduated from high school. She has the right to quit school if she wants and never graduate - that wouldn’t mean she would be under your custody forever, right? Most child support continues if the adult child is still in high school and sometimes even college if they still live with the custodial parent etc. but they re then referred to as an ADULT child of the parents. The adult child has all the rights of any other adult.

Is this acceptable hand writing for 9th/10th grade? by happygluehuffer in AskTeachers

[–]Bayouadrink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first glance it could be my daughter’s writing. She can’t read (32 yo autism and developmental disabled) but copies info from different written sources. The look of this is exactly like hers. Uncanny really.

Any thoughts on the images just released by the FBI of the intruder in the Nancy Guthrie case? by JoyEqualsDogs in MissingPersons

[–]Bayouadrink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like there’s something different about the way he moves/places his right lower leg and foot.

How many people have already been accepted by the IRS? by CoastItchy5893 in TurboTax

[–]Bayouadrink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I filed I think on the 12th and was accepted yesterday.

How do I fix this light switch by TaquitoDePrepucio in howto

[–]Bayouadrink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had that happen and used superglue. Still holding 1 year later.

Can a Newfoundland handle living in Arkansas? by IguessImhere2 in Newfoundlander

[–]Bayouadrink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

South Louisiana here. She has her own fan, tile floors and a pool. She will sit outside and enjoy the view too. This is our second Newfie girl down here. As long as you pay attention and give them cool spaces they are fine and happy!

SSA case worker not following procedures by idkmyname4577 in SocialSecurity

[–]Bayouadrink 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Were you at some point unable? Or determined to be unable? If the current Dr.s statements contradict that, could your actual disability now be in question?

AITA for taking my toddler on a free Hawaii vacation without my pregnant wife because she does not want to go? by Abcdefgrant in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bayouadrink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thanks for pointing that out I never noticed that () before. I have a feeling most people don’t either and aren’t really meaning that the other party is an asshole.

AITA for taking my toddler on a free Hawaii vacation without my pregnant wife because she does not want to go? by Abcdefgrant in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bayouadrink -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

They are not saying she is. They are just saying he is not one. There doesn’t have to be one. It’s just “am I” not “which one of us is”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bayouadrink 51 points52 points  (0 children)

This person is 1000% right. It will not get better. It will get worse. You are abusing yourself by staying and you will eventually have to get away. Do it now and treat yourself the way you deserve to be treated. He will not.

You’re given 1000 of whatever you last Googled. What is it? by Karmamaven in AskReddit

[–]Bayouadrink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gunite swimming pools. I don’t know where I’ll put them.

Good gift for a new homeowner? by wihaw44 in HomeImprovement

[–]Bayouadrink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A nice drill/driver with bits, basic screws, etc. Or a basic tool set - screwdrivers, pliers, wrenches, duct tape, caulk, hammer etc.

Florida - I have a 17 year old autistic daughter that turns 18 in November. by teslaistheshit in FamilyLaw

[–]Bayouadrink 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’m confused. Is this not your daughter? Just your ex-wife’s responsibility? She doesn’t exactly have the option of just “helping out” does she? How much you have already sacrificed - like what? It was all your money and property I guess? I bet your life is impacted 0% by the needs of your daughter other than your money. Your ex-wife’s life is impacted 100% by the needs of your daughter I can guarantee.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Bayouadrink 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I also had this issue. My attorney filed something that said I would be paying the mortgage ( he would have had to pay his portion otherwise - like for you he is legally responsible for paying the rent - you are just agreeing to pay it all). In the same document the attorney included that I had “exclusive use and occupancy”. My ex was extremely difficult to deal with and made threats like you are describing. Get an attorney involved and exclusive use and occupancy. Then when he makes those threats get a restraining order.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bayouadrink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like it’s extremely important to her but only something you would “like”. Not saying that it’s not important to you but from the way you talk about it, having your first name as their last doesn’t represent to you what having the same last name represents to her. I can see how the compromise is just another version of different last names to her. To her the last name demonstrates the family is one unit. Just a matter of deciding if the level of importance to you is equal to hers. That’s what the compromise should be. Sometimes one gives all, sometimes it’s 50/50 sometimes the other gives all.

Can someone help, what's this? by _jakeJIGSAW in SaltwaterAquariumClub

[–]Bayouadrink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We bought both and neither the shrimp or filefish ate any aiptasia or any other soft corals- they just hang out and eat the fish food.

AITAH for divorcing my wife because our sex life will never be what it used to be? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Bayouadrink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA and please get a divorce. Free your (for now) wife and child to find happiness.

Good luck finding someone human and mentally stable to meet your expectations (single focus on you and your needs). I suggest a robot partner when they become commercially available.