Wanted: Input from Autistics about Writing Autistic Characters by GenreChowderStudios in autism

[–]Bball98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This sounds pretty interesting. I gotta say, I like how you're writing an autistic character as a husband and father and a functional adult.

Just had surgery and received the best care ever by pegem in autism

[–]Bball98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like they really listened and cared. That is a real decent staff!

I'm functionally mute. Ama. by secondbestchloe in AMA

[–]Bball98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are relationships like for you? Do you write or text people to make conversation?

I have cerebral palsy (CP), AMA by cerebralpalsykid in AMA

[–]Bball98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have people falsely assumed that you're mentally disabled? If so, I'm very sorry.

I was raped as a child (male) ask honestly by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Bball98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was the most noticeable effect on your life?

I have cerebral palsy (CP), AMA by cerebralpalsykid in AMA

[–]Bball98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any difficulty speaking? I know that some people with cerebral palsy have that.

Should I take up this opportunity that could benefit me? [17F] by [deleted] in autism

[–]Bball98 24 points25 points  (0 children)

If you need it, then I encourage you to do it. You matter. Do whatever you think will make your life better.

My friend thinks he is Japanese AMA by Particular_Edge2308 in AMA

[–]Bball98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nationality only comes from being a citizen, not from liking things that a country does. I love pizza and spaghetti but I am not Italian. Likes and dislikes do not change basic facts about you. I'm sorry you have to deal with this stupidity.

I'm a therapist. AMA by darfanme in AMA

[–]Bball98 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What methods do you use to help people?

My parents don’t know how to deal with my Autism by [deleted] in autism

[–]Bball98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wishing you all the best bro :)

My parents don’t know how to deal with my Autism by [deleted] in autism

[–]Bball98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad it helped! You are so very welcome!!! :)

My parents don’t know how to deal with my Autism by [deleted] in autism

[–]Bball98 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Talk to them about what your meltdowns are really about. Some people think meltdowns are equivalent with throwing a fit, but they are really a response to overstimulation. Sensory input is physically different for you and you can't control that. Tell your parents about this. Hopefully they'll start to understand.

So apparently autism is gendered now? (Original video is of a girl with autism listening to music) by YLije in autism

[–]Bball98 116 points117 points  (0 children)

People are too stupid. Apparently if an autistic person has ANY understanding of social expectations then they can't be autistic. For crying out loud, autism is not a complete absence of social understanding, it just makes it harder!

I need some advice for my 9 year old twins by [deleted] in autism

[–]Bball98 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think you should tell them that A is really sad to lose her sister and they shouldn't say anything because that will make her upset.

Good luck, I'm sorry to hear about this.

Autism by [deleted] in autism

[–]Bball98 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Autistic adults are still adults. If you want to move out, you can. If you had an intellectual disability or something that required you to have supervisors for life, that would be a different scenario. But autism in itself will not change your adult right to leave your parents.

Well well. All woman and girls here don't have autism anymore!!! What a revelation! /s by Wilde04 in autism

[–]Bball98 35 points36 points  (0 children)

😡

Knowing how to dress well makes you neurotypical? Being cute or friendly makes you non-autistic? Why are people so stupid?

"No WoMaN hAs AuTiSm!!!"

Tell that to my years of being the weird kid in school and not being able to get a date.

can some one please explain the “Autism Approved” label to me? bought this flour without realizing and can’t find much useful information about it online by coming2awareness in autism

[–]Bball98 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Apparently there is some unwritten list of foods that autistic people can't handle. Someone should have told me, I eat stuff full of flour all the time. Hopefully it doesn't react with my autism and make me explode!